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  1. I think the reality is, sexual desire doesn’t always occur spontaneously. Oftentimes, we women need to get ourselves in the mood for sex and get ourselves aroused before we experience desire. I honestly feel men and women are "hard-wired" differently.....anyway, this sure contradicts what we see in movies and porn — we don’t always walk in the door and want to tear one another’s clothes off. I am so glad you have initiated the concern with her because it would just make you feel worse harboring your feelings. Maybe treat your talks with her like a forum...much like what we are doing here on TT...exchange of concerns, ideas and solutions. Instead of saying to your partner, “You never initiate sex, and it’s pissing me off,” (which may very well put them on the defensive), start with an “I” statement that speaks more to your feelings than to their behavior. For example, you might say, “I’ve noticed that you don’t seem to initiate sex very much, and it makes me feel like you don’t want me.” This gives your wife an opportunity to explain their perspective without feeling attacked.... tell her why you want her to initiate more in an encouraging way. Saying something like, “I love having sex with you,” or “When you come to me, it makes me feel wanted and the sex so much hotter."   After giving them a chance to respond, ask questions about why she doesn’t like initiating, and how you might be able to help encourage her or inspire her to initiate. ....

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  2. Mmmmmmmm......SO nice for you to share yourself with us hungry women!!  You have one helluva delicious-looking dick.....fantasizing how that would feel thrust deep into my wet pussy....

    😈😘👅😈 (I really like the fact that you shave...wish I could get my boyfriend to do that.....would help prevent me from gagging on stray pubic hairs)  LOL

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  3. I am a single woman who will soon be 60 yrs old. I have found that as I mature in age, I have more confidence in myself...more direction in what I want out of my sex life....As a nurse, I have read much about women's health.....many women begin to find sexual confidence in their 30s, and this blossoms with maturity. As a woman moves through her 40s and beyond, her orgasms actually become more intense, and she can still have multiple orgasms. After menopause, when she's free of any worry about pregnancy, she can give herself over to the pure enjoyment of sex. Maybe this is what your wife is enjoying at this time in her life...Although longtime partners do have to contend with issues of familiarity in their relationship, these problems can be offset by greater emotional intimacy and trust. Because inhibitions often lessen with age, sex at 50 or 60 may include a level of experimentation and playfulness you wouldn't have dreamed of in your younger years. So, Hoggy, I hope you cherish each moment you have with her.....how wonderful for her...for BOTH of you !!!!  

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  4. Oh wow........thank you "Fun" for taking us down your memory lane.....that was quite a private and influential moment in your young life!! As a girl that age I was never allowed to go trick-or-treating by myself. Cum to think of it...my parents and younger brother were very protective of me. I wasn't allowed to date boys until I was a senior in HS....and had to be home by 9 pm. Needless to say, I went far away to college to lessen the suffocating life I lead back home. My college yrs were quite an eye opener!!! I learned more than what I read in my text books for sure! HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!     I learned the taste of alcohol......the high of a joint....and the touch of a man.........the latter was (and is) my FAVORITE!! 

     

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  5. (HER)....you and I are sitting across from each other at the kitchen table finishing our fried chicken...you look at me sweeping my lips with my wet tongue...you come around and lick my lips...we get passionate and lip-lock into a deep French kiss...you suddenly sweep all the plates onto the floor with a crash and expertly position my body flat onto the scrap-laden table...you tear my pants and thong off and fling it into the air haphazardly. We press our bodies close in gyrating moves...you free your throbbing cock from your pants and enter my wet womanhood with one swift move....shock goes through our bodies...the pleasure is so intense I moan and yell out loud for you...you groan in response .... 

    (HIM) Our hips move in perfect syncopation with our loins smacking together with increasing pace and intensity! Your chest is heaving and is flush as I feel your first intense orgasm grabbing my cock tightly which just makes me thrust into you harder and faster.

    Your pussy spasms again as you cum again…when your grasp of my manhood lessens,

    I withdraw and flip you over on the table and enter you SLOWLY but deeply from behind.  You thrust your pussy back hard wanting more…I continue slowly taking you deeply and intensely…

    (HER) My need to cum again is strong...I get my knees positioned on the table in doggy fashion with my legs spread wider...you say to me " You want more of me, baby? I am here...I want you to feel ALL of me..."(in teasing way). You begin to make teasing circles with your finger around my anus....You thrust your cock in my tight pussy faster and I grab your ball sack in my eager hands...massaging and begging for release from you. You oblige with abandon...a piercing sound of pure carnal ecstasy releases from my breath...

    (HIM) And we both cum with my juices filling your sweet cunny to overflowing! We both collapse on the table…and my cock withdraws from your drenched cave, as cum flows out of her and onto the floor!!!!!!!!!!!!

    (HIM) You then look haughtily at me and ask........."What's for dessert?" with a wicked smile on your face!

