Spit Or Swallow

[nosleepnmesa]

Spit or Swallow Well heck I also swallow I think that it should always be a ladys choice but sorry I think spitting just seems grouse to me and then what would you do with it. I never thought the taste was bad unless of course they drink alot of coffee, eat alot of salty foods, garlic ewwww then I am sure but I have to say that whatever a man eats does effect how he taste. Although myself I have never tried any of the flavors I quess I am just a natural tasting person and if it ever taste bad then I will have to send him to the kitchen and make him eat sugar No I just tell him to add alittle more sweet to his diet or fruit but pineapple is a great way to make a wonderful flavor. Sorry if I offend anyone by saying that spitting just isnt the thing for me but my question is if you dont swallow then what do you do with it, wipe it off?Rub it in? Just a ? I guess and yes to each their own and I believe that it should always be a ladys choice but if some people think it taste bad dont totally say you wont do it again due to one bad experiance tell him change his diet a little or even some tasting lubes or something. Okay I am done rabbling on

[Turdlebugga@yahoo.com]

Spit or Swallow? This was a question I always asked myself. I am completely new to discovering my own sexuality. I was married for almost 9 years. I had no desire to spit or swallow. I have been dating a nice guy for over a year and we have just had the best time discovering each other. I have recently purchased a few toys...and then a few more...It can be very addicting.

One day...He came to my office for lunch... Next thing you know my dead bolt is locked and well...He is getting the best BJ ever, if I say so my self....and it was the first time I EVER swallowed! My friends had a party in my honor that night. Shocked that I am 37 and never have. Since then I totally do, always!!! It was very exciting for me. especially that first time, cause I knew he was surprised. I could tell by the I LOOOOOOOOVE YOU! He said it was a physical as well as mental pleasure. Who knew? So if it isn't some thing you do...give it a try. Your guy will Loooooove you for it, and youi just might like it!

[sbs]

Spit or Swallow? This was a question I always asked myself. I am completely new to discovering my own sexuality. I was married for almost 9 years. I had no desire to spit or swallow. I have been dating a nice guy for over a year and we have just had the best time discovering each other. I have recently purchased a few toys...and then a few more...It can be very addicting.

One day...He came to my office for lunch... Next thing you know my dead bolt is locked and well...He is getting the best BJ ever, if I say so my self....and it was the first time I EVER swallowed! My friends had a party in my honor that night. Shocked that I am 37 and never have. Since then I totally do, always!!! It was very exciting for me. especially that first time, cause I knew he was surprised. I could tell by the I LOOOOOOOOVE YOU! He said it was a physical as well as mental pleasure. Who knew? So if it isn't some thing you do...give it a try. Your guy will Loooooove you for it, and youi just might like it!

Hey, I'm so glad that you enjoyed your party! You were right, I new who you were right away!!!!!

[lovewoman]

Ok All You Ladies- I was having a discussion with one of my good friends last night over dinner and I was APPALLED to learn that she DOES NOT SWALLOW her boyfriend's cum!

I thought that this was something that I had coached all my female friends on - apparently she missed the seminar on cock sucking!

She, of course, defended her actions with the whole "It tastes bad...blah, blah, blah...." argument, that I only half listened to and then cut her off with "WHOA.....no friend of mine is going to blabber that crap!"

So, ladies, what I want to know from you - and I want to know from all of you who are looking at the site and don't post much too - what do you do with your man's cum - SPIT or SWALLOW - and WHY?????

I promise to all the "spitters" to not yell at you....I will simply defend my argument on swallowing in a non-argumentative and sensible manner!

So what is it - SPIT OR SWALLOW???

Mikayla

I girfrind told me, BAD WOMAN SUCK GOOD WOMAN SWALLOW. She give me the best BJ's of my life

[sexynshyrissa]

swallow or else I get wonderful facials.

