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  1. Does she enjoy foreplay at all, or is she more puritanical where sex is only penetration?

    If she appreciates the foreplay, I would recommend a starter such as a lightly vibrating finger toy - maybe something that can increase in stronger vibrations if she's responsive. Don't simply apply it immediately, but start it with some gentle touches nearby. Maybe the inner crease of the hip, the curve of her bum, even maybe a little nipple stimulation.

    If she seems to appreciate your efforts, increase the vibration as well as your approach.

    If she's a fan of receiving oral sex, maybe lightly use it in addition to your tongue.

    If she still doesn't like it, maybe you could leave it lying on her bedside table and hope she gets curious ;)

  2. I'm personally not a fan of it and feel a bit silly when I let Husband do it, but sometimes when I'm giving him head and he's laying on his back, I give him a titty fuck, but then move back to head and eventually work my way back up to kiss him and hop on the joystick for a while. I know it's something he loves, so I do that for him. I know he doesn't particularly LOVE sticking his fingers inside me, but he does it because it's what I love best. Compromise is key to a healthy relationship both in and out of the bedroom.

  3. When my husband and I were just dating, we didn't have anywhere private that we could have sex other than in our cars. We each lived with our parents, so if we wanted sex, we had to be creative. First, we tried it in my car. We drove around scouting for a quiet, unpopulated area that was dark. We finally found a dirt road and it was so great, it took us longer to find the place than it did to finish the act. Next, we tried his car. Cavaliers have really roomy back seats, everyone. The best sex of my life was in the back of his Cav. And in the back of an abandoned K-Mart building, to boot! We lived in Florida and it was so hot in there, the windows were all steamed up so we slapped our hands in the condensation (ala Titanic's sex scene) so he'd have something to smile about when he drove around.

    The car we have NOW... we tried to have sex in every position, every seat and we just can't manage it. I get rug burn or we bang our heads on the ceiling, don't have leg room or just can't get it to work. I swear, I'm going to get an El Camino just so I can put a mattress in the back.

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  4. When husband and I first started dating and having sex, he had only been with one other person, missionary style all the way. So after a few weeks of either missionary or cowgirl, I was ready to venture out a bit, so I said "you know what could be fun?" and then I made a couple of suggestions for altered positions, blindfolds, etc. We progressed up to role playing, bondage and other "extremes" but it had to go very slowly since he was pretty new to experimentation.

  5. I don't always love the idea, but sometimes, we have to let our freak out of the box. When the husband and I were dating, we were on a nature hike and decided it was time to mess around. We didn't have sex (not there, at least) but there was some serious heavy petting and making out going on. I've had sex in the pool, tried a bj in the pool too but I was just not that good at holding my breath, haha! I've given road head quite a few times and several other times in the parking lot of the mall after hours. The street cleaner actually stopped and watched that one. Pretty sure he thought I was being raped... at first. But when we turned and waved, then continued, he kept driving. We almost got caught by the patrol cop once or twice too, which was quite a rush.

    Now that we're married, we haven't had public sex in a long time. We should get on that....

  6. I've been completely not in the mood for sex of any kind but if my husband is feeling frisky or even if he's in a bad mood, I'll offer. I wouldn't say I've got a lesser desire, but sometimes our times just don't match up, so I like to make it work as well as I can.

    There are also times when I'm not necessarily IN or OUT of the mood, but as I've told him... "I can be persuaded".

  7. I don't know if it works this way with everyone out there, but my husband and I both have very low self esteem and we're very attentive to one another's needs in the bedroom. It's likely because neither of us have had many partners, and we never thought we would ever have very many, but for someone to actually fall for us and love us just the way we are, they deserve all the love and attention, they deserve all the kink and the freak we can muster. He loves all of me, so I give him everything I have to give. He does the same.

    I think for the overly cocky or overly confident folks out there, they're probably a bit more selfish. I could be wrong, but the three ridiculously confident and cocky bastards I slept with prior to my husband were incredibly selfish in the sack and were only worried about getting themselves off.

  8. The bigger question would be who DON'T I have a fantasy about...

    James McAvoy has been a heart throb since he was the Fawn in The Lion The Witch & The Wardrobe, but then in Wanted... unf! So soo sexy.

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    I have a huge girl crush on all four of the Halliwell sisters from Charmed (Shannen Doherty, Holly Marie Combs, Alyssa Milano and Rose McGowan), some of whom I've had the hots for since the 80's.

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    And am I the only one with a thing for husky boys? Jack Black is just... adorable. And in this shirt? C'mon!!

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    I could go on. I have an album on FB labeled "The List" with men and women of all ages, shapes, sizes, colors and sexual orientations. Mmmmm....

  9. WINNER - BATH-TIME BUNNY!

    My neighbor is in his mid-to-late 70's, he's arthritic and has a few health issues on top of that, but he's also one of the coolest old dudes I've ever met. He smokes a pipe all the time and in the springtime, when we have our windows open, the thick, woodsy aroma of it fills my house. It's glorious. He's very fun to talk to, collects all sorts of amazing historical items and reminds me of an old hippie. Chances are, this ride would be his last (ahaha) so I'm going to say about $10,000 would do the trick. I'd probably do it for free because he's such a badass, but since it'd be traumatic to send him to his maker with a smile on his face, I'm going to need money for therapy afterward.

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