Dirty Talk

[DADT]

The Golden Woody for making MsLayD hot early in the morning goes to DADT!

How about awarding The Crimson Lips instead?

I'm honored you enjoyed it.

Perhaps I'll share another some time.

[DADT]

Wondered if one you gals was in the mood to share a dirty talk experience.

[WendyNY]

I would love to, but after reading all the previous posts I don't think I could write anything as good !

My husband doesn't like dirty talk. I probably could get used to doing it, but would need some encouragment from him as I get so embarrassed !! Because he doesn't like it, I don't do it ! It would be such a turn on for me though

if he would talk dirty to me during sex. It would definitely heighten the mood.

I love to watch porn during sex just because of the noises they make and what they say !

[DADT]

I would love to, but after reading all the previous posts I don't think I could write anything as good !

My husband doesn't like dirty talk. I probably could get used to doing it, but would need some encouragment from him as I get so embarrassed !! Because he doesn't like it, I don't do it ! It would be such a turn on for me though

if he would talk dirty to me during sex. It would definitely heighten the mood.

I love to watch porn during sex just because of the noises they make and what they say !

Wendy, WTF. You have toys & watch porn, but are afraid to say naughty words at the height of your passion. How inhibiting. I know, clean up the language. Say stuff like "you are filling me up," "take my flower in your mouth," "I want you to melt in my mouth."

Do you really not talk during sex? Oh dear, dear, dear. This will not do.

And don't be intimidated by previous posts. You write about a naughty though. And then another. And then another. And pretty soon the words are flowing easily. Everyone here has great thoughts. I bet you do too. Give it a try. You'll feel a lot better afterward.

[WendyNY]

Wow, you're good at this !

I actually LOVE listening to or reading the really "dirty" talk.

I have a hard time saying it though (All those years of Catholic School and nuns probably !)

Anyway, thanks for the advice and I will work on it !

[ohshelly]

Wow, you're good at this !

I actually LOVE listening to or reading the really "dirty" talk.

I have a hard time saying it though (All those years of Catholic School and nuns probably !)

Anyway, thanks for the advice and I will work on it !

WendyNY~ That is exactly why it is fun, cuz it is so bad![/

[DADT]

Wow, you're good at this !

I actually LOVE listening to or reading the really "dirty" talk.

I have a hard time saying it though (All those years of Catholic School and nuns probably !)

Anyway, thanks for the advice and I will work on it !

We all love it. Its a primeval way to say "I want to enjoy you. I want you to enjoy me." It isn't really "Dirty." It should be called "Thrill Talk" because that's what you are after. You want urged your partner on. Try saying this to hubby:

Baby I want you to cum for me in the worst way. I need to taste your love.

OR

The way you lick my pussy feels so good. Please don't stop. And put your fingers in me. OMG like that. Yes, Yes. OK, so it is a little colorful.

Wendy you just need to practice more. Often with you charming Catholic gals, once you get started expressing yourselves, you share stuff that Dr. Ruth would be impressed by. Can't wait to hear.

[sass]

I was never a dirty-talker until fairly recently. Long story why, but it is something that can be learned.

[mailahn97]

Same thing here. I would say I started getting into it more in the last 6 months or so. Now I still have moments where I have a little trouble with it, but most times I am fine.

[DADT]

I'm curious gals. What sort of things would you like to hear? Do you want to hear about what is going to be done to you? Or what we want you to do to us? And do you want it "raw" or "medium rare?"

Please teach us what is OK and excites you, and what is a buzz kill.

[sun_flower969]

I'm curious gals. What sort of things would you like to hear? Do you want to hear about what is going to be done to you? Or what we want you to do to us? And do you want it "raw" or "medium rare?"

Please teach us what is OK and excites you, and what is a buzz kill.

I like to hear what he wants to do to me. How he feels, what he imagined me doing to him earlier in the day etc. I definitely like it RAW toward the end starting out a little more subtle in the beginning. ...but then again sometimes getting right into rough and raw is very HOTTT!

For me a definite buzz-kill is sounding scripted. You know trying too hard... If it isn't you baby I don't want to hear it!

[sass]

I like to hear what he wants to do to me. How he feels, what he imagined me doing to him earlier in the day etc. I definitely like it RAW toward the end starting out a little more subtle in the beginning. ...but then again sometimes getting right into rough and raw is very HOTTT!

For me a definite buzz-kill is sounding scripted. You know trying too hard... If it isn't you baby I don't want to hear it!

More evidence that Sun and I are twins! I totally agree with liking to hear what he wants to do to me, how he wants to do it, how much he wants it ... I like to feel very strongly desired and spelling it out there raw and uncensored almost makes it seem more real. If it sounds like he is reciting a card he saw that day, or a book he read, etc., - buzz kill! As long as it sounds real and from him, then I can't think of anything that would be off limits (except calling me by the wrong name!)

[sun_flower969]

More evidence that Sun and I are twins! I totally agree with liking to hear what he wants to do to me, how he wants to do it, how much he wants it ... I like to feel very strongly desired and spelling it out there raw and uncensored almost makes it seem more real. If it sounds like he is reciting a card he saw that day, or a book he read, etc., - buzz kill! As long as it sounds real and from him, then I can't think of anything that would be off limits (except calling me by the wrong name!)

Hahaha Or something he heard in a porno... That totally will put out the fire!

[kjellis]

I love it when my wife would finally start talking dirty to me. She liked it when I did to her but would never do it back.

I like it when she tells me what she is going to do with/to my cock. Or when she is on top and she slowly sits onto it asking me how her wet cunt feels.

[ladylove]

I'm curious gals. What sort of things would you like to hear? Do you want to hear about what is going to be done to you? Or what we want you to do to us? And do you want it "raw" or "medium rare?"

