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  1. First, Effexor is a MAJOR part of this. This antidepressant has sexual side effects. I have heard of men having to take Viagra from the sexual dysfunctions caused by Effexor. I'm sure the same would go for women too. I would talk to your psychiatrist/doctor about this problem and see if there is something else you could take. I think some of it might be that it is a "get it when you can" and that doesn't lead to much romance or sexual foreplay/build up that is a vital part of a healthy sex life. I know I need an extended foreplay session at times.

    If you can, start saving up your dimes and pennies for a motel nite with your SO even if you are living at home. Good luck!

  2. I guess I am more "in touch" with my oral side because those were some of my first sexual experiences. I was too paranoid about getting pregnant with vag. sex so I gave and received a LOT of oral and my first "lover" was when i was 15 years old and he was 30 (I have vag. sex for the first time at 19). Yes, I know...age gap, statutory rape, all that came up, but I was at a point in my life where I didn't care and I was having some of the best fun I'd ever had. He taught me a great deal about myself and my sexuality that I don't think any male in my age group could have given me. And he taught me about romance. *sigh*

    anyways, I learned pleasure thru oral first. I have had times when I couldn't cum with oral but would come with vaginal sex. Just some weird bodily reactions I guess. But I got over them by the next day.

  3. victoria secrets has some really good ones....its hard for anyone over a C cup to find a good push up....i was in a store once and heard two girls comment why would you want a push up if you are a C cup....well im a 38dd and i love to wear push ups....i too had the sagging.....i always say joking like tube socks with rocks....but as your hubby likes yours mine says the same as well let them be they are just fine....so again thats where the good push up comes in.....

    I tried VS...they don't have my size...according to them I'm a 42DD which I find VERY hard to believe.

  4. well, you have to remember, that the average woman can "house" a 19-22 inch baby in her abdominal area as well as push that head OUT. I suffered 4 breaks in my pelvis due to a car accident. I was told I would have to deliver by C-section if I got pregnant. Well, I did get pregnant and asked my OB/GYN about having to have a C-section. I was surprised when his fingers disappeared including his thumb and he told me my pelvis was just fine so that alone told me I could handle just about any length and girth of a man's cock. I would take a 6.5 inch THICK man over a long cock any day!!

  5. I REALLY agree with Sid Vicious to. Looking at Playboy and Penthouse models now is a joke. They all look so artificial and superficial. A women with a little sag in her breasts is no big deal. Damn, they shake more that way. Give me some curves and hips to hold on to. Barbie is out, natural is in!

    Telecom

    I'm not taking the poll but I told hubby I wanted a "boob perk up" job cause they sag and well, ok, I"m a tad vain about my tits since they are 40D-DD. He told me he didn't want them "perked up" cause he loved how the nips kind of "pointed down" and made it easier for him to suck n play with. So....no perk up job here! I'll just keep looking for a good "push up" bra for someone of my size ;)

  6. IS IT TRUE THAT EVERY WOMAN BLEEDS A LITTLE FROM THE VAGINAL TISSUE DURING INTERCOURSE?

    No. If there is bleeding, even the tiniest amount, there are a myriad of things that could be causing this. 1. You could be having vaginal dryness. 2. Your partner is inserting before you are ready...i.e.still not wet enough. 3. Age. Perimenopausal women or women who are in menopause experience dryness becaues the hormones are not producing the natural lubrications.

    These are just a few of them. I would recommend seeing your OB/GYN if this is a persistent problem.

  7. I am looking for a quiet vibrator, I have (really prude) roomates and our apartment has pretty thin walls. Any suggestions?

    A good store will let you "sample" the toys....i.e. put in batteries so you can feel it in your hand and hear it.

    Maybe play a LOUD CD while getting off?? I usually turn up the TV pretty loud when I"m home with my kids.

  8. Telecom...you need to understand that this is STILL a new adventure for her and she might still be having some internal stress issues when you are with her. TIME TIME TIME oh yeah....and TIME. I know, sex doesn't have much patience, but pleeeeeeeease be patient with her. Mikayla has some great ideas...I wanna try the new cream! Cause KY warming gel didn't do a whole lot for me, I like my infra red heated massaging vibe better.

    oh and again........be patient hun!! The reward of waiting will be SOOOOO worth it!!! :D

  9. OMG...It was SOOO much fun!! Smokey was AWESOME!! FYI....he had long tailed tux jacket on when he came out. After he took it off....people in the front saw his zipper was PARTIALLY UNZIPPED....lmaooo. Oy, he was embarrassed but pulled it off really well!! :lol: And the music was a perfect start to our night that went on til Sunday afternoon. Boy, we were necking and petting a bit there. We came home and the bra and panties I had bought never even got put on and the wine wasn't opened until we needed a breather and a drink. We started with some nice foreplay, oral teasing of each other. He isn't too keen on oral sex, so what I did get was a BIG surprise and greatly enjoyed!! We were having such a wonderful sexual time, we didn't bother about getting out of bed Sunday morning...we just stayed and fucked, rested, fucked some more. We did take time out to watch the NASCAR Daytona 500 but even that got interrupted at times. ;) Its been a very long time since we've had a time of just sex and nothing else bothering us for a few hours. Even the kids actually behaved some what and pretty much took care of themselves which was amazing.

