Members heyheyhey Posted May 18, 2006 Members Report Share Posted May 18, 2006 just wondering what married women think about when they masturbate...do they think about their husbands at all...would love to hear from women on this Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Mikayla1 Posted May 18, 2006 Members Report Share Posted May 18, 2006 It really depends! I have had some fan-fucking-tastic sexual experiences in the past (before hubby) that I sometimes go back and revisit for fun when I masturbate. I also sometimes think about my hubby, especially if we have just had a killer night of sex. It really depends on what I am looking to accomplish.Generally, if I am looking for slow and sensual, I go for the hubby. If I am looking for fast and furious, one of my past scenerious might do it better.!Variety...the spice of life!Mikayla Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members heyheyhey Posted May 18, 2006 Author Members Report Share Posted May 18, 2006 It really depends! I have had some fan-fucking-tastic sexual experiences in the past (before hubby) that I sometimes go back and revisit for fun when I masturbate. I also sometimes think about my hubby, especially if we have just had a killer night of sex. It really depends on what I am looking to accomplish.Generally, if I am looking for slow and sensual, I go for the hubby. If I am looking for fast and furious, one of my past scenerious might do it better.!Variety...the spice of life!Mikayla Great...makes a lot of sense...thanks Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tyger Posted June 2, 2006 Report Share Posted June 2, 2006 Like Mikala, I had a somewhat wild past, esp when I was recently divorced, so I may fantasize about someone from back then. Or, maybe a cute guy I work with. But I would NEVER tell hubby this cuz he is so insecure, says I am a flirt, and is jealous. Plus, it would probably hurt him, so I don't tell him what I fantasize. And I don't ask what he fantasizes about, cuz he just give the cheezy answer (the one time I did ask) "you". Yeah, ok. I am not stupid and know that men also fantasize about other women, but apparently he doesn't get that I know that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members nosleepnmesa Posted June 3, 2006 Members Report Share Posted June 3, 2006 Well like Mikayla sometimes I think about hubby and the things I wish he would do to me and that is enough to get me off and other times I think about my X since we had hot, wild and crazy sex. I think it all depends on the mood I am in and how much time I actually have to masturbate. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members Scout Posted June 4, 2006 Members Report Share Posted June 4, 2006 just wondering what married women think about when they masturbate...do they think about their husbands at all...would love to hear from women on thisI think of whomever I'm thinking of...maybe it's my lover, or my ex-husband (who was always a great lover), or the man I'm talking to the phone who has me totally turned on - hmmmmm, wonder if he knows he does that to me? The wonderful thing about it is that we can fantasize with whomever - and make them any kind of lover we choose! Enjoy!Scout Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members always Posted June 15, 2006 Members Report Share Posted June 15, 2006 My wife has a very active fantasy life, and she often tells me about. She often gets off on imagining she is being dominated in some way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members hrnychick Posted June 15, 2006 Members Report Share Posted June 15, 2006 Ok I know I shouldnt be letting this secret out of the bag but what a better place then TooTimid right?I am married and from reading past posts on this topic seems like I am the only one so far that doesnt think of hubby.......I dont even think of him sometimes.......Its not that our sex life isnt good cause it is great or that he isnt good cause he isgreat its just what gets me off is thinking of a 3sum with a hot couple and/or being dominated in some way. Dont know why my hubby isnt a part of any of what i think about while I am getting off its always been that way.I guess I tend to think about things that I didnt try or maybe someone I like but know I will never have.........well what can I say it works for me.........and hubby doesnt ask and I dont tell nor do I ask him Im sure I would get that answer of him only thinking of me and like the other post said you just know thats not true......im sure he thinks of other women.....but what we dont know wont hurt us right? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie tabbywabby Posted July 8, 2006 Newbie Report Share Posted July 8, 2006 I am new and this is my first post I have only had sex with my hubby and I think about things I want him to do to me. Sometimes we actually watch porn and masturbate together. It is really erotic and strangley comforting at the same time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members greenkimmy35 Posted July 8, 2006 Members Report Share Posted July 8, 2006 I am new and this is my first post I have only had sex with my hubby and I think about things I want him to do to me. Sometimes we actually watch porn and masturbate together. It is really erotic and strangley comforting at the same time.Welcome Tabby!I also have only had sex with my hubby and think about him and what I want him to do to me and what he has done in the past...... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie wolf Posted July 18, 2006 Newbie Report Share Posted July 18, 2006 just wondering what married women think about when they masturbate...do they think about their husbands at all...would love to hear from women on thisIt depends how new the marriage is, the honeymoon period is on. However, if you're talking about an old marriage, I am sure that the majority of married women does masturbate with thoughts of others. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members househunter Posted July 19, 2006 Members Report Share Posted July 19, 2006 I can't get my wife to Masturbat. She saids that it is too nasty. I think secertly that she really wants to try it but doesn't know what to do. Some times I'll see her playing with her boobs, but that is about as far as she goes. Never has she gone down stairs on her self. But during sex I'll take her hand and place it down there for her. Man does that ever get her so wet and turned on!!Any thoughts on how I can get her to open up to the idea of masturbation? