lsujules

I wish I could. I live in a small town, so there's nothing like that here. Pretty much all of the friends I have here are all older than me and are married. The nearest big city is over an hour away. Sometimes I feel like I'm caught in the middle. I'm not really into the club/bar thing and I think I'm a little old for that anyway. But being 30, makes me sometimes feel like I'm beyond the age of meeting someone. I don't always feel like that, but I guess it's just that I don't feel like I can meet people as easily as younger college age folks can - if that makes sense.

Sometimes I wish I had someone like that to call up and have some fun with, but I don't have anyone like that. I've made it solo so far, so I can keep it going. Just gets to me some times because I know that being with someone in person or other can make things really different. It helps me to learn about things I can do alone to satisfy my needs in the meantime.

Thanks for all of your replies! All this has me wanting to go play some! I never really though about it helping with cramps, but I will certainly remember that in the future. Pinky - interesting that it helps get things over faster...I'll have to make a note of that. Is there anything special y'all might do to help have a g-spot orgasm alone? I'll be looking on the site for a toy to help. I have found lately that hearing sexual activity and watching only a little helps me get going. Might be me being strange, but I look at porn type stuff, but listen to it more than watch. Since I have never been sexually active or in a serious relationship, it's hard for me to fantasize. That might sound crazy, but it just sort of is. I'm really glad I've found a place where I can ask these kinds of questions and not feel so ashamed or embarassed.

I'm a 30 year old virgin who enjoys masturbating. I've been reading many of the posts on the site and have a couple questions to throw out there at the members. First, for some reason, I find myself really "excited" during my period. Do any other women out there find that also? I'm not really into playing because of I hope obvious reasons. How do you guys handle playing during that time? Secondly, I was wondering about g-spot orgasms. They interest me greatly, but I'm not as sure about how to try myself since I don't have a partner to help. Are there any tips or maybe some great toys that can help me to experience one of these amazing sounding O's? Lastly I was wondering if it's possible for all women to have multiple o's. I find myself being so fullfilled after having one O that I can't seem to bring myself to try more though it does interest me because it seems that the additional O's are so great! This is my first post, so I hope I'm not asking too many questions at once!