Guest Blondie_605 Posted January 17, 2008 Report Share Posted January 17, 2008 I have just started feeling around, and after reading somethings on here, I'm afraid that I'll have an orgasm and be too noisy. I've never had an orgasm before. What should I do to still have a fun time without toys, while still being pretty quiet? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Blondie_605 Posted January 17, 2008 Report Share Posted January 17, 2008 OK, so I just checked and I've seen that 11 people have viewed this. I need to know something within the next half hour or hour when people are leaving.....How can I have some kind of short temperary pleasure without making noise. Breathing is OK, just no loud moaning. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Blondie_605 Posted January 17, 2008 Report Share Posted January 17, 2008 Yes thanks. (finally) I don't know what to expect. I've been on the site a lot today and want to try a few new things. I don't know what to expect from me or what sounds I'll make, if any. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members synirr Posted January 17, 2008 Members Report Share Posted January 17, 2008 I think most people can be pretty quiet when they need to be I was once dating someone what lived 4 hours away, so we talked on the phone a lot. We'd play this "game" where we'd masturbate while on the phone chatting about completely normal, non-sexual things, and see how long it took the other person to notice (if ever). I can be totally silent if need be Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Valntyn Posted January 17, 2008 Members Report Share Posted January 17, 2008 OK, so I just checked and I've seen that 11 people have viewed this. I need to know something within the next half hour or hour when people are leaving.....How can I have some kind of short temperary pleasure without making noise. Breathing is OK, just no loud moaning.Please keep in mind that this site isn't manned 24/7 and that operators are NOT standing-by waiting to assist you as soon as one is available. Maybe in that half an hour's worth of your waiting, those 11 people were guests (unregistered) or maybe they just didn't have an answer for you, or maybe it was two people who read your post and found they had the same question so they kept checking back to see if anyone had answered you...My point being, as MUCH as we'd like to help everyone here and as MUCH as we'd like you to be able to pleasure yourself and reach the Blessed O, sometimes you may just have to wait for an answer. Until then, be creative in your own rights, figure out what works for you, and search the sight -- your answer may already be posted.I hope you were able to find what you were looking for in the hurried manner you were seeking it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members pappyld04 Posted January 17, 2008 Members Report Share Posted January 17, 2008 OK, blondie. I didn't see your post yesterday so I must ask how things went for you? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Blondie_605 Posted January 17, 2008 Report Share Posted January 17, 2008 Well, I'm still new to this, and I guess I didn't have any need to be quiet since not much happened. There was a sort of peak that lasted maybe 5 to 10 seconds, but it was over just as soon as it began. I'm still having trouble getting myself aroused by touching places other than my breasts and clit. I don't have any toys, and have no plans to get any. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members pappyld04 Posted January 17, 2008 Members Report Share Posted January 17, 2008 This is a beginning. This 5-10 second period is most addictive and many of us push ourselves to see just how long it can last, how far we can get, or how many times we can get there. I highly recommend that you figure out what is and is not enjoyable for you. This is the only way that you can truly teach another how to please you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Blondie_605 Posted January 17, 2008 Report Share Posted January 17, 2008 OK. This makes me feel better. Also, I can only get this feeling once a day at the most. Sometimes it just won't come. Am I doing it too often?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members pappyld04 Posted January 18, 2008 Members Report Share Posted January 18, 2008 AH but TNymph, VD is just around the corner! LOL!!!! Valentine's that is! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Blondie_605 Posted January 18, 2008 Report Share Posted January 18, 2008 I'm just not interested in getting toys. Yes I live in the dorms. Also, my parents would be outraged if I got them any toys. That's just the way they are. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members OPL Laundry Goddess Posted January 18, 2008 Members Report Share Posted January 18, 2008 Firstly, I can address the noise issue... I find most people can control the noises they make. If the situation calls for it, even the most passionate and verbal lovers can be completely silent when needed. I do find that even when it feels good to moan and groan, the volume level can still be regulated.As far as toys go, you would be severly limited in a dorm, especially if you are in a roomate scenario. What I'd suggest is one of those sweet "lipstick" vibrators. Stored in the back of your make up bag or drawer, no one would have any idea what it was unless they actually took it out and inspected it. Also, hides nicely in your purse in the same manner, so you could travel easily with it.I wish you patience and luck in your exploration. Learning to know your body is a skill like any other. It takes time and trial, but it will give you great rewards!~the laundry goddess Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Blondie_605 Posted January 18, 2008 Report Share Posted January 18, 2008 Hooray! Last night was a lot better. I'm much better at "building it up" as you guys say, and I actually reached two peaks!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Stacykins Posted January 28, 2008 Members Report Share Posted January 28, 2008 This post is a bit late, since I am new to the forum. But I thought I'd offer some advise/experience. It is great you were finally able to find some 'happiness', and it indeed does get a lot better!Is your room situation like one single room with beds, no real privacy? That is the typical dorm room, unfortunately. But there is a good thing. You probably know your roommate/s better than anyone else, since you live with them 24/7! Their quirks, habits, etc. I've found after sharing a dorm like the one described with another girl, that I've learned her sleeping habits, and thus know when the engage in some 'playtime' . When she is awake/newly asleep she is very mobile and rolls around a lot. But when asleep, no movement. I also know she is an extremely deep sleeper, she's slept through fire alarm tests and outrageously loud alarm clocks (through I remain very quiet still). Ever since I've learned this, I have not been deprived (which I was slightly worried about when I came to college). For all I know, she knows my sleeping habits and has done the same Also, there is the shower, which always means some private time. If you haven't done anything in there, I definitely recommend you give it a try. And if you are interested in toys, it would be very easy to get a discreet, waterproof toy for shower time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members froggystyle1977 Posted January 29, 2008 Members Report Share Posted January 29, 2008 congratulations on exploring your body, while i have never experienced living in a dorm I know the no privacy thing (having three kids) and being quiet can sometimes be very important (when i was first with my hubby we literally woke his nieghbors) I learned that when you need to be wuiet you can be it all depends on the situation, enjoy your exploration I can garentee that alot of others in your dorm are doing the same!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members MystryKitten Posted February 3, 2008 Members Report Share Posted February 3, 2008 I started masturbating at a very young age and to muffle my sounds I would 'scream silently' My mouth would me open in pleasure of the orgasm but no sounds would come out. In case I accidently left out a soft moan, my music would be on Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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