Spit Or Swallow

[sexy.t3mptress]

Ive always been a swallower. As far as the taste its never the same with all men as Im sure its not with women either.So simply put sometimes I swallow and other times there is just something fantastic about letting him just jizz all over my boobs. But thats a whole other topic entirely. I must say Ive ben readin up quite a bit and love your posts Mikayla!

and as far as a guy that would not LET you give him oral-something there is seriously wrong.some past abuse or soemthing becaause that si definitely a first that I have ever heard!

Temptress

[Kbaby]

I abso-fucking-lutely love to swallow!!! It turns me on just as much as it turns my boyfriend on.......I can't get enough of him! Yum!!!

[cateyedkay]

I swallow personally. I've tried spitting and if anything it was gross. That and swallowing has a few benefits, one less mess, two happy partner, and three a really turned on partner. I think swallowing also brings your partner and you closer in a way. So yes open up wide and swallow!

[nosleepnmesa]

I am right there with ya Kay. I am sure you have read alot on this post. I have never been able to spit and I to think it is grouse. I mean heck most peoples partners go down on them so we should do the same. I know I sure don't see my hubby spitting, ewwww just the thought. You may have a point in saying that it brings you and your partner closer in away I personally never thought about it like that. I do know that it is a HUGE turn on for him and me both.

[PennyOhhh!]

Ok All You Ladies- I was having a discussion with one of my good friends last night over dinner and I was APPALLED to learn that she DOES NOT SWALLOW her boyfriend's cum!

I thought that this was something that I had coached all my female friends on - apparently she missed the seminar on cock sucking!

She, of course, defended her actions with the whole "It tastes bad...blah, blah, blah...." argument, that I only half listened to and then cut her off with "WHOA.....no friend of mine is going to blabber that crap!"

So, ladies, what I want to know from you - and I want to know from all of you who are looking at the site and don't post much too - what do you do with your man's cum - SPIT or SWALLOW - and WHY?????

I promise to all the "spitters" to not yell at you....I will simply defend my argument on swallowing in a non-argumentative and sensible manner!

So what is it - SPIT OR SWALLOW???

Mikayla

I am definitely a swallower, however, I also use this as a diagnostic tool. If he hasn't been drinking enough water, or has been drinking too much coffee, I KNOW!!!! Besides, I think a man wants to know that we will take him completely and this is a symbolic way of accepting him completely... I'm just saying....

Penny

[ssuksdorf]

I always, always swallow. Honestly, it seems like a big hassle to find somewhere to go spit when all I want to do is flop down on the bed next to my DH. About a year ago we tried the 'facial' route, but our timing got messed up and I wound up with cum in my eye. Wow, that hurt! Needless to say, I'm a little gun-shy now.

[Kbaby]

I always, always swallow. Honestly, it seems like a big hassle to find somewhere to go spit when all I want to do is flop down on the bed next to my DH. About a year ago we tried the 'facial' route, but our timing got messed up and I wound up with cum in my eye. Wow, that hurt! Needless to say, I'm a little gun-shy now.

Trulytimid, I have to say I got it in the eye once and I can sympathize.............that shit burns!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[ssuksdorf]

Kbaby - I'm glad to hear that I'm not the only one who's experienced that! I was really surprised at how badly it burned--guess it's all that salt.

[Therese27]

I have been giving men blowjobs for 15 years now. I am not a porn star or anything, just been around the block a few times. And in my experience, I think it is their diet. A few of my ex's were beer drinkers, and they always tasted bitter. I just read that coffee, onions & garlic are a factor in bitterness too. My fiance isn't a beer drinker and I couldn't figure out why he tasted bitter alot, until now. He drinks coffee, and eats onions & garlic regularly, so I think we're going to change things to see what happens. Even with the whole bitterness thing, I still swallow because I know he gets really turned on by it, and it turns me on to know he's happy!

[elise]

Hmm. This topic has been going on for months and I just now discovered it? Tsk tsk!

Mark me down as a swallower, Mikayla. LOL! It hasn't always been easy, but I've always swallowed. I've only given a BJ to my husband, nobody else, and we've been together quite a long time. When we were young and so crazy in love there was nothing I wouldn't do for him. We went through a period of time when we were constantly doing 69... and I would try to hold off coming until he started coming, because the sensation of him spurting down my throat was such a turn-on that it would make me come. It was easier then to take him really deep in my mouth/throat when he came, and then swallow like crazy because 1) his come tasted reallyreally bitter no matter what he ate, and 2) he has always produced a LOT of semen, and if I didn't swallow I'd be in danger of drowning! I had a girlfriend once who told me she never swallowed, but one time a guy came so much in her mouth that it literally shot out her nose! I'd much rather swallow, thanks!

