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How often does everyone masturbate? I honestly haven't done it in years, but as a teen I was almost always doing it twice or three times a day. My most ever was five times in one day, I had phone sex with about three different girls, plus I was just horny.

So how many times a day do you do it? Any favorite places to do it? Riskiest place you have ever masturbated? Strangest?

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I go through phases. Before I had regular sex, I would sometimes do it up to five time a day. It was usually fast, and often in public places like work or school...you know quickies. Now, I really love to make a thing about it. Reading some porn or browsing through this site for an hour or so before I even start touching myself. I like laying down after that with some porn (lately I've been getting imaginative and purely fantasizing about situations where I meet a stanger or voyueristing stuff) and then taking it really slow. Sroking my penis and sometimes using something in my ass like one of those new toothbrushes that vibrate. I find that anal stimulation make my orgasm much more intense. Lately I actually taste some of my cum because it turns me on for some reason. These types of sessions are about pure pleasure, not just getting off. I actually like the whole process much more than the final orgasm. I also really get into doing it in front of my wife. Even when she is not participating. It just really turns me on to think of someone wathcing me. I'd say these types of sessions usually last an hour or so, but it is hard for me to get that much time by myself.

Sometimes when I'm at work alone in my office I browse the web for sexy pictures. Usually not porn because the computer guy would know. It turns me on to see women in good shape, fully dressed, but showing the contours of their bodies so I can imagine what they look like undressed. When I do this, I usually quickly jerk off.

I have masturbated regularly since I was fairly young (10 years old). At first I felt embarassed...maybe even ashamed--I would never openly admit to it and I would get embarassed if someone found my porn stash. I'm old enough now to realize it is completely natural and something to really enjoy. I am very comfortable to sharing experience with other men as well as women. In fact, it is a huge turn on for to have a sexual discussion about what what my female friends think about it, how they do it, etc. I now think that people who don't (or say they don't masturbate) are doing themselves a disservice and missing out on a really pleasurable experience. There's nothing like sex with a woman (or even a hand job from a woman), but sometimes you just gotta do it yourself.

The other day I did it on my way home from work. I didn't have anything to wipe up with, so I ended up just licking the cum off my hands. I like to taste my cum sometimes, but eating it all is too much. However, I love eating pussy after I cum inside, and I love it even more when my partner want a juicy kiss afterwards.

I talk openly to a few of my male friends about this type of thing. As a kid, I have had sexual experience with friends, but it was pre-puberty. If I thought it wouldn't turn into a weird thing, I would like to masturbate in front of one of my friends, maybe even give head to someone. Not so much because it turns me on, but because I am interested in the experience. Why is it that many women have these types of experiences with their friends, but relatively few men do? I am not gay, and I don't think this curiosity is anything that is all that uncommon. I just don't think guys like to bring this type of thing up. What does anyone else think. Have any of you guys ever jerked off in front of other guys. Sometimes I'll visit a friend, and he'll be watching a porn, and I just get horny. I feel like asking if he minds if I masturbate, but I have never actually done it.

I think when I stay in hotels, it is the best masturbation time for me. I am usually away on business, and I always do it up good. It is one of the times I always stimulate myself anally. I really love sticking something small like beads up my ass when I'm jerking off. I have asked a few of my guy friends, and many of them say they haven't done this, but they love anal sex with women. I look at anal stimulation as one of few mutual sexual experiences that men and women can both enjoy. I have tried my wifes dildo and vibe on myself, however, and it has been pain ful, so I usally use something small. I don't like fingering my ass, though. I like the fantasy of being fucked in the ass. My wife does it occassionally, but she is a little apprehensive about it.

How often does everyone masturbate? I honestly haven't done it in years, but as a teen I was almost always doing it twice or three times a day. My most ever was five times in one day, I had phone sex with about three different girls, plus I was just horny.

So how many times a day do you do it? Any favorite places to do it? Riskiest place you have ever masturbated? Strangest?

COME ON PPL!!! 25 views and not one post? Nobody will fess up to how they fly solo?