[Scout]

Ok All You Ladies- I was having a discussion with one of my good friends last night over dinner and I was APPALLED to learn that she DOES NOT SWALLOW her boyfriend's cum!

I thought that this was something that I had coached all my female friends on - apparently she missed the seminar on cock sucking!

She, of course, defended her actions with the whole "It tastes bad...blah, blah, blah...." argument, that I only half listened to and then cut her off with "WHOA.....no friend of mine is going to blabber that crap!"

So, ladies, what I want to know from you - and I want to know from all of you who are looking at the site and don't post much too - what do you do with your man's cum - SPIT or SWALLOW - and WHY?????

I promise to all the "spitters" to not yell at you....I will simply defend my argument on swallowing in a non-argumentative and sensible manner!

So what is it - SPIT OR SWALLOW???

Mikayla

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Spit or Swallow? That's easy! SWALLOW of course!

Shortly after I started seeing my lover, it became obvious to me that his ex had never even touched him, much less anything else. Everytime my lips would touch his cock, he'd go into orbit! Talk about making a girl feel good!

One day, I decided to give him the entire treatment...and I took him all the way - he kept wanting me to stop, but you know when a woman has a man's cock in her mouth, and his balls in her hand, she's pretty much in control of everything, wouldn't you agree? Anyway, you would have thought that I just gave him the moon and the stars and everything inbetween! I've done this for him many times since, but his reaction has never faltered.

For you spitters out there - STOP IT! Show your man that you love him - all of him - and that you are soooo happy to take all of him - any time, and any where! And watch his reaction! It will make the taste be a non-issue. Or even better yet - ask him if he's had anything sweet to eat that day...and if he has, tell him you wonder what he might taste like...guaranteed instant erection, ladies! And if he's just a coffee for breakfast kind of guy - tell him you think he should have sweet roll or something...nibble on his ear and let him know that it might just make him taste extra sweet later for you...

Be adventurous and have fun - and please your man...he'll be awfully glad you did and you'll reap the benefits of all of that! Trust me!

Scout

[VALERIE]

Ok All You Ladies- I was having a discussion with one of my good friends last night over dinner and I was APPALLED to learn that she DOES NOT SWALLOW her boyfriend's cum!

I thought that this was something that I had coached all my female friends on - apparently she missed the seminar on cock sucking!

She, of course, defended her actions with the whole "It tastes bad...blah, blah, blah...." argument, that I only half listened to and then cut her off with "WHOA.....no friend of mine is going to blabber that crap!"

So, ladies, what I want to know from you - and I want to know from all of you who are looking at the site and don't post much too - what do you do with your man's cum - SPIT or SWALLOW - and WHY?????

I promise to all the "spitters" to not yell at you....I will simply defend my argument on swallowing in a non-argumentative and sensible manner!

So what is it - SPIT OR SWALLOW???

Mikayla

I'M SORRY, I TRIED & ITS NOT FOR ME, BUT I DON'T SPIT. SPITTING NOT SOMETHING I THINK A WOMAN SHOULD EVER DO, THATS JUST AS NASTY AS CUM. I BASICALY TRY & TAKE HIM AS FAR AS I CAN THEN FILL HIS NEED IN OTHER WAYS. ITS ALL GOOD WITH HIM CAUSE IT MAKES FOR GOOD FOURPLAY.

[tracey]

Ok All You Ladies- I was having a discussion with one of my good friends last night over dinner and I was APPALLED to learn that she DOES NOT SWALLOW her boyfriend's cum!

I thought that this was something that I had coached all my female friends on - apparently she missed the seminar on cock sucking!

She, of course, defended her actions with the whole "It tastes bad...blah, blah, blah...." argument, that I only half listened to and then cut her off with "WHOA.....no friend of mine is going to blabber that crap!"

So, ladies, what I want to know from you - and I want to know from all of you who are looking at the site and don't post much too - what do you do with your man's cum - SPIT or SWALLOW - and WHY?????

