Some Masturbation Questions

[lsujules]

I'm a 30 year old virgin who enjoys masturbating. I've been reading many of the posts on the site and have a couple questions to throw out there at the members.

First, for some reason, I find myself really "excited" during my period. Do any other women out there find that also? I'm not really into playing because of I hope obvious reasons. How do you guys handle playing during that time?

Secondly, I was wondering about g-spot orgasms. They interest me greatly, but I'm not as sure about how to try myself since I don't have a partner to help. Are there any tips or maybe some great toys that can help me to experience one of these amazing sounding O's?

Lastly I was wondering if it's possible for all women to have multiple o's. I find myself being so fullfilled after having one O that I can't seem to bring myself to try more though it does interest me because it seems that the additional O's are so great!

This is my first post, so I hope I'm not asking too many questions at once!

[Shariana]

I personally get very excited during my period as well... Unfortunately, it can be hard to masturbate then, but what I usually do is take a shower to clean up really well, use a tampon, and just go for a clitoral O.

G-spot orgasms have always been hard for me (had my first one this summer with the help of my SO), but there ARE toys on the site that can help. Look at the reviews that are posted to see what might suit you, or ask some of the reviewers what their favorites are.

And it is TOTALLY possible for women to have multiple orgasms! It's just a matter of not stopping even when you feel tired. I think someone wrote an article on this.... not sure.

And never too many questions at once! There are lots of great people here that can give you fantastic advice!

[brianmichele]

I am problably most horniest during my period. When I have a tampon in I still can get really wet and have great clitoral O's.

[sun_flower969]

I'm a 30 year old virgin who enjoys masturbating. I've been reading many of the posts on the site and have a couple questions to throw out there at the members.

First, for some reason, I find myself really "excited" during my period. Do any other women out there find that also? I'm not really into playing because of I hope obvious reasons. How do you guys handle playing during that time?

Secondly, I was wondering about g-spot orgasms. They interest me greatly, but I'm not as sure about how to try myself since I don't have a partner to help. Are there any tips or maybe some great toys that can help me to experience one of these amazing sounding O's?

Lastly I was wondering if it's possible for all women to have multiple o's. I find myself being so fullfilled after having one O that I can't seem to bring myself to try more though it does interest me because it seems that the additional O's are so great!

This is my first post, so I hope I'm not asking too many questions at once!

Hello and welcome! If you go to the article section here you will find tons of helpful info on g spot orgasms AND multiples!

Here is a link: http://www.tootimid.com/index.php/articles..._about_orgasms/

I too maybe in the middle of my period find myself pretty horny. So I think you definitely are not alone! Masturbation, (orgasm specifically) helps with period cramps! Like the girls mentioned use a tampon and go for clitoral. If the flow isn't too heavy I have actually used a bigger toy vaginally also! Just have a towel under you and wash up after ! NBD

Good luck and hope to see more posts!

[mailahn97]

I also am very horny during my period. I though have no problem having sex during it and neither does my other half. I have masturbated during it as well. It helps me tremendously with my cramps. I was to the point a couple of months ago when I was in severe pain and forgot about masturbation helping with it til I was telling him how much pain I was in and he reminded me. I was very thankful for that. I use a toy vaginally during my period.....I just have towels under me.

As far as gspot. I have had it with and without my partner. I have 2 toys that I love for it and get me everytime and rather quickly....then again we have decided that I arouse very quickl so that helps as well.

As far as multiples I do have multiples and love it. You just need to keep going. Hey whats the saying practice makes perfect and what a fun thing to practice.....lol

[cmwise1]

I am the same as the ladies listed above...i am often in the mood during my period but don't have a partner currently. I usually use a toy to get a clitoral O and am pretty happy with that...sometimes i do it once or twice a day if i have the chance.

I have noticed the more Os i have during my period the faster it gets over.

Multiples are not hard if you just press on...the article Sun suggested is great...sometimes as you keep stimulating yourself it can be almost painful..so you have to push through that sensation. But generally, the more the better!!! Good luck and keep us posted about your progress!

[lsujules]

Thanks for all of your replies! All this has me wanting to go play some!

I never really though about it helping with cramps, but I will certainly remember that in the future. Pinky - interesting that it helps get things over faster...I'll have to make a note of that.

Is there anything special y'all might do to help have a g-spot orgasm alone? I'll be looking on the site for a toy to help. I have found lately that hearing sexual activity and watching only a little helps me get going. Might be me being strange, but I look at porn type stuff, but listen to it more than watch. Since I have never been sexually active or in a serious relationship, it's hard for me to fantasize. That might sound crazy, but it just sort of is.

I'm really glad I've found a place where I can ask these kinds of questions and not feel so ashamed or embarassed.

[pappyld04]

http://forums.tootimid.com/index.php?showforum=86 - There are a lot of post in this area about O's also! Welcome to the forum!

[sass]

Thanks for all of your replies! All this has me wanting to go play some!

I never really though about it helping with cramps, but I will certainly remember that in the future. Pinky - interesting that it helps get things over faster...I'll have to make a note of that.