I go through phases. Before I had regular sex, I would sometimes do it up to five time a day. It was usually fast, and often in public places like work or school...you know quickies. Now, I really love to make a thing about it. Reading some porn or browsing through this site for an hour or so before I even start touching myself. I like laying down after that with some porn (lately I've been getting imaginative and purely fantasizing about situations where I meet a stanger or voyueristing stuff) and then taking it really slow. Sroking my penis and sometimes using something in my ass like one of those new toothbrushes that vibrate. I find that anal stimulation make my orgasm much more intense. Lately I actually taste some of my cum because it turns me on for some reason. These types of sessions are about pure pleasure, not just getting off. I actually like the whole process much more than the final orgasm. I also really get into doing it in front of my wife. Even when she is not participating. It just really turns me on to think of someone wathcing me. I'd say these types of sessions usually last an hour or so, but it is hard for me to get that much time by myself.

Sometimes when I'm at work alone in my office I browse the web for sexy pictures. Usually not porn because the computer guy would know. It turns me on to see women in good shape, fully dressed, but showing the contours of their bodies so I can imagine what they look like undressed. When I do this, I usually quickly jerk off.

I have masturbated regularly since I was fairly young (10 years old). At first I felt embarassed...maybe even ashamed, but I now think that people who don't (or say they don't masturbate) are doing themselves a disservice and missing out on a really pleasurable experience. There's nothing like sex with a woman (or even a hand job from a woman), but sometimes you just gotta do it yourself.

The other day I did it on my way home from work. I didn't have anything to wipe up with, so I ended up just licking the cum off my hands. I like to taste my cum sometimes, but eating it all is too much. However, I love eating pussy after I cum inside, and I love it even more when my partner want a juicy kiss afterwards.

I talk openly to a few of my male friends about this type of thing. As a kid, I have had sexual experience with friends, but it was pre-puberty. If I thought it would turn into a weird thing, I would like to masturbate in front of one of my friends, maybe even give head to someone. Not so much because it turns me on, but because I am interested in the experience. Why is it that many women have these types of experiences with their friends, but relatively few men do? I am not gay, and I don't think this curiosity is anything that is all that uncommon. I just don't think guys like to bring this type of thing up. What does anyone else think. Have any of you guys ever jerked off in front of other guys. Sometimes I'll visit a friend, and he'll be watching a porn, and I just get horny. I feel like asking if he minds if I masturbate, but I have never actually done it.

How often does everyone masturbate? I honestly haven't done it in years, but as a teen I was almost always doing it twice or three times a day. My most ever was five times in one day, I had phone sex with about three different girls, plus I was just horny.

So how many times a day do you do it? Any favorite places to do it? Riskiest place you have ever masturbated? Strangest?

COME ON PPL!!! 25 views and not one post? Nobody will fess up to how they fly solo?

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Ok Crazy, I HAD to have missed this post!

I am not anxious to answer to how often I masturbate, everyone here knows I do it quite often, as often as I feel the need.

What I feel the need to respond to is your "claim" that "honestly, I haven't done it in years!"

Are you KIDDING me???????

There is NO way on earth that you do not masturbate! I know you are happily married, and I know you have a fullfilling sex life, but Crazy.....you DO masturbate! In fact, statistically, married men masturbate MORE than most single men because the regular sex they get during early marriage years boosts their hormones causing a surge, and then during their wife's menstrual cyles or off times, they have to release. So you are NOT going to tell me and all these good people that you haven't masturbated in YEARS!!!

I mean, I give my hubby regular sex, sometimes 2 times a day (not every day mind you) and HE STILL MASTURBATES! He needs the "solo, alone" time!

So, fess up here bud, you DO IT TOO!

Mikayla ;)

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Sorry Sugar, but no. I have not been on a solo mission in quite a few years. That is the God's honest truth.

I will stroke myself infront of my wife, it gets her very hot, but we always, ALWAYS, switch over to something else, oral, or anal play, but I have not jerked off to "completion" in so long, I can't remember when the last time was.

