is this the first time he has cheated on his wife? That may have something to do with it.
....And be careful. You both are in love with what you've built in your minds memory. He nor you are the people you were 19 years ago. Go slow, figure out who he is now, more importantly figure out who you are now.
Yes, most definitely the first time he's ever cheated.
And thank you for the advice. You are right. Much of what we are feeling is from 19 years ago. We've got lots of catching up to do. I was just learning to be happy on my own, and was getting comfortable in my own skin. I wasn't expecting this, and I never thought I'd be this person. That said, I'm still dating other people. I'm not counting on him, or anyone else to make me happy.
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Yes, most definitely the first time he's ever cheated.
And thank you for the advice. You are right. Much of what we are feeling is from 19 years ago. We've got lots of catching up to do. I was just learning to be happy on my own, and was getting comfortable in my own skin. I wasn't expecting this, and I never thought I'd be this person. That said, I'm still dating other people. I'm not counting on him, or anyone else to make me happy.