Well Ladies, may I offer up a guys point of view? I love walking in shower with a hard cock, surprising her. The response is amazing. And if I really want to go all out, I'll book a hotel w/a hot tub, and lay her on bed for an all out full body massage. Starting @ neck, shoulders, arms, back, ass, legs, feet, and then head. Always seems to do the trick. After she's all relaxed, its naked hot tub time.