Members Amylynn920 Posted December 21, 2007 Members Report Share Posted December 21, 2007 I am in my second relationship, first husband was a horrible lover, and hated oral both giving and receiving. So I don't have a lot of experience here. I was reading a response regarding bj's from Mike and he was saying that orally it usually takes him about 25-30 minutes. I know for mine he takes about that long too, not that I mind at all, because I love doing this for him and I know he loves it, but where men are usually quicker to orgasm than women, do most women take longer orally? Because sometimes for me manually it's about 20 minutes. Sometimes I hate being a woman for that reason, it takes us so much longer than men in alot of things. I'm afraid to think about how long he would have to be doing that for me to come. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mikayla1 Posted December 22, 2007 Members Report Share Posted December 22, 2007 Hmmmm....that seems like a VERY long time to me! I can not always cum at the drop of a hat (or the lick of a tongue) but normally within 5-10 minutes at the LONGEST I start orgasming. I have always been this way - and albeit it takes slightly longer now than it did the first few years, but still, I can't imagine a 30 minute session withough an orgasm.I am not saying that there is ANYTHING at all "wrong" with you, but in my opinion, that seem long? Does he use his fingers? Stimulate your clit and suck, lick, blow, bite...you know, mix it up? In my experience, that helps! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Amylynn920 Posted December 22, 2007 Author Members Report Share Posted December 22, 2007 Hmmmm....that seems like a VERY long time to me! I can not always cum at the drop of a hat (or the lick of a tongue) but normally within 5-10 minutes at the LONGEST I start orgasming. I have always been this way - and albeit it takes slightly longer now than it did the first few years, but still, I can't imagine a 30 minute session withough an orgasm.I am not saying that there is ANYTHING at all "wrong" with you, but in my opinion, that seem long? Does he use his fingers? Stimulate your clit and suck, lick, blow, bite...you know, mix it up? In my experience, that helps!I don't know what his technique is, he did it a couple of times for a few minutes, I don't want to ask him for it if it's going to take me longer than manually and then end up frustrating us both. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted December 22, 2007 Report Share Posted December 22, 2007 Everyone is right. It really depends on the woman, and how well she is in touch with her body, relaxed, and if she knows how to let go to have an orgasm! There's no set time-frame for something like getting your "O" on. Both men & women usually know, after they've had regular orgasms, how long it takes them to reach an orgasm, how they get there, and what sort of stimulation they need to do so. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members pappyld04 Posted December 23, 2007 Members Report Share Posted December 23, 2007 I believe that it is in the enthusiasm, technique, and experience of your man also. So please don't think it is only about the woman. As Howard stated some women will never cum by oral. Those who can and will are still limited by their partner. Remember how many posts about the 3 second lickers? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members deborah126 Posted January 20, 2016 Members Report Share Posted January 20, 2016 On 12/22/2007 at 7:44 PM, Mikayla1 said: Hmmmm....that seems like a VERY long time to me! I can not always cum at the drop of a hat (or the lick of a tongue) but normally within 5-10 minutes at the LONGEST I start orgasming. I have always been this way - and albeit it takes slightly longer now than it did the first few years, but still, I can't imagine a 30 minute session withough an orgasm. I am not saying that there is ANYTHING at all "wrong" with you, but in my opinion, that seem long? Does he use his fingers? Stimulate your clit and suck, lick, blow, bite...you know, mix it up? In my experience, that helps! responding to an older post here. Mixing it up for me makes me lose it. Once he's found the right touch and the right spot it just keeps building. If he changes, speed or flicking I can feel it go away. And yes, it very well may take 30 minutes or more. I've told him if I get quiet then he'd best go back to where he was when I was moaning and squirming. I've read some men think women are faking the vocals and some women may, not I. If I am quiet something isn't working. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members michelleddd Posted January 20, 2016 Members Report Share Posted January 20, 2016 Me too Deb, if he stops my groove it's back to square one. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted January 22, 2016 Report Share Posted January 22, 2016 Ditto to what Michelleddd said. You don't know how many times I've heard "how long does it take for you?" with men AND women. It's like, are we on a timer? Is there a limit to your attention? I didn't know there was a time constriction....... Take your time, have fun, please your lover. That's what it's about. Pleasure: being pleased and pleasing! 