Please teach us what is OK and excites you, and what is a buzz kill.

Ditto for the men.

[Sunday]

My SO has told me she hates the words "pussy" "cock" and "fuck." Problem is, she hasn't come up with any alternative words. For a year and a half we have spoken about our genitals only in clinical terms. And fucking is "having sex." Our sex talk is very dry and clinical and not at all arousing to me.

[ladylove]

My SO has told me she hates the words "pussy" "cock" and "fuck." Problem is, she hasn't come up with any alternative words. For a year and a half we have spoken about our genitals only in clinical terms. And fucking is "having sex." Our sex talk is very dry and clinical and not at all arousing to me.

Sunday, your a very creative writer...... Think! Think up some words that you can attach pussy, cock, fuck, to but at the same time be tame enough for your SO.

[attyathome]

My SO has told me she hates the words "pussy" "cock" and "fuck." Problem is, she hasn't come up with any alternative words. For a year and a half we have spoken about our genitals only in clinical terms. And fucking is "having sex." Our sex talk is very dry and clinical and not at all arousing to me.

Sunday, does she hate those words even at the height of passion? I'm not a fan of them either, in my normal daylight speak, but when I'm aroused and we're in the middle of fooling around, they make me hotter. But I used to not want to use them even then. The first time my husband said "pussy" to me, I was mortified. I really had to force myself to let go of the inhibitions and all the old messages about being a good girl. You're right, though--the clinical terms do nothing to heat up the mood! Think of some other euphemisms that are sexy but less raw, then maybe you can work up to the harder talk.

[Sunday]

Guy and Gals do you like to hear & talk dirty with you SO? If so, in and out of the bedroom or just one? If you feel like it please feel free to share some of your favorite thing to hear and say.

Any or all of these would definitely enhance the experience.

“Do you want me baby?”

“ Do what makes you feel good...”

Do you like tasting my juice baby?

mmm babe you are a wonderful lover you know that?

I want to fuck your mouth with my pussy.

baby, you have no idea how fucking wet I am for you right now.

What if I licked one of my nipples while I was fucking you

Hold my hair away from my face so you can watch me sucking your cock...

I love the way you fuck me,

Do you want to fuck me sweetheart?

Want me to spread my legs, baby?

Yes, sweetheart ... fuck me good ... God … drill me...I need it.

[sun_flower969]

Any or all of these would definitely enhance the experience.

“Do you want me baby?”

“ Do what makes you feel good...”

Do you like tasting my juice baby?

mmm babe you are a wonderful lover you know that?

I want to fuck your mouth with my pussy.

baby, you have no idea how fucking wet I am for you right now.

What if I licked one of my nipples while I was fucking you

Hold my hair away from my face so you can watch me sucking your cock...

I love the way you fuck me,

Do you want to fuck me sweetheart?

Want me to spread my legs, baby?

Yes, sweetheart ... fuck me good ... God … drill me...I need it.

WHEW Agreed!

[Sunday]

Sunday, does she hate those words even at the height of passion? I'm not a fan of them either, in my normal daylight speak, but when I'm aroused and we're in the middle of fooling around, they make me hotter. But I used to not want to use them even then. The first time my husband said "pussy" to me, I was mortified. I really had to force myself to let go of the inhibitions and all the old messages about being a good girl. You're right, though--the clinical terms do nothing to heat up the mood! Think of some other euphemisms that are sexy but less raw, then maybe you can work up to the harder talk.

I hear you. I don't like to use the slang terms in "daylight speak" ( love that phrase!) either. Using them in intimate situations makes it seem more intimate to me. It makes it more like something only we share, and I like that. Anybody got any suggestions for names?

[sun_flower969]

I hear you. I don't like to use the slang terms in "daylight speak" ( love that phrase!) either. Using them in intimate situations makes it seem more intimate to me. It makes it more like something only we share, and I like that. Anybody got any suggestions for names?

OK so she doesn't like Pussy Cock and Fuck (you didn't mention cunt although I an thinking... no right?)

So instead of pussy you could say, slit, hole, talk about her lips, clit etc...

Instead of Cock: rod, hard on, erection, dick... um shaft etc

Instead of Fuck: Screw, penetrate, ram....or say how you want to "give it to her"

Hope that helps.. but IDK those may be even worse than what she already doesn't like LOL

[attyathome]

I hear you. I don't like to use the slang terms in "daylight speak" ( love that phrase!) either. Using them in intimate situations makes it seem more intimate to me. It makes it more like something only we share, and I like that. Anybody got any suggestions for names?

I definitely have the same feeling about having something that's secret, only between us. I'm not very creative, but you could go poetic and call it her flower, rose, something along those lines. Literature is full of beautiful euphemisms for the vagina, but I don't remember them. Probably for the penis and screwing too. My problem is that I find that a little silly, which doesn't help the sexiness. I think that's why the really raw terms work for me--they don't make me giggle. Maybe you need to start with sexy talk that's not explicit about the parts or the act itself--

give it to me.

give me more

you are so hot

your body is on fire

I want to be inside you. (ok a little explicit)

Put your hands on me/all over me.

Your mouth feels so hot

I want my mouth over every inch of you.

????

[ladylove]

cock -- soldier

balls -- boys

pussy -- sweetness?????

[ladylove]

I'm not a fan of them either, in my normal daylight speak, but when I'm aroused and we're in the middle of fooling around, they make me hotter. But I used to not want to use them even then. The first time my husband said "pussy" to me, I was mortified. I really had to force myself to let go of the inhibitions and all the old messages about being a good girl. .

Yes, me too. It took some time to get over it..... I'm so over it!!