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Ok, I suppose I have to take you at your word, HOWEVER, I would say 2 things to you:

Statistically, you are an enigma! According to most research, "If a man has limbs, he is masturbating" - so you must have amazing control! Masturbating does not mean that you do not have a fullfilling sex life, conversely, it can mean that your sex life rocks and you can't get enough!

Masturbation is a way to relax, unwind, adjust to stress - masturbation is almost a necessity for most men - I really think you are cheating your body out of it's normal stress relieving by NOT masturbating!

I would say to you, that you should try to get back on the one legged horse - even once a week can be a tremendous benefit to you for stress relieving and semen producing! Medically speaking, the more semen a man excretes (through sex or masturbation) the more he will produce, and the hornier he will be. So, keeping your testes producing semen will help keep you ready for your wife (as if you weren't already!)

Mikayla ;)

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How often does everyone masturbate? I honestly haven't done it in years, but as a teen I was almost always doing it twice or three times a day. My most ever was five times in one day, I had phone sex with about three different girls, plus I was just horny.

So how many times a day do you do it? Any favorite places to do it? Riskiest place you have ever masturbated? Strangest?

COME ON PPL!!! 25 views and not one post? Nobody will fess up to how they fly solo?

Well, even in my marriage, I masturbated. For me, it is my way of settling my mind, and relaxing before I go to sleep. Get the days events to clear out and leave only one thing in mind...pleasure. And if I wake up during the night, you guessed it, it is how I go back to sleep. I don't always do it until the full orgasm, usually just enough to relax and go to sleep. For a lot of my friends, and for people that say they never masturbate, they are either lying, and too embarrassed to admit to doing so or they just don't have no sex drive at all.

I have a really bad habit of running late in the mornings, because I love to do it in the tub in the mornings...and time gets away with me :D. But it is the next to best thing to start the day out with. Perfer sex in the mornings, but with hubby locked up, and divorce to be final soon....and I have only just begun seeing someone, and we are not at the staying over with each other stage, sex is not a morning option right now :( , so that leaves me to take care of issues :D

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How often does everyone masturbate? I honestly haven't done it in years, but as a teen I was almost always doing it twice or three times a day. My most ever was five times in one day, I had phone sex with about three different girls, plus I was just horny.

So how many times a day do you do it? Any favorite places to do it? Riskiest place you have ever masturbated? Strangest?

COME ON PPL!!! 25 views and not one post? Nobody will fess up to how they fly solo?

I used to do it at least once a night, but my "me" time has dwindled down to a mere once a week most of the time. :(

My favorite place to masteerbate would probably be the bathtub. There is just something completely relaxing about that setting, and just makes it so much better. =D

Riskiest place I've ever done it was the back of a classroom when I was in high school. I sat in the back corner by myself, so it was easy to go undetected. That was a one-time thing though.

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How often does everyone masturbate? I honestly haven't done it in years, but as a teen I was almost always doing it twice or three times a day. My most ever was five times in one day, I had phone sex with about three different girls, plus I was just horny.

So how many times a day do you do it? Any favorite places to do it? Riskiest place you have ever masturbated? Strangest?

COME ON PPL!!! 25 views and not one post? Nobody will fess up to how they fly solo?

Well I don't jerk off near as much as I used to. Tho day before yesterday I was missing my sweetie so I had to-so I did. :rolleyes::lol::P:ph34r: Ooooohhhhh yeah......12G

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WOW! Crazy I sit right there with Mikaylas comment on this subject. I have a wonderful sex life and I am completely satisfied in my sex life again. DO I masturbate? OH ya every chance I get :P Does my husband who is also very satisfied? YES and I love to watch him, in fact just the other night we had a masturbation night, it was very rewarding to the both of us. We weren't aloud to touch one another, or one anothers toys, we could kiss but that was about it. What a wonderful fun filled night. A man that hasn't masturbated in years, I can't believe it. Sry

