Members Neuroticax Posted May 28, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 28, 2008 I've just about had it with my body. For years I've tried everything under the sun to try and have multipal orgasms, but it just isn't working. If I wait at least 5 hours then maybe, if I'm worked up enough I can come again, but if I want a decent orgasms it seems almost once a day is the key. How boring? Here's what goes on.. I have an orgasm, whether it be the best or alright just to get off.. a couple seconds after I orgasm, the feeling becomes way too intense, almost like I'm being tickled. I've tried no clitoral stimulation with just vaginal entry. Nothing, there's been a few times where it feels like I think I can but then it just goes away.I know the most response will be "relax" .. I have relaxed, this has been a span over.. well, since I was about 17 and actually started to enjoy this kind of stuff. I've tried baths, massages, trying to get into a "sexual trance" or whatever you wanna call it, just being in the moment, really. Even when I've been on pain killers for various issues.. how much more relaxed can you be with muscle relaxers? lol I just hate how I feel singled out by this, I want to keep going so bad so many times and just have sex all night, but I just can't and it's so frustrating.Does this happen to anyone else? How can I finally get past this? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Amylynn920 Posted May 28, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 28, 2008 Yep, me. For the most part I can't do it. I have done it once or twice before, my body is betraying me all the time. So much I want to do and I just can't. No big toys, they hurt. No multiples coming easily for me. Don't feel bad you're not alone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members cmwise1 Posted May 28, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 28, 2008 Does this happen to anyone else? How can I finally get past this?Yes, and the harder I try the worse it gets. Sometimes they seem to come easy and sometimes I have to work hard for even one. I'm not sure what the difference is. Sometimes I'm relaxed , eager, excited and very into it, wet, the whole thing, and i am lucky if I come once. Even when I masturbate it doesn't always work..even once, and I stop eventually, much more frustrated than when I started. I don't think your abnormal. And you are not the only one. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sun_flower969 Posted May 28, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 28, 2008 I've just about had it with my body. For years I've tried everything under the sun to try and have multipal orgasms, but it just isn't working. If I wait at least 5 hours then maybe, if I'm worked up enough I can come again, but if I want a decent orgasms it seems almost once a day is the key. How boring? Here's what goes on.. I have an orgasm, whether it be the best or alright just to get off.. a couple seconds after I orgasm, the feeling becomes way too intense, almost like I'm being tickled. I've tried no clitoral stimulation with just vaginal entry. Nothing, there's been a few times where it feels like I think I can but then it just goes away.I know the most response will be "relax" .. I have relaxed, this has been a span over.. well, since I was about 17 and actually started to enjoy this kind of stuff. I've tried baths, massages, trying to get into a "sexual trance" or whatever you wanna call it, just being in the moment, really. Even when I've been on pain killers for various issues.. how much more relaxed can you be with muscle relaxers? lol I just hate how I feel singled out by this, I want to keep going so bad so many times and just have sex all night, but I just can't and it's so frustrating.Does this happen to anyone else? How can I finally get past this?YES this used to be me in a nutshell!! Tell me, are you having Gspot orgasms or just clitoral or both? Mine used to be strictly clitoral and I could not continue after 1 orgasm. I was fine with it BTW because sometimes I would not even have one at all! Now that I have multiples I am not satisfied with just 1. It's like your body gets greedy. Have you tried clitoral stimulation and vaginal at the same time? What exactly are you doing? If it's too personal you can PM me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ToyQueen Posted May 28, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 28, 2008 I was the same way---until I started playing with toys. Somehow, that was my key. I know that for me, I frequently have to back off the stimulation on my clitoris. If I wait a few minutes, and then go very lightly, it will work to have another. I almost never have true multiples, but I can orgasm several times with a break when I use a toy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members toohotcatmom Posted May 28, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 28, 2008 I don't have multiples....heck - I'm happy with one right now. Working on it though.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members synirr Posted May 28, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 28, 2008 I too have been practicing for years, but have only had true multiples maybe 2-3 times in my life, and even then it was only two in a row, and I have no idea what I did differently to achieve it. When I am trying to achieve multiples, I will orgasm, and it still feels good for about a minute or so, like I am SO CLOSE to having another... then gradually the excitement just sort of fades. I can build back up to another one, but it takes the normal period of time to do so (roughly 5-7 minutes). I can have as many as a I want in a given day, I just have to take time to build up to each one, and the most I've ever had was like 10 within an hour. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members chloegirl Posted May 28, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 28, 2008 Sad to say it's NEVER happened with hubby but sometimes I can get a really good solo session going and it will knock me out of the park! It's almost like my whole body goes into convulsions and even when I stop the stimulation at that point I can lay there and those waves will just keep racking thru my body for several minutes....I'll be twitching like I'm having seizures....it's soooo great and relaxing and after I am so jazzed I feel like I could take on the world! Doesn't happen every time....don't know why but it seems to have alot to do with how aroused I allow myself to get in my head more than anything. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members jennycherie Posted May 28, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 28, 2008 Even when I've been on pain killers for various issues.. how much more relaxed can you be with muscle relaxers?>>Just one thought, I've actually been completely UNable to orgasm while on painkillers. I know that it is important to be relaxed but for me, I think the painkillers take away too much sensation or something. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mikayla1 Posted May 28, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 28, 2008 Ladies, you can become multi-orgasmic, you can. I understand where you are now, I have been there. Becoming multi-orgasmic was not exactly a pain-free experience for me, but once I did it, I never looked back. My ex was into bondage, delayed orgasm and forced orgasm. He tied me down and used a hitachi magic wand on me for hours and hours causing orgasm after orgasm. After the first one, which came quickly. Then the pain started (the tickle sensation you mentioned) - it was excrutiating. I had another orgasm, then the pain was a little less, then another, a little less. I had to FORCE myself to work through it. Or, rather, I was forced to work through it. Now I can have multiples back to back and no discomfort at all! Oh sure, there is a little refractory period of a few seconds, but for the most part, it is multiples always.Please, please read my article on orgasms and multi-orgasms. Try my techniques. If you want to become multi-orgasmic, you can. There is no phsyiological reason why your bodies will reject multi-orgasms. train yourself. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members komana Posted May 29, 2008 Members Report Share Posted May 29, 2008 Chloegirl, what does your hubby think of that? I have a similar situation, and he's none too pleased at the moment :-/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest eminatic Posted June 1, 2008 Report Share Posted June 1, 2008 i can only orgasm once, after that everything HURTS. recently i am sometimes able to continue sex but its more for my bf than for me also once i orgasm no matter HOW turned off i am, the second i orgasm i am INSTANTLY not interested in sex whatsoever. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Neuroticax Posted June 2, 2008 Author Members Report Share Posted June 2, 2008 Rarely ever can I have an orgasm without clitoral stimulation. Even then I think somehow something is rubbing against it so it helps it along. I also have vaginal/clitoral. I don't even think I've had a g-spot orgasm? hmm. We've been working at it, and I thought I was coming REALLY close.. then.. right before.. it .. went away! I had an orgasm.. but it was like.. all hyped up and then was barely anything. I'll have to do more research, Mikayla. I've read so much, everything begins to blur together. The bf says he found my gspot, and it did feel a bit different, but I'm not sure anymore. Ugh! So frustrating.I'm so glad I'm not the only one, though! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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