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie Jules Posted July 20, 2006 Newbie Report Share Posted July 20, 2006 To be totally honest...There are two different things I think about. One is the guitarist of my favorite band that I have loved since I was 12 (now I am 35 lol) The other is...me watching and/or participating in sex with a pretty girl. My husband and I have this adult movie where there is alot of girl/girl action and it turns me on...big time. I picture that but with me involved in the action. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members A725732 Posted July 20, 2006 Members Report Share Posted July 20, 2006 I can't get my wife to Masturbat. She saids that it is too nasty. I think secertly that she really wants to try it but doesn't know what to do. Some times I'll see her playing with her boobs, but that is about as far as she goes. Never has she gone down stairs on her self. But during sex I'll take her hand and place it down there for her. Man does that ever get her so wet and turned on!!Any thoughts on how I can get her to open up to the idea of masturbation?Well you can ensure her that masturbation is completely normal. I'm curious as to what she thinks is so nasty. If she is afraid to touch herself down there naked she could start off but rubbing herself through her panties. Also have you tried masturbating in front of her? I think that is extremely sexy when my husband does this. It makes me want to just hop right on. You might want to bring this up in a new post you will probably get some great responses! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie Jules Posted July 20, 2006 Newbie Report Share Posted July 20, 2006 Well you can ensure her that masturbation is completely normal. I'm curious as to what she thinks is so nasty. If she is afraid to touch herself down there naked she could start off but rubbing herself through her panties. Also have you tried masturbating in front of her? I think that is extremely sexy when my husband does this. It makes me want to just hop right on. You might want to bring this up in a new post you will probably get some great responses!Aphrodite...I totally agree with you! Take it slow, perhaps during foreplay, place her hand on herself and with your hand on hers, slowly move her hand in a sensious way to get her going...just a thought. Lead the way so to speak....and Aphrodite........I LOVE watching my husband masturbate...It gets me so worked up ...we end up having fun watching eachother. As it should be! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members househunter Posted July 20, 2006 Members Report Share Posted July 20, 2006 Thanks for the response... I'll give it a try. I do lead her down to touch her self during sex. But on her own she will not do it. This would make for a great new post. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie Sherrymer Posted July 30, 2006 Newbie Report Share Posted July 30, 2006 Thanks for the response... I'll give it a try. I do lead her down to touch her self during sex. But on her own she will not do it. This would make for a great new post.Masterbations is the greatest friend of a widow after 40 years + of great sex. If I did/t masterbate and use my toys I'd blow up.[col or=#CC33CC] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members extralove Posted August 15, 2006 Members Report Share Posted August 15, 2006 i think more about situations, like going into a mall and meeting a stranger, talking for a while, catch him checking me out then just saying to him, can i suck your cock??? he not knowing I am a tranny really turns me on, this is what gets me off to think about, I once had a cute guy take my bags out to the car, I turned to him and said, you have such a nice bulge in your pants, can i suck you off baby, he said yes, oh my, he shot so hard and so quick it was so hot, his cum tasted like fresh honey, i squirted in my panties alittle while totally soft, I havent been hard in 5 years, I think for me an orgasm is so much better soft, I am meeting that boy tonight, I want him to pound my ass all night and fill me with his juice, I will just tell him I am on the rag, he wont know, i only have 2 inches so its easy to cover, man I can't wait to feel is thick shaft sliding deep in my ass pussy, make me groan and squirt like a little girl.extra love loves it thick Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie lydster Posted August 16, 2006 Newbie Report Share Posted August 16, 2006 I'm new to this group too. To answer your question/statement, I fantasize about other people. However, I don't tell my hubby. It would hurt him. He's a great guy overall. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members allit Posted August 17, 2006 Members Report Share Posted August 17, 2006 I don't really think about it; just want her to have a wonderfull orgasm. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie l k Posted November 5, 2006 Newbie Report Share Posted November 5, 2006 I dont think of hubby at all when masturbating. Should I be ashamed of myself.......... I think of lady sonia............. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Members zimmersdreamer Posted November 12, 2006 Members Report Share Posted November 12, 2006 i am pregnant and masturbate a lot lately, but it happens to be the last male i encountered that day. mail man?? past boyfriend if we talked..the latest in the best have been movie men i could never get with tay diggs for one... as far as would i ever tell my SO? never, dont lie and say he is the only person i dream about i just simply say who ever it was did the job right? to not get jealous do you, when you masturbate, always dream of your wife? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Newbie sixpak Posted November 13, 2006 Newbie Report Share Posted November 13, 2006 Masterbations is the greatest friend of a widow after 40 years + of great sex. If I did/t masterbate and use my toys I'd blow up.[col or=#CC33CC]It is also a great way to relax when your SO is in the states and I am 8000 miles away on a military contract with no possibility of female companionship i.e Prostitutes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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