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I have to agree with Mikayla and Kat on this. My husband and I enjoy each other immensely, though sometimes are timings are off, so one of us masturbates for the release. I don't know any man that would say he doesn't masturbate. Most men will raise their hairy palms proudly! :lol: Just kidding on the palms.....maybe. ;) But, if someone says they don't, I guess there's no proving otherwise (without getting arrested for being a peeping Tom that is). More power to ya! :)

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I do it quite often mostly. I have a wonderful sex life with my husband. I don't think I could ever find a better lover. But I do love to tickle myself. But I think I may be the only girl that only tickles my clit. I don't like to stick my fingers inside. I slide them down enough to get them wet and then bring the slippery wetness up to my clit and continue playing. I can tickle fast and make myself cum within minutes or I can do it real slow and make it just feel so good and change the way I'm moving my finger on her and make it last and last. All depends on my mood.

Are there any other girls who only tickle their clit? Or do most everyone else who does this stick fingers inside too. To tell you the truth, I can't orgasm unless my clit is tickled. That is how I cum, even with hubby. I will orgasm with him inside me, but it's because he's rubbing my clit at the same time. Is this weird?

I don't masturbate everyday all the time, but I would say that 90% of the time I play with myself at least 2-3 times a day and all over the place. I've even done it in the car on my way home from work or on my way home from the store or somewhere like that. But, knowing the laws and not wanting to get in trouble, I usually have a short skirt on that covers me and if I'm stopped at a light I take my hand out. But, the best is during the winter and I have on my heavy winter coat. I'ts very big and baggy and I can slide my left arm out of the arm of the coat, undo my pants under my coat, get my hand down inside my pants and panties and go to town under my coat and no one knows a thing is going on. They don't know this because I place the arm of my coat in a position that my arm would normally be in if I weren't tickling myself. :D THAT'S fun. Because then I CAN keep tickling when I'm stopped at a red light and no one would know what I'm doing even if they would look over and see me. THAT gets me going even more. lol Hubby knows I do this and loves it. He usually has his turn at me when I get home on those days because I've had at least one "O" during the session and am all wet. He likes to lick up the wettness and then make me go a couple more times. :)

So, I can honestly and proudly say that I am one of the girls that tickles usually a lot during the day, more during the summer since I don't work during the summertime. And when I am at work I can go and use the restroom anytime I need to. I work at a nursery school. I used to feel weird and like a pervert feeling horny while at work, but then I just had to tell myself that it is a natural feeling for me to have no matter where I am and it has absolutely nothing to do with the kids. But, if I get real busy with them, if we're working on a project or if I'm busy playing a game with them, then it's usually in the car on the way home or once I get home because I get too busy and forget to be horny. LOL

O.k., I've rambled. Hope I haven't said too much.

Happy tickling whoever you may be! ;)

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Well Pink. Thanks for that ! I think I need to go to the bathroom and get off now. :P

After reading about all you, I have to wonder if I shouldn't be doing this more. I used to think it was wasting myself and that I wouldn't be as 'available' for my wife if I happened to get lucky later that day. Well. I am over that now because I know I can rise to the occasion with her at any time and she is totally open about it anyway so if I told her I got off earlier in the day she would think that was great without reservation. Getting her off is much easier and she can do it many times over.

I honestly only do it a couple times a month. Usually during alone time at home with a porn. Sometimes in the car driving to work. I am seriously more horny in the morning and have a pretty long drive. I Enjoy it when I do and have started to do it more often. Sometimes my wife and I have IM sex while I am at work and I get extremely turned on. Used to race home to have sex with her. Now I am completly ok with going off alone for a while and jerking off and then going home and doing it again with my wife !!

So. It's all good I guess and can get even better !

Have never even approached the subject of doing it with another man. Completely not bi and not really even bi curious.

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When I'm working, I don't work during the summer, my husband and I text message each other in the afternoons and sometimes they can get a little steamy. I'll even go into the bathroom and take a special "picture" of myself and send that to him. ;) LOL That really gets him going.