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Review Team l8niter Posted January 26, 2016 Review Team Report Share Posted January 26, 2016 I have to admit I sometimes switch things when down on wen but its to drive her to a frenzy so her orgasm is strong Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Jason Posted May 17, 2017 Members Report Share Posted May 17, 2017 If he enjoys giving oral to you then he wont mind being down there til you finish. Oral sex should never be an obligation to the giver. However, I have been with a girl who told me before we started that she doesnt cum easily. I took it as a challenge and I believe I disappointed us both. Some women need help getting there. Tootimid has many toys dedicated to getting her there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members tiedupnaked33 Posted June 4, 2017 Members Report Share Posted June 4, 2017 On 12/21/2007 at 5:45 PM, Amylynn920 said: I am in my second relationship, first husband was a horrible lover, and hated oral both giving and receiving. So I don't have a lot of experience here. I was reading a response regarding bj's from Mike and he was saying that orally it usually takes him about 25-30 minutes. I know for mine he takes about that long too, not that I mind at all, because I love doing this for him and I know he loves it, but where men are usually quicker to orgasm than women, do most women take longer orally? Because sometimes for me manually it's about 20 minutes. Sometimes I hate being a woman for that reason, it takes us so much longer than men in alot of things. I'm afraid to think about how long he would have to be doing that for me to come. I would have my middle finger in your ass and my thumb in your pussy while I was giving you oral. It would not take you long at all. I call this "the treatment". Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Kinkster Posted June 4, 2017 Members Report Share Posted June 4, 2017 Slide in a dildo, and slip in my tongue on her clit, and it can only take seconds sometimes! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members tiedupnaked33 Posted June 4, 2017 Members Report Share Posted June 4, 2017 46 minutes ago, Kinkster said: Slide in a dildo, and slip in my tongue on her clit, and it can only take seconds sometimes! That's another good option! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Kinkster Posted June 4, 2017 Members Report Share Posted June 4, 2017 1 hour ago, tiedupnaked33 said: That's another good option! It should go on everyone's 'to-do' list! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members tiedupnaked33 Posted June 4, 2017 Members Report Share Posted June 4, 2017 1 hour ago, Kinkster said: It should go on everyone's 'to-do' list! I agree , 69 at 6 and 9 A.M and 6 and 9 P.M. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Kinkster Posted June 4, 2017 Members Report Share Posted June 4, 2017 6 minutes ago, tiedupnaked33 said: I agree , 69 at 6 and 9 A.M and 6 and 9 P.M. And for the creampie fans, try the tool & toy 69 after cumming in her! Messy fun for sure, especially if she is on top, but it is sure to please her!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Wisconsin Cougar Posted August 15, 2017 Members Report Share Posted August 15, 2017 I consider myself a pretty good cock sucker and can and have made him cum with in minutes, perhaps before he goes to work or a quicky in a parking lot before we go shopping. But mostly I enjoy hours of teasing him edging him and then when he is out of control he shoots huge loads. It incredible that in his mid 50's can still maintain an erection all evening. He has one of the most gorgeous cocks I have ever seen and his size is to me bigger than need be but I love it the same. I am a very petite women and his monster 8 inch thick cut cock sometimes takes awhile to get my ass used to it. once he is in all is good and I love it. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members tiedupnaked33 Posted August 16, 2017 Members Report Share Posted August 16, 2017 You are making me hard. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Wisconsin Cougar Posted February 25, 2019 Members Report Share Posted February 25, 2019 I think the longest was around 15 minutes or so, but due to my extradinary oral skills most don’t last 5 minutes. 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Juan Posted February 25, 2019 Members Report Share Posted February 25, 2019 Depends on who's doing the oral!!😂 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members l9vebigfatcocks Posted October 8, 2019 Members Report Share Posted October 8, 2019 On 8/15/2017 at 4:35 PM, Wisconsin Cougar said: I consider myself a pretty good cock sucker and can and have made him cum with in minutes, perhaps before he goes to work or a quicky in a parking lot before we go shopping. But mostly I enjoy hours of teasing him edging him and then when he is out of control he shoots huge loads. It incredible that in his mid 50's can still maintain an erection all evening. He has one of the most gorgeous cocks I have ever seen and his size is to me bigger than need be but I love it the same. I am a very petite women and his monster 8 inch thick cut cock sometimes takes awhile to get my ass used to it. once he is in all is good and I love it. Would love to see his cock Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Amy D Posted October 9, 2019 Members Report Share Posted October 9, 2019 For me it depends on the situation. If we've already done a lot of foreplay, 5 minutes at the most. This is especially true when I'm really sexually attracted to the guy. In some cases it can happen soon after his tongue begins to explore around inside me. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members RideDaTrain123 Posted October 9, 2019 Members Report Share Posted October 9, 2019 Depends on the day for my wife. Some days it's around 5 min and one orgasm. Other days it's 15min or more and multiple orgasms before she pulls me up. I love it though, so I will lick, suck, finger and play until she makes me stop. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Amy D Posted October 9, 2019 Members Report Share Posted October 9, 2019 6 minutes ago, RideDaTrain123 said: ...I love it though, so I will lick, suck, finger and play until she makes me stop. Until she makes you stop? OMG. ❤️❤️ A dream come true.... 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members RideDaTrain123 Posted October 9, 2019 Members Report Share Posted October 9, 2019 1 hour ago, Amy D said: Until she makes you stop? OMG. ❤️❤️ A dream come true.... Ya, I love forplay, for me the best thing about sex is watching her orgasm over and over. And it all starts with the forplay. Unfortunately for me, she gets impatient and wants me inside her before I am ready to stop teasing/playing with her. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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