     

    (a creative work from me and a very special man I met on here in 2015)

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  6. My greatest sex fantasy would go something like this: I am performing on-stage at the Metropolitan Playhouse theatre in New York City before a loud and rowdy audience...in the nude ...holding 2 huge dark red ostrich fan feathers...dancing seductively to Beyonce's "Naughty Girl" music....I lock eyes with a handsome  gentleman with cinnamon skin in the front row...he is smiling and his eyes appear to see right through my feather barrier...he walks on stage and joins me....we embrace...our bodies move as one....he directs me with his sinewy arms....to the right...to the left...but always with perfect choreography and timing...then he pulls me close...I feel the heat from his body blend with mine....I drop the feathers to the glossy floor....loud cat calls and whistling are heard from the audience...which just encourages him to remove his clothing and joins be in the nude...he guides me down gently to the feather bed where we kiss passionately....and then with more fervor he goes down on me and fucks me with his tongue and sucks my clit until my juices spread on his face. He fingers my throbbing wet cave and works my G-spot like an expert...eventually making me cry with delight and squirt onto the floor for a few minutes...........we switch positions....I gather some of the liquid with my hand and take my time rubbing his cock with it......massaging up and down his pole....he moans with delight....I wrap my mouth around his cock and work him some more....he suddenly pulls my arm and I instinctively know he wants me to ride him....I mount and slowly slide my pussy over his dripping cock....the connection is so intense that we shudder in unison...I seductively move as if riding a mechanical horse...and gradually increase my fucking......I can see his strained face as I am feeling my own euphoria build........He makes a sharp groaning sound as I feel him release his load inside me...and my pussy explodes with such intensity that my right leg involuntarily shakes for several seconds.....we both ease up to our feet....the roar from the crowd is deafening......we are showered with single long-stemmed red roses......the curtains close...and the people are yelling  "ENCORE!! " 

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    I went exercising last night in my tight black yoga pants and sports bra and was imagining you....over in the corner of the room where the free weights are...bare chested...you see me and flash a handsome smile my way...then you expertly position yourself behind a huge dumbbell weight and lift it without much effort for a moment and then ease it back to the waiting floor. My mouth is open because I have just witnessed one of the strongest...and sexiest...men I have ever laid eyes on. I watch individual glistening beads of sweat roll down your ripped chest to your gym shorts. Then my gaze lowers to the growing form within the fabric. When I look back up, our eyes lock. There is an obvious sexual energy between us. I walk over to you and gently trace my wet tongue over your lips while I fondle your manhood below.....you moan...then suddenly grab both of my ass cheeks and thrust my hips against yours while passionate kissing.... we drop down onto the floor mat and you begin to massage my already-wet crotch. We help remove each other's clothing and you quickly spread my legs with yours and enter my pussy in one swift motion. You fuck me with carnal abandonment....bringing us both to experience an amazing release of physical sensations and guttural sounds of delight....aaahhhhhhhh...  :D

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  8. Just need for you to know that you ALL made my day GREAT! Thank you for saying such wonderful things about my ol' body....I'll be turning 60 in Feb. LOL! Never thought I'd get this old!!!

    Hahahahaa!

    If I could I'd give you all a blowjob you'd never forget!! Muah!

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  9. I wasn't sure where to put this topic but wanted to share some thoughts that some women have about achieving an orgasm...this is an excerpt of an article I read recently by Matilda Hill-Jenkins. She wrote:

    "When I am alone, my orgasms are uncomplicated, mind-blowing and guaranteed. When other people are involved they can be rare and overlooked. During sex, I think about it constantly; if it will happen, if the other person will care if it happens. Thinking about it like that sadly only makes climaxing even less likely, because my thoughts aren’t focused on any stimulation, just the anxious inner gabble.

    I sometimes feel that sex is so performative or linked to things I’ve seen in film that the sensations are difficult for me to get lost in. Which is why when I’m alone my orgasm is empowering and all for me. I care about me and I will make sure I come.

    A guy I was sleeping with once said to me (as I moved into a position which felt amazing for me): "If people could see what we looked like right now, they’d think we’d never had sex before."

    It’s frustrating that we are fed such an unrealistic, performative and glossy version of female masturbation and pleasure. When the reality is mundane and awkward and can look ridiculous. But it’s not about how it looks, it’s about how amazing it feels. Shuffling robotically against an old soft toy as a teenager, or humping a veiny purple piece of silicone is hardly good porno material.

    I feel extremely lucky to have so many wonderful, sex positive women in my life, and because of that I feel less alone in experiencing frustration around orgasms and female pleasure.

     

    .......any thoughts to share?  

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  10. I love to ride on the back of my boyfriend's 2016 Vintage Indian Chief motorcycle....it is an extension of him......LITERALLY.      Because he has NO IDEA that when I ride on his his bike I am often "getting off"...... with the wind in my happy face...... LOL       Feels fuckin" great.................the roar of the engine...... the penetrating vibrations  between my spread legs................it's a freakin' sex toy for me!! 

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