Newbie justin.diercks Posted March 19, 2008 Newbie Report Share Posted March 19, 2008 My wife and I have had anal sex a few times now. I've heard a couple times that if you have anal sex too often, the persons anus may permanently strech and not fully close back up? Is there any truth to this? My wife thoroughly enjoys it and wants to get to the point where we can do it whenever we choose and not have it have to take so long to get it in. The other question I have, are there any risks with me cumming in my wife's ass? We aren't wanting kids right now, but very soon. We both like it when I cum in her ass, but are just curious if there are any risks involved with it. Any info would be great. Thanks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members luvmywifesass Posted August 23, 2012 Members Report Share Posted August 23, 2012 I know this answer has been a long time in coming, but my wife and I have been having anal sex three to five times a week for more than 20 years now, with no ill effects. I always cum in her ass. We both enjoy it so much, we've given up vaginal sex altogether. For more than six years now, we've only had anal sex. This said, I think I speak from experience when I say you and your wife can enjoy anal sex as often as you like. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members blewits Posted August 24, 2012 Members Report Share Posted August 24, 2012 Thanks for asking the question JD34. i was curious to know the answer as well. Thanks for the honest answer luv. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Sunday Posted August 24, 2012 Members Report Share Posted August 24, 2012 My friend will be so happy to hear this!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Cacky Posted August 30, 2012 Members Report Share Posted August 30, 2012 So wait a second. There is the cleanliness factor. (bacteria). Don't transfer from one to the other. And use lots of lube. I have had great anal (by myself). And have to remember not to transfer the toy. So I would recommend a condom for anal then take it off. And then there is always the omg I'm not clean enough. Which we have talked about before. How to get ready for anal. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members elise Posted September 1, 2012 Members Report Share Posted September 1, 2012 My wife and I have had anal sex a few times now. I've heard a couple times that if you have anal sex too often, the persons anus may permanently strech and not fully close back up? Is there any truth to this? My wife thoroughly enjoys it and wants to get to the point where we can do it whenever we choose and not have it have to take so long to get it in. The other question I have, are there any risks with me cumming in my wife's ass? We aren't wanting kids right now, but very soon. We both like it when I cum in her ass, but are just curious if there are any risks involved with it. Any info would be great. Thanks.I tried to reply to your post the other day but my browser crashed on me. So I'll try again.First question: those rumors of permanent stretching are completely untrue. My husband and I have been enjoying regular anal intercourse (as in somewhere between two and ten times a month or so...) for more than 2 decades, and my anus is just fine. And my husband is very well-endowed, so if anyone's butt was going to crap out (ahem, sorry about the pun!) it would be mine!Your wife's desire to get her anus trained to the point where penetration would be easier is good. As she may have noticed, taking your hard cock up her hot, tight little bottom is easier the more frequently you have anal sex. If we're on our regular routine, my husband will prepare my anus for penetration with a well-lubed finger or two while licking my pussy or using a vibrator on my clit, and after 2-3 minutes of that I'm more than ready to take all nine inches of him up my derriere. He is always gentle and careful on initial penetration, but under normal circumstances we're talking about 10-15 seconds from start to full impalement, and I'm more than eager for full-power thrusting as soon as he gets all the way inside me. But if we've neglected our anal activities for a couple of weeks or more--which sometimes just happens, other things have a way of keeping our attention now and then--it might take 5 to 10 minutes of foreplay for my anus to relax fully with his fingers, and even then initial penetration might take several minutes if we're going to avoid pain.Your wife can prepare her anus for sex ahead of time, too, which is something I often do. I start with an enema in the early afternoon while my husband is at work, and then a second enema an hour or so later. About an hour or so before he is due to come home, I'll insert a butt plug and wear that as I go about getting drinks and dinner ready. By the time he gets home I'm hot & bothered and my anus is nicely stretched and ready for a good fuck.As for coming in your wife's ass... absolutely, do it!!! A woman who loves her man loves feeling him come inside her, and there is absolutely no harm that can come to her from having you pump her ass full of sperm. I've probably taken gallons of my husband's come up my bottom over the years and I am in excellent health.. I just had my first routine colonoscopy a year ago and the doctor said my colon is perfect. As another testimonial, one of my girlfriends and her husband have used anal intercourse as their main sexual activity to avoid using artificial contraception for over ten years.So enjoy. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Sunday Posted September 2, 2012 Members Report Share Posted September 2, 2012 I love the way you describe things Elise. Makes me horny just reading your words."my anus is nicely stretched and ready for a good fuck.""there is absolutely no harm that can come to her from having you pump her ass full of sperm. I've probably taken gallons of my husband's come up my bottom over the years"Damn! Lucky guy!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members elise Posted September 3, 2012 Members Report Share Posted September 3, 2012 Thank you, sunday... and yes, he is a lucky man! Of course, I'm a lucky woman, too...We are very, very well-suited to each other, sexually and in other ways as well. We both had to get through some rough relationships to find out what we need/want in a loving partner, and one of those things each of us realized was that we both absolutely NEED a partner who matches each other's libido, sense of sexual adventurism, fidelity, and trust. As for liking my way with words, I have to confess that I don't tend to spend much time writing about sex (here or elsewhere) when we're having lots of it... but when he travels on business for extended periods, I get so horny and I can't stop thinking about sex... reliving memories of great fucking, planning the erotic games we're going to play when he gets home (or I travel to meet him), and no amount of solo sex/masturbation can curb my desire.That's when the words just HAVE to come out! That's when I write my sexy stories (and read them to him over the phone while we both masturbate) and spend time here at tootimid. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted September 3, 2012 Report Share Posted September 3, 2012 This is actually a good topic that some people are too shy to ask their doctors. Anal sex has a stigma to it that many people try to avoid, even though they enjoy having their backdoors opened and played with.As with any sexual activity, there are risks, as well as pleasures.True, it is a myth that your rectum can get stretched out. I think that that's stemmed from when you have anal sex over long periods of time, your body/anus is trained to receive going UP inside of it, making some people think that they've stretched, when all they've done is train the body to accept something it's not normally designed to do.Yes, there's a cleanliness factor that people must be aware of. You should never "double-dip", meaning don't go from the rectum to the pussy. Always take the time to clean up before engaging in vaginal or oral sex. There is bacterial up inside the rectum that can aggrevate and irritate the vagina, causing infections. So, best to wash in between "dips". Some adult DVDs show the "double-dipping" and so some people think that's ok. I wish they would not show that sort of thing (and I LOVE porn flicks) just because of the health factors involved.The anus is NOT a self-lubricating orifice, so take care to use lots of lubes. There are lubes out there that are specifically designed for anal sex, many of those are silicone based. Be careful though: silicone based lubes can eat away condoms and silicone based toys (like UR3/Cyber-skin). Be sure that if you do use a silicone-based lube, it says CONDOM COMPATIBLE on it. That way, you know you're safe all around.The other thing anal sex takes is TRUST. If your lover wants anal sex, then changes their minds, for whatever reason (usually pain with going too fast), respect that, and back off/out. Do not ever force anal sex if the receiving, ahem, end has changed their minds. Trust me, nothing hurts more than a torn anus....owie.When first staring anal, slow and steady wins the pace. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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