Members huskerfanatic Posted February 22, 2008 Members Report Share Posted February 22, 2008 Hello, i am male who has discovered the pleasure of using a vibrator in the anus to produce sexual pleasure. Are regular toys such as a dildo or vibrator ok? If i masturbate while doing this thinking of threesome situations with males and females included, does that mean i could not be totally str8? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mikayla1 Posted February 22, 2008 Members Report Share Posted February 22, 2008 First, I would never use a toy that is not designed for anal play during anal play. The reason is, anal toys have a special bottom that prevents them from being sucked up into the anal canal. It is totally true that toys, items, animals (yes, animals) have gotten stuck up inside and had to be medically removed. So use toys that are designed for anal play (or ones which could never be lost).Second, NO, wanting anal play does not make you gay or bi. Fantasies are fantasies, nothing wrong with them. I personally believe that the lines between gay and straight are more blurred than most people think. Pleasure is pleasure, and fantasies are fantasies, enjoy your life and just play safe! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted February 22, 2008 Report Share Posted February 22, 2008 Mikayla is absolutely correct, as usual! My hubby is the most "not-gay" man. He is one of the "good ole boys" of the south, and for the longest time was most definitely of the "Hell no" group when it came to anal sex. Now he really enjoys it. We have a variety of toys, and we even use dildos (strap ons). Straight dildos we haven't used. He likes the things with the bases for easier gripping.The thing to remember with anal sex is lots of toy-compatable lube (meaning no silicone lubes on silicone toys). Silicone lubes ARE best, IMO, for anal play, since it stays slicker longer. And use an abundance of it for a more comfortable ride. Toys that have a little bit of bend to them, so they can bend and constrict to your anal cavaty are also more comfortable. 3-somes are a very common fantasy to have, no matter what the numbers of males to females. If you were fantasizing about men only, but enjoy women too, you may have bi-tendancies/curiosities that have yet to be explored. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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