I promise to all the "spitters" to not yell at you....I will simply defend my argument on swallowing in a non-argumentative and sensible manner!

So what is it - SPIT OR SWALLOW???

Mikayla

Well, it has taken me quite a while to find someone that I CAN go down on...that alone is a big step. Now, as far as spitting or swallowing, I am not quite that far yet. But Howard...I am practicing daily!!!

[mommy2krt]

I swallow everytime! no question about it, my man loves it and he loves the way i taste too so i never feel like im doing something and not getting the favor returned. there is nothing sexier than my man's knees going weak because of the way i suck his dick! and trust me he makes mine go weak all the time! we love the 69 position, he says he loves to look at my pussy while im sucking his dick, i think its cause it turns me on to please him that way, it literally makes me wet just thinking about sucking his dick, now grant it i know not every woman feels the same way and some dont like having there S.O's dick shoved down her throat but i love it and I like the taste of his cum but they are totally right about the salty bnitter taste if there is too much garlic or onions eaten, i guess im lucky my man doesnt like those too much. He has started to be a little more open about new things he likes, lie light spanking and light bondage but i have also found he loves to cum on my chest and neck he thinks it looks sexy, now how do I tell him i want him to lick it off and kiss me putting it in my mouth too? I had one man do that to me and it drove me nuts, but how do i tell the father of my children the man i plan on spending the rest of my life with that i want him to do this? any suggestions?

[D_luvs]

Definately Swallow. Spitting is just gross and inconvienant. I was actually shocked to read that a lot of the females here don't like the taste but still swallow anyway. As whoreish as this makes me sound I love the taste, and wouldn't swallow if I didn't. For example if my b/f's been drinking beer that day swallowing is a no-no, beer makes it taste awful.

[smokeater]

I swallow everytime! no question about it, my man loves it and he loves the way i taste too so i never feel like im doing something and not getting the favor returned. there is nothing sexier than my man's knees going weak because of the way i suck his dick! and trust me he makes mine go weak all the time! we love the 69 position, he says he loves to look at my pussy while im sucking his dick, i think its cause it turns me on to please him that way, it literally makes me wet just thinking about sucking his dick, now grant it i know not every woman feels the same way and some dont like having there S.O's dick shoved down her throat but i love it and I like the taste of his cum but they are totally right about the salty bnitter taste if there is too much garlic or onions eaten, i guess im lucky my man doesnt like those too much. He has started to be a little more open about new things he likes, lie light spanking and light bondage but i have also found he loves to cum on my chest and neck he thinks it looks sexy, now how do I tell him i want him to lick it off and kiss me putting it in my mouth too? I had one man do that to me and it drove me nuts, but how do i tell the father of my children the man i plan on spending the rest of my life with that i want him to do this? any suggestions?

Just tell him he may go for it, I would love for my wife to share my cum with each other, she knows that I want to, and I have gone down on her after I cum in her or I will aske her to kiss me after she has been sucking on me. It is such a turn on, so just talk to him and explain its about the two of you enjoying each other.....

[househunter]

Problem, my wife in the pass has given me BJ but really doesn't like too do it that often. I would love it if she would give me more BJ, once a year is to long for me.

We where watching a porn movie the other day and showed a girl taking all of this guys cum. She totaly was sick watching it and couldn't watch any more of the movie. Now she is totaly with drawn from the idea of giving head any more. Guess she won't be swallowing any cum

[Janet]

I am all for swallowing - as long as you know your guy is safe and disease free, then I am for swallowing. I blow my husband as often as I can (I love it!) and I want him to cum in my mouth or down my throat - I don't want to waste his yummy cum.

I know women who don't swallow, and their husbands want them to. We talk about it once in a while, even with our husbands around, and they are all looking at me with hardon! A couple of them said they wish I'd give them some head - and their wives said go ahead! LOL. Guys think it's hot swallowing, but if give great head, then even if you don;t want to swallow, they'll be happy. But I love it and will swallow his cum everyday - sometimes many times in a day! I gave him 3 bjs today - yum yum!

