Members whiskeywoman Posted July 13, 2008 Members Report Share Posted July 13, 2008 If this has already been posted, I apologize.I saw a reply to something I had written in another topic that made me think.(Yeah I know, break out the fire extinguishers)What is the longest time you have gone without having sex?No, self sex and blow up toys/animals do not count.Before my visit, it had been 3 years.It will probably be another 3 years Before I do it again. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Review Team sass Posted July 13, 2008 Review Team Report Share Posted July 13, 2008 For me, probably a little over three years. There was a time in my life that sex wasn't that big of a deal, so when I desided I needed a break from relationships for awhile (following one with an u-g-l-y break-up), I just did without sex, too. I can't imagine doing that now, though. I think that dry-spell is what has made me the way I am now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mailahn97 Posted July 13, 2008 Members Report Share Posted July 13, 2008 The longest I think at this point would be 5 months. I was thinking that wasn't good, but I will shut my mouth now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted July 13, 2008 Report Share Posted July 13, 2008 I think I went about 4 months...... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mystofpric Posted July 13, 2008 Members Report Share Posted July 13, 2008 i generally get it once a year, if i'm lucky on my birthday, only becaus eit falls (alsways) on alumni weekend at my college and I see my college FWB Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members thurisas Posted July 13, 2008 Members Report Share Posted July 13, 2008 Two years after a mind-fuck and I just wasn't interested in getting intimate with anyone again anytime soon after that.Randy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members cybele Posted July 13, 2008 Members Report Share Posted July 13, 2008 A little over two years of being frozen inside - not even desiring it after my husband came out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Amylynn920 Posted July 13, 2008 Members Report Share Posted July 13, 2008 I think with no self stim or toys or intercourse probably a few weeks. With no SI? 5 years. My ex and I slept in separate beds and it was in name only. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members froggystyle1977 Posted July 14, 2008 Members Report Share Posted July 14, 2008 I would say about 6 months. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ginshreve Posted July 14, 2008 Members Report Share Posted July 14, 2008 I hate to admit this, but it was 12 years for me after a nasty divorce. Not by choice, really, just lack of opportunity! Thankfully, my fwb has stopped the drought . . . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members OPL Laundry Goddess Posted July 14, 2008 Members Report Share Posted July 14, 2008 I married my "first" 19 years ago and since then I'd say the longest we've been without is the six week stints after each of our babies. A couple of those times it might have been an extra few days or a week after Drs discharge, but otherwise, we've been relatively consistant.~LG 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members tkla Posted July 15, 2008 Members Report Share Posted July 15, 2008 Ummmm probably a few weeks, after each of my kids....I'm thinking about 6 or 7 weeks, I married my husband at 19 and we are pretty consistant Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members DirtiestMindedVirgin Posted October 28, 2008 Members Report Share Posted October 28, 2008 Hehe...if my bf and I get married on the date we're planning on, it'll be...23 years, seven months, and 27 days! But of course that's ONLY if you don't count masturbation! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Shariana Posted October 28, 2008 Members Report Share Posted October 28, 2008 Until I was 18... and then after I broke up with that boyfriend, a few months. It will be 8 months until I have sex again.... Not too much longer! ^.^ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sun_flower969 Posted October 28, 2008 Members Report Share Posted October 28, 2008 6 years! From age 19-25! I was single and in a very religious movement.... LONG story!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members synirr Posted October 29, 2008 Members Report Share Posted October 29, 2008 About 3 years. I lost my virginity at 15, then didn't have sex again until I hit 18... not for any particular reason really, aside from there being nobody I wanted to have it with. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ohshelly Posted October 29, 2008 Members Report Share Posted October 29, 2008 Six years and 7 months, and I will never go that long again. Sweetguy asks how I ever made it that long, because now after three days, I am chewing the paint off the walls!Well, I tell him I was waiting for him............. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mystofpric Posted October 29, 2008 Members Report Share Posted October 29, 2008 well officially one year plus. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members SensualWoman Posted October 31, 2008 Members Report Share Posted October 31, 2008 I think only about 3 weeks... But I haven't had any kids and I haven't had a nasty break up. I've haven't had sex for that long. Ask me again in about 5 or so years and I'm sure I'll have a better story for ya! lol! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ladylove Posted October 31, 2008 Members Report Share Posted October 31, 2008 I've been married for 20+ years and the longest we've gone is 30 days; and only because the Dr. said no sex for 1 month after the birth of each baby. Does that count? Otherwise only a couple of days, and if its longer than 2 days, it's because DH is not home. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ladylove Posted October 31, 2008 Members Report Share Posted October 31, 2008 6 years! From age 19-25! I was single and in a very religious movement.... LONG story!!!!I'm glad you found your way back....... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ohshelly Posted November 3, 2008 Members Report Share Posted November 3, 2008 I'm glad you found your way back.......Yeah, Sunny, really!! We don't mind a long story. Start another thread and tell us all about it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members cowgirl Posted November 5, 2008 Members Report Share Posted November 5, 2008 I have to say for the last 9 years there was only the times after the kids...8 weeks was the longest. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members firesplat Posted November 5, 2008 Members Report Share Posted November 5, 2008 I think in the 3 1/2 years of being married (not counting any trips or one of us being out of town) the longest would be like 3-4 days Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members KingKoopa Posted December 4, 2008 Members Report Share Posted December 4, 2008 Well I am with my first still. We are ingaged and at first we were horn dogs. Like sex every 24hrs. sometimes even 2 or 3 times a day. Then we slowed down. The most ive had so far is probably about 1 or 2 months. But we have been pretty consistant now... like every other day or so. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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