Newbie lenorangel Posted December 31, 2008 Newbie Report Share Posted December 31, 2008 ok i have been dating this guy for about 6 months, me and his family are close, im very good friends with his youngest brothers girlfriend. the last month or so we have been going out to the bar a lot with his youngest brother and his girlfriend. All of a sudden it seems he wants to play the poker machines not with me but with her though i am included. he talks to her more and looks at her more then me. He doesnt seem like the type to want his brothers girlfriend so i dont know how to take this. Is it me or does he want her? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members synirr Posted December 31, 2008 Members Report Share Posted December 31, 2008 You know him better than we do hun, what do you think? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie lenorangel Posted December 31, 2008 Author Newbie Report Share Posted December 31, 2008 i guess the better ?'s are, in a situation like this should i be nervouse he may want her or am i thinking to much into it and if i should be nervouse he wants her should i talk to him about it or let it go and if i should talk to him about it how the hell do i start that type of conversation????????? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mikayla1 Posted December 31, 2008 Members Report Share Posted December 31, 2008 Men do NOT like insecure women. If I were you, I would just quietly observe and don't react to anything unless you really HAVE to. He may just be being nice to his bro's girlfriend. Also, men are visual by nature, he may be a little flirty with her. Is your relationship OK otherwise? Still romantic, no mention of her during intimate times, etc? If not, I would just keep on going as you are, don't mention being jealous or insecure, and if - IF - he does something that warrants further discussion, then have a conversation. Until then, be cool man, be cool. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie lenorangel Posted December 31, 2008 Author Newbie Report Share Posted December 31, 2008 Men do NOT like insecure women. If I were you, I would just quietly observe and don't react to anything unless you really HAVE to. He may just be being nice to his bro's girlfriend. Also, men are visual by nature, he may be a little flirty with her. Is your relationship OK otherwise? Still romantic, no mention of her during intimate times, etc? If not, I would just keep on going as you are, don't mention being jealous or insecure, and if - IF - he does something that warrants further discussion, then have a conversation. Until then, be cool man, be cool.thank you thats all i needed to hear. yes the relationship is fine otherwise. i just wasnt sure how to handle that. i will continue to watch and listen as i have been doing and only say something if it warrants it. thank you agian. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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