Male Anal Penetration?

[gea]

I have always dated men who were for lack of better words "homophobic". My boyfriend, whom i have been for 5 months now, has asked me a couple of times about anal penetration for him. I don't know why but this really unnerved me. While i don't mind weird stuff being done to me, I am not one who likes to do weird stuff to some one else. Multiple times he has brought up a strap-on. Does anyone have any suggestions on what i should do?

[Jaca]

Hi Lizzie,

Firstly, don't do anything you're not comfortable with.

Secondly, browse through the education and forum sections of this site and read a bit able anal sex and the male prostate. Anal penetration can be pleasurable for men (and women) and it is obviously something that your partner is interested in.

Thirdly, talk to him. Let him know if/that you are interested in exploring it if it is something he wants to pursue. Take small steps and make sure you are comfortable with each step.

Have fun!

[Kinky Twinkie]

anal penatration on men gives them the most intense orgasms and you'll also see a larger then normal load in the amount of cum he spills. I to am one that enjoys it when the wife does this to me, and for me it goes to a fantasy of I have of femdom and male submission. It is like the ultimate way a guy can surrender himself to his lady is an expression I have heard over the years from those into fetish. a lot of gals here have husbands and other halfs that enjoy being penetrated by there lady, it also allows us to experince the experince we ask of our ladies whom we desire to penatrate. What good for the goose is good for the gander principle in effect here, and allows us to see what it feels like and allows the lady to experince what it like to be the one with the dick and what it feels like for example to do alot of thrusting in the various positions. many women feel it gives them power and alot of women enjoy it.

Glenn

[thurisas]

My question for you is why do you feel this is wierd? When you were young and first discovering that touching certain parts of your body produced pleasure was this wierd for you? It may have been at the time but as time went on you armed yourself with knowledge and found that you could make yourself feel very good by doing certain things. The same thing applies here. He has found something that brings him increased pleasure that does him no harm. The fact that the act of pleasure he wants to participate in is largely still taboo doesn't make it wierd or wrong. Society will change. A hundred years ago it was taboo for a woman to set alone in a room with a man and fifty years later we had free love. Today anal for men has some underlying negativity due to social stigma, how long do you think it will be before that quaint little thought falls by the wayside? Be a pioneer for pleasure, learn all you can about sex, pleasure and sensuality...learn to push your own limits and you will learn to be a truly great lover.

Randy.

[Tyger]

My hubby is one of the most homophobic men I know, and the most straight man I know, and he LOVES it when I insert something up his hole. He gets the prostate stimulation that he loves, and he says that it really feels great.

Just because other men may feel uncomfortable about it, but that doesn't mean that your current BF is gay, bi, or anything like that. He may be a bit more open, experienced, and willing to try new things, and who says that THAT'S a bad thing?