Members whitefang2002 Posted November 23, 2008 Members Report Share Posted November 23, 2008 Ok I know this may see like a dumb thing to ask.........My last SO when he got hard....it was like ROCK HARD! It stood straight up against his belly (he was also on the really large size). I haven't see so much like him in pornos. But the other men I have done stuff with were slightly flacid compared to him. I felt like maybe they weren't turned on all the way.......but they were. And I see penis' like that in pornos. Was wondering if both are normal..........and im thinking the slightly flacid is the more norm? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members mystofpric Posted November 23, 2008 Members Report Share Posted November 23, 2008 I'm with Adriana. I don't think there is a norm.I will say though I kinda prefer the slightly softer. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members whitefang2002 Posted November 23, 2008 Author Members Report Share Posted November 23, 2008 i actually prefer the rock hard...more of a turn on for me. Though since I just started my playtimes with a softer man..........who knows I might like that better! lol. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members sun_flower969 Posted November 23, 2008 Members Report Share Posted November 23, 2008 Hey all! Well having been around a little bit I can tell you. Some guys will be like *BOING* hard and at attention. Some will be hard yet kind of hang down if you will... I was with a dude one time who was very well endowed. He was hard for sure but like I mentioned he kind of sagged downward. I thought it was a weight thing. You know like because of his size gravity took control. Not sure if that is true but one thing is certain, everyone is different and it's all good!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members whitefang2002 Posted November 23, 2008 Author Members Report Share Posted November 23, 2008 I guess its just the guy. Cuz my last SO was huge and he was like *BOING*. lol. guess its just the guy then. Thanks everyone! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mikayla1 Posted November 23, 2008 Members Report Share Posted November 23, 2008 First of all, don't EVER base any perceptions on porno men. It is widely known to be a fact that those guys use penis pumps, viagra, cialis or whatever drugs they can get their hands on. They are not 'normal' penises just like those fake baked, fake boobied gals aren't the 'norm' either.Second, a man's state of arousal is not necessarily correlated with his hardness. A lot goes into making a man hard. For instance, the valves that control the blood flow to the penis sometimes are not as closed off in some men, making for a slightly less rock hard penis. Or, there are some men who masturbate often and if you catch them after they have jacked off once or twice it will not be as hard. Penises come in all shapes, sizes, colors and levels of hardness. I say, as long as it can get the job done - it is perfect for me! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members pappyld04 Posted November 23, 2008 Members Report Share Posted November 23, 2008 First I must say that it is GREAT to see you have not only gotten over the fool, but moved on to find another so quickly!!!!! Just as men will find varying wetness in women you will find thesame in men's erections. Unless it is causing a major problem just enjoy it! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members whitefang2002 Posted November 23, 2008 Author Members Report Share Posted November 23, 2008 We are more FWB. We aren't dating or anything like that. And the funny part is...we dated in high school and my sister made me dump him cuz I wasn't allowed to date and she was going to tell on me. Then when I moved back from SC we messed around a little. And now so once again. He won't have intercourse till marriage...but he's up for anything else. And I am fine with that! ...have more fun doing the foreplay and so on and he still gets me off so I can't complain...and I do return the favor Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ladylove Posted November 24, 2008 Members Report Share Posted November 24, 2008 I agree with Milkayla, as long as it can get the job done, it's perfect! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members ohshelly Posted November 24, 2008 Members Report Share Posted November 24, 2008 Good for you. WF!!I'm glad you are enjoying yourself, and who knows................... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted November 24, 2008 Report Share Posted November 24, 2008 It can also depend on the man's general health too. Or, as mentioned, how tired he is. Again, please don't base anything in a real-life relationship on porn. Porn stars are more, well, everything, just because they're in "show biz" and are pumped up in places, sometimes on the obscene side, for show, to accentuate their sex (women with big boobs, super long nails, and wearing almost impossible high heels, men with huge pecks, larger than normal dicks, and balls that would make a bull moose jealous!) for the camera. Sometimes men can be a bit on the flacid side because he may not feel well, but be rock hard a few days later. It happens.Best wishes!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members square Posted November 25, 2008 Members Report Share Posted November 25, 2008 When I was younger (teens; maybe into 20's; don't remember that well), I could get so hard that it hurt. Any pushing on it (fore, aft, sideways) would hurt.With some aging, that doesn't happen any more. Oh, well. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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