Is there anything special y'all might do to help have a g-spot orgasm alone? I'll be looking on the site for a toy to help. I have found lately that hearing sexual activity and watching only a little helps me get going. Might be me being strange, but I look at porn type stuff, but listen to it more than watch. Since I have never been sexually active or in a serious relationship, it's hard for me to fantasize. That might sound crazy, but it just sort of is.

I'm really glad I've found a place where I can ask these kinds of questions and not feel so ashamed or embarassed.

I agree with everything the other ladies here have said. As for toys, look for g-spot vibes - I have two and I love them! I can't believe I waited so long to get one. Then I could not wait to get another. They are angled just right. As for the sound of porn getting you turned on, I don't think that sounds crazy at all. After all, what is phone sex? How many 1-800 numbers are there for such things?

I agree that this is a wonderful place to talk about adult issues with true adults. Welcome to the forum!

[cmwise1]

I have g-spot Os during sex and think I have had them solo...wanted to see the squirting thing....thought i had that, too. It's sometimes hard to tell when i'm playing alone.

There are lots of g-spot vibes..give one a try.

Or just use your fingers and find the spot that feels "different"..it may not feel all that intense at first. But repetition, IMO, helps make the spot more sensitive.

Welcome and don't hesitate to ask ANY question!!!

[sun_flower969]

Multiples are not hard if you just press on...the article Sun suggested is great...sometimes as you keep stimulating yourself it can be almost painful..so you have to push through that sensation. But generally, the more the better!!! Good luck and keep us posted about your progress!

I have heard this mentioned many times, the pain thing. I never had that. The first time I had multiples it just happened during oral sex! After that first time I think had them via my g-spot and there was no pain ever... I am fairly new to multiples and g-spot orgasms too, just this year... Anyone else feel this way?

[Shariana]

Might be me being strange, but I look at porn type stuff, but listen to it more than watch.

I do the same thing, actually! Watching porn doesn't do much for me, but listening to the two (or more) people going at it gets me going pretty well....

And I'm glad you don't feel ashamed of asking questions here! I was embarrassed at first, but everyone here is really great!

[mailahn97]

Another thing that helps me some to mix it up instead of going through the masturbating motions so to say. I will call my other half while he is working and just start playing he will realize what I am up to and it turns into a whole lot of fun. He starts talking dirty and we just have a lot of fun with it. It is a way that I can share it with him.

I have never been one that is able to do anything worthwhile with my hands while masturbating. I am a toy girl for sure. Thank god for TT.....lol.

Porn I will say does turn me on. I have watched it and started fantasizing and that really got me good.

[lsujules]

Sometimes I wish I had someone like that to call up and have some fun with, but I don't have anyone like that. I've made it solo so far, so I can keep it going. Just gets to me some times because I know that being with someone in person or other can make things really different.

It helps me to learn about things I can do alone to satisfy my needs in the meantime.

[ladylove]

Sometimes I wish I had someone like that to call up and have some fun with, but I don't have anyone like that. I've made it solo so far, so I can keep it going. Just gets to me some times because I know that being with someone in person or other can make things really different.

It helps me to learn about things I can do alone to satisfy my needs in the meantime.

While you learning more about yourself, why don't you go to some group get-together that might interest you so you can meet some men?

[lsujules]

I wish I could. I live in a small town, so there's nothing like that here. Pretty much all of the friends I have here are all older than me and are married. The nearest big city is over an hour away.

Sometimes I feel like I'm caught in the middle. I'm not really into the club/bar thing and I think I'm a little old for that anyway. But being 30, makes me sometimes feel like I'm beyond the age of meeting someone. I don't always feel like that, but I guess it's just that I don't feel like I can meet people as easily as younger college age folks can - if that makes sense.

[ladylove]

I wish I could. I live in a small town, so there's nothing like that here. Pretty much all of the friends I have here are all older than me and are married. The nearest big city is over an hour away.

Sometimes I feel like I'm caught in the middle. I'm not really into the club/bar thing and I think I'm a little old for that anyway. But being 30, makes me sometimes feel like I'm beyond the age of meeting someone. I don't always feel like that, but I guess it's just that I don't feel like I can meet people as easily as younger college age folks can - if that makes sense.

Take a weekend and go to that big city and do things you like, treat yourself. Museums, church, anything you like..... also, look ahead and see if there are any single group functions happening and plan a your time around that. In your position your going to have to seek out young single activities. It will be very worth the extra effort you need to put in.

30 is not old at all. Your just hanging around a bunch of settled, older people. You really need to be proactive for yourself so you can be with people who are younger and......

[ohshelly]

Honey, it is never to late to find that special someone who curls your toes and makes you tingle just hearing his voice.

I didn't find my SO until I was 46, and we are feel like two teeny boppers. We are GRANDPARENTS and we have it going on!

Take peoples advise and get out there and look. My guy was an hour away and we would have never crossed paths if we hadn't both made an effort.

I met him on E harmony, and it doesn't bother me one bit to say that. He wasn't my first match, or the only guy I dated, and neither was I for him.

We kept an open mind, met people, and when I did meet him, it wasn't love at first sight, but there was a sense of something special there.

We have since grown deeply in love, and I have never been happier.

I'm not saying this is the answer for everyone. Just get out there, keep and open mind (but be smart) and meet people.

Sweetie, I wish I had found this man at the age of thirty, but love is so worth it when it is right.