We frequent a store in our area, I don't know if I'm allowed to mention the name or not, that has "marital aides" as they call them and he has bought me many things from there, but one that I carry in my purse all the time and it looks like a normal lipstick case but it is really a vibrator. It may be small, but it can really do the trick good and FAST! The store by the way is very tastefully put together and well done. It's not a hole in the wall and you don't feel "weird" walking in or out of it.

Also, I read somewhere else on here that someone's favorite toy is the Pocket Rocket. Let me tell ya, I have two of em, one's waterproof and one isn't and those are two of my favorite toys. I have others that I like a lot, but those two and the one I carry in my purse are great! ;) Might be a nice "surprise" gift for your wife. :D;)

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Well Pink. Thanks for that ! I think I need to go to the bathroom and get off now. :P

After reading about all you, I have to wonder if I shouldn't be doing this more. I used to think it was wasting myself and that I wouldn't be as 'available' for my wife if I happened to get lucky later that day. Well. I am over that now because I know I can rise to the occasion with her at any time and she is totally open about it anyway so if I told her I got off earlier in the day she would think that was great without reservation. Getting her off is much easier and she can do it many times over.

I honestly only do it a couple times a month. Usually during alone time at home with a porn. Sometimes in the car driving to work. I am seriously more horny in the morning and have a pretty long drive. I Enjoy it when I do and have started to do it more often. Sometimes my wife and I have IM sex while I am at work and I get extremely turned on. Used to race home to have sex with her. Now I am completly ok with going off alone for a while and jerking off and then going home and doing it again with my wife !!

So. It's all good I guess and can get even better !

Have never even approached the subject of doing it with another man. Completely not bi and not really even bi curious.

I'm glad to hear that you are over being afraid to bring yourself pleasure. I don't think you're wasting yourself at all. If anything, you're gearing yourself up and getting ready to give her a great night! :) I think you should take baby steps and step up your "alone" time. Since you say you only do it a couple times a month, maybe do it once a week, then twice a week. But, if you are comfortable with twice a month and that's all you want, then that's fine too. Everyone has their own tastes and knows what they want and need. I'm not going to tell you you should do it more or less, but I think it's a fun and enjoyable thing to do and you'd enjoy it if you did it more often. ;)

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I am all for more often !!

We have a couple 'classy' adult stores around here and it's great fun to go shopping !! Often on the agenda any time we have no kids and a night out. We absolutely love to have 'chat' sessions and send links from TT back in forth with new toys we would like to buy. Most of what we purchase is from TT, but there is a downside. We are on the west coast and TT is on the East Coast. Can you believe that we wait 5 or 6 days most of the time for new toys !!! I know expediting is an option but we usually just go standard on shipping. Dang. That can be a long week sometimes !

My wife insists that I can wake her up for sex in the mornings but I feel so guilty ?! I get up pretty early for work and she can, if she chooses, sleep for another hour or so. I am also typically pressing the envelope for time. But it is an option should I choose most of the time and certainly some times I do. I also typically shower at night because I get up so early. So I got that going for me.

She has sent me some very hot pictures of some of her BOB time while I have been at work. UH. Did I say only two times a month............ ;)

I promise. I WILL practice !

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I am suggesting that you talk to your wife about changing your sleep schedule. Go to bed earlier, and set your alarm clock earlier- at least an hour. That gives you both time to shower and play while you know the kids are still asleep, before getting in the car for that long drive. She can go back to bed after you leave and enjoy anothe hour of sleep or more.

Howard

I hear ya dude. But really. Do you have kids? I can't tell you how hard I am laughing at the notion of just up and changing the schedule to go to bed earlier. No. Unfortunately. Our schedule is largely dictated by kids, activities, the house, work.........ok. Kids.

But like I said to Pink. I am all for trying to have more fun however, whenever or whatever it happens to be !! And I am lucky enough to have a wife that agrees. Perhaps I will win the lottery and then we can just have sex all day !! Wooo Hooo.

