Ok, Here it goes. I have been married to a wonderful women for 18 years. She is also the only women that I have ever slept with. I am 40 years old and want to try something new. I am not saying I want to cheat on her or bring another women into bed with us. What I want her to try is to give me an blow job and to shave or really trim her vagina. These are the answers that I got. For the blow job she said ewww. The shaving she told me that doctors have said that it is not good to do. I would like to try these as I have never had the chance. The question is am I being selfish for wanting her to or is she being selfish for not wanting to? Is there some sort of compromise that people can think of.
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Ok, Here it goes. I have been married to a wonderful women for 18 years. She is also the only women that I have ever slept with. I am 40 years old and want to try something new. I am not saying I want to cheat on her or bring another women into bed with us. What I want her to try is to give me an blow job and to shave or really trim her vagina. These are the answers that I got. For the blow job she said ewww. The shaving she told me that doctors have said that it is not good to do. I would like to try these as I have never had the chance. The question is am I being selfish for wanting her to or is she being selfish for not wanting to? Is there some sort of compromise that people can think of.