    Howard...I hope this "high" lasts for a while (ya know)

  10. WHEWWWWWWWWWWW...Dam, when do I get my spankings?? :rolleyes:

    I'm very impressed and I love the mahogany dresser. OK..I love anything mahogany. It comes from years of taking piano lessons at the keys of a mahogany grand piano that my mom has. Nice touch on the hands. I actually keep a bottle of lotion here at my keyboard cause I hate dry hands. I can't remember ever mentioning my hands before tho....interesting that you pick up on that.

  11. Well, we already had a lil glitch...my 11 year old son lost the concert tickets for Smokey Robinson. :o After an hour of searching, I found them. WHEW. I bought the most Sexy blouse to wear and I had to buy a strapless bra to wear with it. Do you know how hard it is to find a 40DD strapless that STAYS up?? I had to even go up a size to a 42. :ph34r: I'm wearing it now to make sure it will stay up tonight...lol.

    The blouse is a lacy one and is a dusty pink color. I'm wearing it with black velvet jeans and of course my black boots...gotta have the boots! The wine is chilling and so far, nothing else has gone wrong. I know my SO is excited too..he woke me up at 2 a.m. this morning for a quickie :D I came so hard. Dam, I love early morning sex. I'm still excited sexually from that and excited for tonight!! I'll let you know all the details later my friends!!

    CL~~

  12. ok..one of life's GREATEST rewards from a wonderful sex life is bringing children into the world. I know Jen said she had 3 weeks to go and I was curious if the baby was here yet!

    I know some things are meant to be kept private, so I won't ask the sex/length/weight question unless she really wants to tell us...I just hope that if the baby is here, that all went well and a new chapter in Jen's life has started!!

    Well?????????? Is the baby here???? :)

  13. by Rich Maloof for MSN Health & Fitness

    The idea that food or drink can unlock the secrets of Aphrodite, goddess of love, is as old as the ages. Do aphrodisiacs work just because we want them to?

    The power of a good aphrodisiac lies in its ability to heighten the senses.

    While there is no magic potion, piquing one’s senses with flavors, aromas and textures can be stimulating—and invite more stimulation. Foods that are soft, silky, smoky, musky, sweet or juicy can be suggestive and alluring. The shape and texture of some foods commonly considered to be aphrodisiacs (oysters, bananas) get a lot of mileage out of association with one body part or another.

    Old standbys like flowers and chocolate work for a reason.

    In addition to sense-heightening (sight, taste, smell), this one-two punch is a long-running favorite for one simple reason: romance. Ever since the first caveman showed the first cavewoman that he cared, romance has been helping upright man get lucky. If roses and a box of Godiva don’t do it for your girl or guy, figure out what does. The body listens to the mind.

    Chocolate, by the way, contains phenethylamine, which is thought to have psychoactive effects. However, the chemical never reaches the brain in enough quantity to change mood or behavior.

    Give a body what it needs.

    People are more apt to feel amorous when they feel healthy, and some foods may seem aphrodisiacal when they replenish deficient vitamins or minerals. Asparagus and artichokes, for example, are both rich in potassium and folic acid (that’s folic, not phallic). The newfound energy can revitalize the senses and invigorate libido.

    “Spanish fly” does have a direct physical effect.

    Spanish fly is made from the meloid or “blister” beetle, a species that contains a small amount of the chemical cantharidin. Humans have a natural allergic reaction to cantharidin, which manifests as irritation of the urinary tract. In men, the irritation can be mistaken for arousal because it causes an erection. But the erection may not subside, leading instead to a dangerous condition (priapism) that can cause clotting in or gangrene of the penis.

    Cantharidin is obtained by drying and crushing a meloid beetle into powder. Or, you could dine on a creature that eats meloid beetles, such as certain frogs—which explains why frog legs are a reputed aphrodisiac.

    Alcohol can pull a “bait and switch” trick on you.

    No doubt alcohol is the elixir responsible for many an encounter, in part because it relaxes inhibitions and insecurities. It can also instill confidence, even if falsely so, and confidence is attractive. But ultimately alcohol is a depressant, and therefore an anaphrodisiac. It dulls the senses and interferes with performance. Over-imbibing in food or drink will diminish drive.

    http://health.msn.com/centers/mensexualhea...123456&GT1=7806

  14. Some of the sexiest pictures I've seen are not totally nude. One of my favs is of a "friend" who sent me a pic of him with his cowboy hat pulled over his face, no shirt on, hands in the pocket of his jeans and a hint of his cock peeking out from behind the unzipped zipper. Curiosity of the unseen adds to wanting to get what's hidden inside those jeans and that makes me HOT!!

    Or how about a pic of you just out of the shower, towel also being used seductively?? Water running down a man's body also gives me those erotic chills that make my nips perk with excitement!

  15. Thank you for the kind comments ladies. I'm glad you enjoyed it. Writing is easy for me, but only if I have the right kind of motivation (your interesting posts here have provided that!). I write these on the fly, when I can grab a few extra minutes, so if you didn't find any errors I am surprised, but happy.

    Curvacious, I was actually trying to think of a way to weave you into my next story--I don't mean to leave you out. Why don't you give me a first name you would like me to use (not your real one of course) and I will make sure you are included (although not in a 3-way, I'm not sure the narrator of these stories would survive that!).

    QG

    I forgot to add that it may be a couple of weeks before my next story--after whipping out those first two I am SPENT!!!!!

    QG

    ok...how about the name Whitney? I think you could handle writing a 3-some...it might take a few "time outs" though ;) I'll sure try and contain my impatience until you get writing again!!

    CL~~

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