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Ok, I am 32 and a tad over-weight. I had a baby 9 years ago and my stretch marks are pretty bad :( . Hubby does not care about them but I do!

Its his birthday next month and I want to dress up sexy for him as we have booked a day off work so we can have fun whilst the nipper is at school ;)

Now the other thing is were are a bit broke at the moment (arn't we all!) but I wanted to dress up a bit for him, so he gets to "unwrap" his present!!

Any ideas?

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Well what does he like? Start from there. :) A pair of sexy undies and thigh highs shouldn't cost much. You could wear them under a robe or something and then flash him. :)

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If you aren't shaved already maybe a heart in the pubic area. Doesn't cost any more than time! add sexy undies. Maybe some clip on nipple and/or clit jewelery.

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If you aren't shaved already maybe a heart in the pubic area. Doesn't cost any more than time! add sexy undies. Maybe some clip on nipple and/or clit jewelery.

or a Brazilian if you've never done that. Some men really like that.

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I just did that for my hubby's birthday last week. It was a lot of fun and I will post the picture of it soon (I hope).

I bought a leather looking cut out dress like outfit. It cost about $35. you could use any little outfit you have really. I painted my nails a burgundy wine color and found a metal gift tag at Hallmark while looking for a card that said enjoy. I bought a matching (wine) colored bow and ribbon. Get whatever color matches your outfit or your husband's favorite color. I also got thigh high leather boots since it's close to halloween i was able to get them cheaper as a costume item than at the local sex shop. (about half the price) Anyway, I used the ribbon (it was the wide type) and made a collar for the gift tag and tied it around my neck and attached the bow (it was the kind with the sticky back) to some bare skin on my waist. I had my husband sit on the couch and close his eyes. Then I came in the room and presented myself to him. I think he liked the ribbon collar and tag the most. I thought it was a pretty neat idea, although I'm sure others have thought of it before me.

Anyway, you could do several variations on this without much cost. Let us know how it goes.

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If its the stretch marks that cause the most problems the get a scare reduction cream. Honestly I dont tend to notice that stuff or do and find them sexy. He might feel the same way. Dress in the sexiest thing you have or something sexy that you haven't woren in a while. Best of luck.

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you could get a bunch of ribbon and strategically tie it in areas for him to unwrap ;)

how about bondage tape - yum! You can actually make a whole outfit out of that stuff. ever see the movie the fifth element with milla jockovich? google it. her outflit is inspiration enough!

Or, maybe try some of the sexy edible fingerpaint?

Have fun!

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To me, sexy is an attitude. Looking and feeling sexy is all about how you carry yourself. I have found girls incredible sexy that weren't what I would call beautiful stictly because of their attitude.

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Well just brought a 25m roll of red ribbon for £6, going to wrap myself up, if hubby plays his cards right I may even let him tie me to the bed with it once I am unwrapped!!! Going be fully shaven too and got some nipple rings too now ;)

Thanks for the ideas guys and gals.

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Well just brought a 25m roll of red ribbon for £6, going to wrap myself up, if hubby plays his cards right I may even let him tie me to the bed with it once I am unwrapped!!! Going be fully shaven too and got some nipple rings too now ;)

Thanks for the ideas guys and gals.

Hi sweety...I have a good idea,its very sexy and it will be fun,my girlfriend did this to me...I came home from work

opened the front door and she had a trail of her worn panties that she wore the whole week leading to the bedroom

they smelled so good too..ha ha I couldn't help not to smell them a turn on for sure...when I reached the bedroom

I opened the bedroom door to a sexy sight...my girlfriend was naked with a several happy birthday ribbons wrapped

around her waist...and her breasts and crotch areas were covered in whipped cream,she even had cherries as nipples

it was sooo much fun licking all that whipped cream up...that was the wildest foreplay...except when she masterbated

with a cucumber then put it in my salad,I enjoyed that salad...thats just another idea...

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Well just brought a 25m roll of red ribbon for £6, going to wrap myself up, if hubby plays his cards right I may even let him tie me to the bed with it once I am unwrapped!!! Going be fully shaven too and got some nipple rings too now ;)

Thanks for the ideas guys and gals.

good idea with the ribbon and the tying!!!

As for the attitude, i think that's true. Sexy is in the attitude.I'm only now figuring this out.

My boyfriend actually walks around imaginging his penis comes down to his knee. That's his little "trick". LOL. No, I'm not joking.

As for the thigh highs, I think they are a great concept, however in my experience (and my best friend's) they have a tendency to "grab" you in the wrong spots and basically accentuate heavier areas. I'm not heavy and I bought a pair and HATED them. My best friend said the same thing, and by the look of your boob pic (!) you seem to be a similar shape. :D

I really WANTED to like them, but let's just say my boyfriend didn't get to see them!!!!

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Well just brought a 25m roll of red ribbon for £6, going to wrap myself up, if hubby plays his cards right I may even let him tie me to the bed with it once I am unwrapped!!! Going be fully shaven too and got some nipple rings too now ;)

Thanks for the ideas guys and gals.

May I say your husband is a lucky guy!

As for the stretch marks...My wife just had our second child. She used a cream to reduce them from the first child. I mean they are still there but not as they were or as obvious. After the second child they returned. She is using the cream again but still doesn't think she is sexy no matter what I tell her otherwise. I mean what does she think that thing poking her in the back is every night as we watch Jay Leno? The TV remote?

I agree with another comment made. Sexy is about how you carry yourself. Women who are comfortable with their body are more sexy than the ones that are a size 1 and still complain about their hips and thighs. Curves are sexy. If I wanted to marry a broom stick I would have. And I am sure your husband feels the same way.

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