[trickychick]

Spit or swallow?

I have always thought that a man coming in my mouth should be the thrill, not what I do with the spunk!!

I am neither; I dont always swallow (i never actually spit 'ptui' it out, that, I feel, is a little rude) I decide what to do with it when it comes out, sometimes the angle of his cock is such that swallowing is easy - great! Sometimes my mouth is momentarily open and it falls out, lol, so I let the rest drizzle out and rub it in after a few moments...

Sometimes I drizzle it out anyway, sometimes I or he specifically requests drinking it.

I/we decide at the time. Also I like the variety and freeness of this. No pressure.

I asked him what he preferred, he said he doesnt mind.

So I asked again, to tell the truth, he said, its up to me.

So I asked again, but which does he prefer? Swallowing.

I knew it!! he was trying to be 'nice' again.

xxx

[learyest]

I swallow and then wash it further down with a swig or two of wine. I think it adds a delicate, yet refined taste to the gentle aroma and robust appeal.

He also likes it when I take a mouthful of wine and add his cock to the mix. Nice and cool and oh so pleasurable for both of us. I like it when I do that and then he cums. Awesome experience when we can time it just so. Helpful hint if you try this: Do NOT use red wine on white sheets. Duh! Still laughing over the permanent stains!

[VALERIE]

Ok All You Ladies- I was having a discussion with one of my good friends last night over dinner and I was APPALLED to learn that she DOES NOT SWALLOW her boyfriend's cum!

I thought that this was something that I had coached all my female friends on - apparently she missed the seminar on cock sucking!

She, of course, defended her actions with the whole "It tastes bad...blah, blah, blah...." argument, that I only half listened to and then cut her off with "WHOA.....no friend of mine is going to blabber that crap!"

So, ladies, what I want to know from you - and I want to know from all of you who are looking at the site and don't post much too - what do you do with your man's cum - SPIT or SWALLOW - and WHY?????

I promise to all the "spitters" to not yell at you....I will simply defend my argument on swallowing in a non-argumentative and sensible manner!

So what is it - SPIT OR SWALLOW???

Mikayla

I STILL CAN'T SWALOW! OR I JUST WON'T. NO OFFENCE

[Jessicaheim]

Hi, I'm a newby. I'm jumping right in. I have always swallowed in previous relationships. I am married now and my husband actually prefers me to spit. He finds it unnessesary. We've talked about it and he thinks swallowing is stupid. Only thing that matters to him is that I finish him off. What I do with his cum after he's done is irrelevant.

[SweetasHoney]

oh you so have to swallow..... it gives a more intense orgasm for him if you keep sucking then swallow when you can....... but not everyone is WORTHY of a swallow....... but if he isnt worthy of the swallow, then i probably wouldnt be suckin' it in the 1st place. SWALLOW HARD and suck at the same time so you cheeks get sucked in...... drives him crazy .... may be the only reason mine is still hanging on to me..... guess I should think about that.....

[allit]

oh you so have to swallow..... it gives a more intense orgasm for him if you keep sucking then swallow when you can....... but not everyone is WORTHY of a swallow....... but if he isnt worthy of the swallow, then i probably wouldnt be suckin' it in the 1st place. SWALLOW HARD and suck at the same time so you cheeks get sucked in...... drives him crazy .... may be the only reason mine is still hanging on to me..... guess I should think about that.....

From a male perspective. I think he is hanging on to you for a lot more reasons than a great blow job. I think fulfilling your partner to the ultimate sexually is a reflection on how you treat your partner in life. So Go Girl; if he leaves you he is the loser.

[Key West]

well i have an interesting comment on all of this. . . my husband and i have been together for nearly 20 years. for years and years if i was giving him a bj, he would tap on my arm or try to pull me away when he was about to cum. i had never said anything to him before giving him a bj for the first time, but i think that he just felt it was impolite or whatever to cum in my mouth. so he would pull me away, and i would oblige, moving onto his nipples or something and he would cum after i moved away. he still taps on me to pull me away, but now i DO NOT oblige. . . i will keep going until he DOES cum in my mouth.