Now, interesting observation. My hubby's come was always quite bitter-tasting, no matter what he ate or drank. And besides, when the mood strikes a girl to get herself a drink of come, it's a little late to be asking what hubby had for lunch, it seems to me. Anyway, we went through a long period during our little-children parenting years when oral sex just wasn't something we did. In this time period he had a vasectomy. Then one day I was sucking him and I just decided I really wanted him to come in my mouth, so I really went to town, and when he came, his come tasted wonderful... sort of sweet and salty and creamy, all the tastes he'd had before, but the harsh bitter taste was gone.

Anyway, I love the taste of his come now. I like to suck his cock after he's come inside me, to milk those last tasty dribbles out of him. When I blow him I try to catch as much of his come in my mouth as I can rather than swallowing it all, so I can enjoy the taste a little longer.

Has anyone else noticed their man's come changed taste after a vasectomy? I'm quite curious about this.

[admiraltolokus]

Thanks for the man's view 69Sex....you have confirmed that it does add to the partner's orgasm. Do you like your sperm swallowed as well then?

Mikayla

hello, its been a while... long while since i was last on here so i decided to check out the posts and review things before jumping back in. his point is pretty valid yep, i do swallow when i'm with a guy (so far only one and that was last year and lasted for a while), but as to reasons why, for me i see it as part of it, part of the fun of it, personally didnt notice much of a taste tho but thats me. only concern i ever really had though was to make sure he was clean (tested as i was), the transmission of S.T.D.'s and anything relating to sucking works me into a knot, i dont want anything disrupting my fun.

[Sexy_Blonde69]

well i used to swallow my hubbies cum but for the past year or so i havent only because for soemreason or another it smells like clorox and tastes really bitter. does anyone know why this would be and how to fix it???

[Tyger]

There have only been a handful of times, in my entire sex-life span that I have swallowed. One being with my hubby. I don't know, I just don't like the idea of it. I know, I know, but it's just one of those things I don't like to do. I have had to really want to do it. The first time, was because I wanted to try it. It was with my ex husband, and he chewed tobacco, so it didn't taste that great at all. My husband now smokes too, and it's like I could taste it. Maybe that's why I just don't want too.

Does it mean I love my man any less? No, absolutely not. I love him and want to please him. He also knows that I haven't swallowed with just any man, and he is proud that he is one of the select very few!

We usually start off with oral sex, and sometimes, we switch it up and play orally a bit more in the middle. But we always seem to like to have him cum inside me. That's the way we seem to prefer anyway.

[Tyger]

You're right, what goes into our bodies, definitely affects how we "taste!" One man I dated drank a lot of milk. Even if he'd had a soda before our make out session, I could taste it. Weird, but true!!

I've asked, begged, pleaded with him to quit smoking for every reason imaginable, including that one, but, even after quitting for over a year, he went back to it, and I give up. He knows how I feel about it. My father died of a heart attack, and one of the leading causes was his serious cigarette habit. I have never smoked. Never liked the idea of it, and I'm an asthmatic, never thought of that as a smart thing to do! So, of course, I can't imagine the addiction to it. He does, however, know that I don't approve, and won't kiss an ashtray. There's NO smoking in the house, or near the windows if they're opened. He showers nightly, and brushes his teeth and rinses, so to get the taste and smell off of him as best he can. I have a heightened sense of smell apparently, so I can smell it still, but not as bad.

Luckily, he never brings it up, and loves the oral action he gets, so he's not complaining one bit of my lack of swallowing. I also love to try new oral tricks, to keep him guessing. So it's never been an issue. When he or I do have issues, no matter if they are sexual or not, we discuss them, and give reasons as to the behaviors causing the issues. I think that communication~honest communication~is one of the best things you can do in a marriage.

He use to be not so open-minded as far as toys go, as most of you know, but is getting MUCHO better about it (good thing considering my job here! ). He also has told me that he wouldn't mind if I had sex with a woman too. He use to be dead set against that too. So, I guess we have progress!!

