Members Angelina Posted May 16, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 16, 2008 When I masturbate I use bullets and a G-spot dildo even though I have a O I still feel frustrated.If I keep going it can become painful.I can be in pain I’m still so dam horny!Any ideas would be appreciated. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members cmwise1 Posted May 16, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 16, 2008 When I masturbate I use bullets and a G-spot dildo even though I have a O I still feel frustrated.If I keep going it can become painful.I can be in pain I’m still so dam horny!Any ideas would be appreciated.Much blood enters the pelvis inside before you have an orgasm. After orgasm, there still may be residual blood flow which makes you feel "full" and many women take that feeling as 'not good enough' of an orgasm or that they might 'need more'. You can try just gentle stim until things in your pelvis calm down, or try something else on your clit so it is not painful to get you to a second O. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Amylynn920 Posted May 16, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 16, 2008 I agree with Iha. If there is no connection spiritually or emotionally, the release is physical and part of me is empty. But.. I am also mid 40's and sometimes I still feel like I need more orgasms because of that pelvic fullness feeling. I think partially with me that's hormonal. Lately it seems I'm always wanting sex. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Angelina Posted May 18, 2008 Author Members Report Share Posted May 18, 2008 I agree with Iha. If there is no connection spiritually or emotionally, the release is physical and part of me is empty. But.. I am also mid 40's and sometimes I still feel like I need more orgasms because of that pelvic fullness feeling. I think partially with me that's hormonal. Lately it seems I'm always wanting sex.YES! I’m also in my mid 40’s and all I can think about lately is SEX!You’re probably right about hormones I think I’m hornier now then in my 20’s.I was reading a book and was so dam horny I was in PAIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I’ve never experienced that before it was awful! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Angelina Posted May 18, 2008 Author Members Report Share Posted May 18, 2008 Much blood enters the pelvis inside before you have an orgasm. After orgasm, there still may be residual blood flow which makes you feel "full" and many women take that feeling as 'not good enough' of an orgasm or that they might 'need more'. You can try just gentle stim until things in your pelvis calm down, or try something else on your clit so it is not painful to get you to a second O.I don’t feel full unless I’m not getting what you mean by “full”.My feet feel kinda numb (I feel REALLY dumb saying that) and then I have a throbbing in the genitalia but I don’t think I’m full. I will try to give myself some gentle stim and see if that helps.I think Adien may have a point I wonder how much is hormonal. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Amylynn920 Posted May 18, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 18, 2008 YES! I’m also in my mid 40’s and all I can think about lately is SEX!You’re probably right about hormones I think I’m hornier now then in my 20’s.I was reading a book and was so dam horny I was in PAIN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I’ve never experienced that before it was awful!Yes it can be painful. But I figure I may as well enjoy it. 40's is the new 20's so I've heard lol. Get toys they're a good thing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Amylynn920 Posted May 18, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 18, 2008 I don’t feel full unless I’m not getting what you mean by “full”.My feet feel kinda numb (I feel REALLY dumb saying that) and then I have a throbbing in the genitalia but I don’t think I’m full. I will try to give myself some gentle stim and see if that helps.I think Adien may have a point I wonder how much is hormonal.Yes exactly what Pinky is saying. It's just normal congestion. You'll know when you're done with the orgasms when you just don't want any more. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mystofpric Posted May 18, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 18, 2008 When I masturbate I use bullets and a G-spot dildo even though I have a O I still feel frustrated.If I keep going it can become painful.I can be in pain I’m still so dam horny!Any ideas would be appreciated.I'm not a big fan of masterbation myself because i have the same problem as you, no matter how big or strong teh orgasim I'm never fulfilled. I just really love sex and to me masterbation is a cheap subsitiute. The other thing is with the pain post o, I find that taking a warm bath or shower gets the skin and nerves to relax and then I'm good to go again, just make sure it's water proof. Maybe you need more situmlation too, watching porn might help, or reading a dirty story. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Angelina Posted May 19, 2008 Author Members Report Share Posted May 19, 2008 I either read a book or watch porn, I’ve never really gotten into the whole watching men just pound into women on the vid screen but I was loaned a movie Pirates and WOW that was just the ticket.It’s hard for me to have orgasms I’ve always felt kind of bad for my partners so I’d do the horrible deed of Faking it!I was in my late 20’s before I even had an O and I remember crying it was so dam intense. I had a toy that I (was stupid) and threw out thinking I’ll just buy a new one it was kind of over due but I CAN’T find it anywhere and I don’t have a name either.I’m not going to give up besides we just made a GIANT leap for sex kind and read the post about male masturbation. I really didn’t think he would listen. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mystofpric Posted May 19, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 19, 2008 Atta girl! I love Pirates by the way. I'm not a fan of what I can man porn (guys just sensely banging someone) I'm totally in to story-line porn. Definitely watching with your hubby with be fun for both. As far as finishing goes, i look at it this way it's all about teh journey, your not always going to get to the finish line but as long as you relax and have fun with it, you'll get closer and eventually you'll get there! See I'ma messy finisher, and for a while I was so uptight and concerned about it I was faking them (yeah I watched porns and matched them tone for tone) but that's not fair to him or me. Good luck. If you need any more movies, just search for story line porn, Adam & Eve have lots of good stuff. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Angelina Posted May 19, 2008 Author Members Report Share Posted May 19, 2008 YEAH I do believe you are right it’s all about the journey eventually you’ll get to the top of the hill.Thanks.I did ask my husband if he was up to a little experimentation and he said sure as soon as we have time.I just cracked up, I commute 130 miles and work 10 hour shifts and he works all day and goes to school at night then we get to come home and take care of the cattle, chickens and dogs (oh ya and barn cats). Please i just want a little laundry ferrie.You can see why it’s so funny.If I can just get him to keep letting me read to him things on the site maybe we’ll find a little time after all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mystofpric Posted May 19, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 19, 2008 If I can just get him to keep letting me read to him things on the site maybe we’ll find a little time after all.Wait you read things to him? Oh that can be hot. Good for you two! I'm sure you'll make the time. sometimes that's just as much fun as actually using the time Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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