[strobelite69]

I swallowed with my first boyfriend and didn't particularly care for it - so from there on out, I would just have them cum on my chest. However, I just started seeing someone new who is just adventerous about exploring their sexuality as I am so I thought I'd try it again. I enjoyed it.

So my opinion - if it doesn't work the first time, try again : )

[rosamaba]

I swallow.. always have even the first time when i didn't really know anything about giving a bj was but tried anyways it was just my natural reflex. plus i think spiiting loks/sounds etc worse esp if your in the bedroom etc. I was outside so it didn't really matter what I did.

I must say though if it takes to long to go from the penis to my mouth it gets cold & is gummy/chewy & that makes me feel icky when i swallow i gag a bit then. so no licking it off myself or my partner if it akes too long to get to that point. well ill do it but i wont enjoy it.

[vtnympho]

SWALLOW SWALLOW SWALLOW! I've never spit...ever. I actually like the taste of my boyfriend and his cum, but I feel like you taste more of the precum than the actual cum anyway. When I swallow, the cum just slides right down so my tongue doesn't really get any of the flavor. I feel like I would taste it more (and gag more...ewww) if I held it in my mouth to find somewhere to spit it. Anyway, that is just my opinion and preference...and my boyfriend's.

[AndreaPurple]

SWALLOW. I have never spit! But I will be honest, I never liked the taste, so my poor husband has had 12 years (9 married), of an annual blow job. There have been times, here and there that I would just blow him for a while then just hop on and never have to taste his cum at all. But any time he's cum in my mouth I have always swallowed.

Right now we are kind of rediscovering each other and he has enjoyed more blow jobs from me in the past month or so then he's had in the past several years and he's loving it! And again, I'll be honest, I don't usually like the taste, but the last time I blew him, a few nights ago, when he came in my mouth I was pleasantly surprised that it tasted very sweet and not so bad. I think he had eaten cookies earlier in the day and I think that made the difference. I don't think he will mind if I ask him to eat something sweet for me before I will blow him, he has a sweet tooth and he loves when I blow him, so everyone wins.

[newvixen]

In the last relationship I had, my boyfriend always wanted to finish inside of me. No matter how good I was going at it or how much I was enjoying it when he was about to come he would always pull me off, flip me over and finish inside me. Unfortunately it wasn't always what I wanted. I took the advice I've seen given here so often and took him some place where we could talk. After a long discussion I realized that he wasn't going to change and I wasn't willing to give up something I was sure I would enjoy because he was being rigid or domineering and it was just a marker for things to come. After some soul searching I decided to move on.

The new man I'm involved with is very open and willing to try most anything. The first time we found ourselves in this position, to be perfectly honest I didn't ask him what he wanted. I just went for it. I could tell when he was about to climax so I drew him in deeper, which he really appreciated, and when he came I didn't hesitate I swallowed it all down. Did he like it? Well, I'm guessing by the way he grabbed my hand and held on he did. At the time I didn't know if I would like it. I just knew from everything I read on here that it is something that most men really enjoy. I have no regrets and will definitely swallow again.

To be perfectly honest even if I hadn't enjoyed the taste or feel, knowing that it was something that made the experience for him more enjoyable, I would do it. In my opinion only, part of what makes sex so great is being able to please as well as be pleased. I think alot of times we are too easily influenced by things we hear from friends, family and others. We develop hangups based on what we were raised to believe or from things we're told by others. I know I have been guilty of it. Finding this board has been very informative and empowering.

In the end it's each individuals CHOICE to swallow or not. If a person wants to they can come up with a hundred reasons why not to but in the end it's because they choose not too.

Well, that's my 2 cents! LOL

Vix