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Go for it my friend! YOU DA MAN!! And play with your poor self every chance you get. Release, release, release equals, relaxed, relaxed, relaxed. AND better sex, better sex and more better sex! YEEHAW! :D Keep me posted on how things are cumming. LOL ;)

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I once heard that there were two kinds of men, masturbators and liars... I don't want to start an argument, but it seems highly unusual.

I agree with the crowd. Even with a very satisfying sex life, there are times when I want it and my wife really doesn't (someone has to have a higher sex drive than the other person). I'll have to take matters into my own hands a couple times a week.

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Well, even in my marriage, I masturbated. For me, it is my way of settling my mind, and relaxing before I go to sleep. Get the days events to clear out and leave only one thing in mind...pleasure. And if I wake up during the night, you guessed it, it is how I go back to sleep. I don't always do it until the full orgasm, usually just enough to relax and go to sleep. For a lot of my friends, and for people that say they never masturbate, they are either lying, and too embarrassed to admit to doing so or they just don't have no sex drive at all.

I have a really bad habit of running late in the mornings, because I love to do it in the tub in the mornings...and time gets away with me :D. But it is the next to best thing to start the day out with. Perfer sex in the mornings, but with hubby locked up, and divorce to be final soon....and I have only just begun seeing someone, and we are not at the staying over with each other stage, sex is not a morning option right now :( , so that leaves me to take care of issues :D

I will say that she was right that the more I have sex with my wife which is not very often lately but I find that I do it more often solo.Since I have got a couple of my own toys I have been doing it a couple times a day and like to fantise about us and sometimes think of doing threesomes .I all so have had help from reading this site. I have used dvd. I have also done it while driving down the road but not in along time.I have tried the taste of my own cum and it dose make you a lot horner and don't think it was all that bad .

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When I'm working, I don't work during the summer, my husband and I text message each other in the afternoons and sometimes they can get a little steamy. I'll even go into the bathroom and take a special "picture" of myself and send that to him. ;) LOL That really gets him going.

We frequent a store in our area, I don't know if I'm allowed to mention the name or not, that has "marital aides" as they call them and he has bought me many things from there, but one that I carry in my purse all the time and it looks like a normal lipstick case but it is really a vibrator. It may be small, but it can really do the trick good and FAST! The store by the way is very tastefully put together and well done. It's not a hole in the wall and you don't feel "weird" walking in or out of it.

Also, I read somewhere else on here that someone's favorite toy is the Pocket Rocket. Let me tell ya, I have two of em, one's waterproof and one isn't and those are two of my favorite toys. I have others that I like a lot, but those two and the one I carry in my purse are great! ;) Might be a nice "surprise" gift for your wife. :D;)

Not sure how I missed your part of this post but when I did see it I had to go do a search on the lipstick vibrator. Man (or woman, as the case may be), I gotta get me one of these! That is too cool and what a turn on to know you have with you all the time and for ANY time that might arise. Hehehehe.

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Sorry Sugar, but no. I have not been on a solo mission in quite a few years. That is the God's honest truth.

I will stroke myself infront of my wife, it gets her very hot, but we always, ALWAYS, switch over to something else, oral, or anal play, but I have not jerked off to "completion" in so long, I can't remember when the last time was.

We could argue the ups and downs of it for years but just because you don't complete the act doesn't mean it didn't happen. Stroking in front of your wife is still masturbating! I've never had a relationship that didn't include masturbation. Although I have been lucky enough to have had some lovers who love to help or do it for me. One of my Xs would jack me off every night at least once. She loved it ALMOST as much as I did.

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I had masturbating phases =p. I did masturbate when i was 12 xD, I downloaded porns but i stopped 3 weeks later afraid of getting caugh by my parents. Started masturbing like crazy when i was 15, weekdays 2~3 times daily and weekends usualy at 2a.m i get some good porns and masturbate till like 5 a.m. Still when i was 15 i lost my virginity and after that i stopped masturbating like crazy, just 1~2 times a week. I stopped masturbating with like 17 and now i do it some times =]

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