Members toohotcatmom Posted May 24, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 24, 2008 So, I ordered my hubby a Fleshlight (sorry - didn't get it here because TT doesn't have them). It came the other day and I must say it feels real! I couldn't believe it. Only thing is now that I've got it, how do I give it to him? He's absolutely okay with my toys and we've used a couple during sex a few times. He's just still got some barriers to break down - like he won't masturbate in front of me and anal sex is NOT his thing - but he's trying and making progress. Since I travel all the time, I just thought this would be fun for him to have - but now I'm kind of chicken....Any thoughts? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ManofHerdreams Posted May 24, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 24, 2008 So, I ordered my hubby a Fleshlight (sorry - didn't get it here because TT doesn't have them). It came the other day and I must say it feels real! I couldn't believe it. Only thing is now that I've got it, how do I give it to him? He's absolutely okay with my toys and we've used a couple during sex a few times. He's just still got some barriers to break down - like he won't masturbate in front of me and anal sex is NOT his thing - but he's trying and making progress. Since I travel all the time, I just thought this would be fun for him to have - but now I'm kind of chicken....Any thoughts?Wrap it like any other present and put a sexy note or maybe even some sexy pics of yourself in with it. The next time you have to leave for a trip leave it for him with instructions not to open it until you're gone.I'll bet he'll like it and your phone will be ringing so he can say thank you in person.Just be ready for some hot times when you get back home MOHD Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members angelkisses98 Posted May 24, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 24, 2008 Wrap it like any other present and put a sexy note or maybe even some sexy pics of yourself in with it. The next time you have to leave for a trip leave it for him with instructions not to open it until you're gone.I'll bet he'll like it and your phone will be ringing so he can say thank you in person.Just be ready for some hot times when you get back home MOHD the same idea popped into my head when i read this thread before reading your reply MOHD!!if you leave it for him when your not there, then maybe he wont be as embarrassed or stressed out to use it as he would if you were home. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members vanilla_bean Posted May 24, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 24, 2008 I just gave my husband his own toy. I wrapped it up in an animal print gift bag and hid it in his luggage when he went away on a business trip. I included some lube and a couple other goodies also. He loved it and phoned me from his hotel. We had a great time when he got home. Now his new toy has the place of honour in the top drawer of his dresser! I've used it on him once so far and it adds a new twist. Good for you for getting him his own toy. Let us know how he likes it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members toohotcatmom Posted May 24, 2008 Author Members Report Share Posted May 24, 2008 Oh that's a great idea leaving it for him when I next go out of town! That's exactly what I'll do. Won't be next week - hopefully week after....oh now I'm excited..hope he will be.Thanks everyone! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members pappyld04 Posted May 24, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 24, 2008 Next time you leave slip it under his pillow, wrapped or not, and leave him a note, sexy or not, saying the <add your choice here> <tooth fairy> is the example I will use being more common, has visited him! <toy/pleasure/sex fairy>are possibles! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members pappyld04 Posted May 24, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 24, 2008 You could also give it a nickname of sorts. - Hubby's other woman, out-of-town gf, whatever. Might make it easier for introduction into the bedroom! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members angelkisses98 Posted May 25, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 25, 2008 You could also give it a nickname of sorts. - Hubby's other woman, out-of-town gf, whatever. Might make it easier for introduction into the bedroom!hubby has given names to all my toy, so why not name his!? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members pappyld04 Posted May 25, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 25, 2008 Engraving had entered my brain but I have no clue as to how well constructed these things are. A permanent marker or paint would do as well! BOB is a well known moniker but I'm sure there are many more that fall along the lines of inside jokes or personal things between partners! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members toohotcatmom Posted May 25, 2008 Author Members Report Share Posted May 25, 2008 GREAT idea....and since we nicknamed his privates Joe and mine Mabel (don't know why - just did) I'll have to come up with something along those lines - thanks all! Maybe Joe's GF ....have to think about it.Engraving would be cool but the case is plastic and black - but I have a labeler! LOL - that would be too funny cause I'm always labeling something...tee hee - I'm getting evil ideas..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members pappyld04 Posted May 25, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 25, 2008 I've always thought that evil ideas are the best flavor! No matter how you go about it he will know it is your personal touch! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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