I think, if you try it, and don't like it, for whatever reason, don't do it. But if you never try it, then how do you know if you like it or not?

[west1303]

I am very lucky, when my wife and I got togeather 10 years I'd never felt the joy of finishing in oral . Then I met my now wife and when I thought the oral would stop she asked why should she start a job and not finish it . She then proceeded to swallow every last drop, and she says she loves it . I personally like it bestest when she swallows, seems like its way beter to me .

[lilmomma]

I can add that I do swallow and spit. Well I never swallowed until recently. Me and my fiance have been together over 6 years and he use to pull me up so he could finish inside of me till one time I asked him to let me finish. So he did and the first I started gagging. I know he got off all the way, but killed his moment. I knew he was getting ready to climax and I continued till he got off. I was so into it that I didn't even pay attention to it being in my mouth. When we are really into having oral and enjoying it I love it, but if I don't feel good and doing this to please him, I don't like it that well. I have since than swallowed more and I told him that I like to be pleased at the same time, whether it is 69 or fingering or just kissing before or whatever I get tons of joy out of it. I did not know that the things you eat make it taste different, I will have to try that sometime and and give him a bj later that evening.

[Blush]

Swallowing.... mmmmm

Nothing like giving your man that much pleasure, having him squriming all over the bed, fingers tangled in your hair, then releasing in your throat...

I know I wouldn't like it if I got thisclose to cumming and he stopped the tongue and finished me with his finger.

[HelloKitty]

OMG, Swallow for sure! That's the best. I wouldn't be able to spit...no way. I want my man to just let it go.

[blueberry]

I used to spit it out before... but once I just swallowed it, without thinking about the "texture" and the taste and all... After two or three times I realized that I love it... the sensation of warm cum on my tongue and in my mouth and sliding down my throat . After all the complaints I read about the taste, I can say that it is a kind of bitterish, but so is gin and tonic and I love it. I think it's much more erotic to see a woman swallow than spit. The only thing that bothers me a bit is that afterwards my boyfriend doesn't want to kiss me unless I wash my mouth, but then again I don't like the taste of my own juices, so I forgive him

My first post and I picked the topic about swallowing...

[krisleightate]

I love to swallow, I mean what the point of not swallowing it if it already in your mouth?

[blueberry]

Why am I suspecting that your BF doesn't give you head? I am betting he doesn't eat your pussy, because he would have to taste your cum if he did. If he can eat your cum, there should be absolutely no problem with him kissing you after you have swallowed his cum. He is being very juvenile, and its time he also grew up. PLEASE, Don't be so damn nice to him. Your sex life will thank you for being assertive, and he will eventually thank you for making him learn how exciting it is to feel a woman go nuts because of what he is doing to you with his mouth and tongue.

Howard

I'm happy to say that you are suspecting wrong and it feels like heaven when he gets his head between my legs and gets his tongue to work

Like I said, I don't like the way I taste, so I can accept that he doesn't want to taste his own cum.

Cheers!

[roni]

wow didn't relize this could be such a heated subject....but oh well:} as for me when i was with my ex who i was with for 24 yrs i would try to swallow but i would gag:{ yes gag. i couldn't take it but i did try many times, so i would spit...no big deal! now with my man now we have been on and off for the last 5 yrs right now we're on (Hopfully for good thiis time) i swallow:) no problem at all, i swallowed the first time i gave him a bj and have been every since, in fact i can't wait for him to cum so i can swallow. in fact i lick it clean after he cums inside of me. i have to be carefull since he is sensitive then but he goes crazy when i do. so i can understand why some women can't but i think it was just in my mind more cause i enjoy sex sooooooo much more with my bf that maybe thats why i can swallow...

[sailorzelda]

Well, I've always swallowed; I think there might have been one time when I didn't, not quite out of choice, either, and I learned from that experience alone that it was just too messy, and certainly not as sexy, for either of us.

The weird thing about it is that except when it comes to oral, I have a terrible gag reflex, but from what I've heard from several people I know, that's a common thing...

[cdwaldorf]

I will swallow.My husband doesn't mind kissing me after a phenomenal blow job.

[kitkatty]

Maybe I have been sexual too long. I swallow, it is no big deal. So it tastes bitter, it only lasts a little while. I know people think that I am crazy for saying this, but when I have sore throat and I give a BJ and swallow, it makes my throat feel better. Has anyone ever noticed this before?