[Favorite toy.]

Love bullet vibrator. Simple, straightforward, gets me off every time.  

[BJ tips for a small mouth]

This may have been discussed a long time ago, but yeah, here's the story: 

My gentlemen friend and I are very fond of sexting, so of course on paper I'll be all "Oh yeah baby, I'll take the whole thing into my mouth, and the balls too, hunny bunch *sexy growl*" 

But then I saw his actual penis for the first time and oh my, he's way bigger than I was expecting! Not a bad thing, but I have a small mouth (a fact confirmed by every dentist I've ever had) and my front teeth are pretty big so I Have to open my mouth extremely wide (which can ache after a few minutes) so I don't scrape the poor guy.  In doing so, it makes it hard to take the penis far back into my throat. But I really want to make good on my promise of taking in all those inches. Any tips for achieving the deepthroat with a teeny tiny mouth without injuring the guy? 

Quick edit: when I say my mouth is small, I also mean the space between my back teeth is narrow too, not just my lips, so a dick can totally hit the molars. That's no fun! 

[All-American Whopper]

Awesome, thank you!

[How Long Have You Been Single?]

Once my birthday hits this month, I'll have been single for 21 killer years! I dig being single; relationships have just never come into play and that is cool with me. 

Although, I've officially decided to let my freak flag fly this year since I'd like to be sexual with something not made of jelly rubber...here's a question for the ladies here: any tips for living a more sexually casual single lifestyle? (My family would disown me if they read that...)

[All-American Whopper]

Hey everyone,

I'm looking into the all American whopper dildo and, since it's more of a realistic material, what's the proper cleaning and maintenance for it? My wallet doesn't want to get a replacement any time soon. Also any first hand experiences with this one are appreciated too!

Thanks!

[Painful Penetration]

Thanks so much to the both of you! The suggestions look helpful. I'll definitely look into dilation. It's such a frustrating problem, so I'm hoping this will work! You guys are fantastic!

[Painful Penetration]

Thanks BettyCrocker and Tyger!

The suggestions look really helpful. I'm definitely in the market for something more realistic, which should hopefully ease my fears for future relationships, so I appreciate the tips.

One final question I wanted to ask. I've read some places that doing kegels improves the elasticity long-term. Do you have any info on this or recommended kegel regimens that prove useful? While I always use lube with toys, the painful part feels more like the stretching of the vaginal opening, so I was curious if that would help at all.

Thanks again! You ladies are fantastic!

[Painful Penetration]

11 hours ago, Tyger said:

You have nothing to fear. Penises are rounded, and are pretty pliable, even when erect (in other words, they squish a little bit), so they're not as hard as say, a blunt toy.

If your GYNO says they're nothing wrong, and  you've never had penetrative intercourse, then, chances are, there's nothing wrong. Your body needs to get use to something going inside it.

For now, stick with tapered toys if that's what is more comfortable for you. I'd also recommend toys that have some "give" to them, like jelly, silicone, rubber, or ones like cyberskin, which feels more like real skin. Those will be more pliable and comfortable for you.

I'd be interested in knowing what you've used that isn't tapered. Most dildos are tapered to some degree, and, getting a more realistic one, even the heads are almost arrow shaped, which aids in insertion.

For perspective, here is the link to the first toy I bought. This one I have no problem with: 

https://www.tootimid.com/aprils-curved-seduction-dual-stimulator-7247.html

And this is my newer one. It's no bigger than the average penis and is elastomer, I believe. This one hurts going in, regardless of how aroused/relaxed I am:

http://www.cirillas.com/vibrators/rabbit-vibrators/flutter-rabbit-vibrator/

I hope that helps!

[Painful Penetration]

Hello!

I'm new to the forums but have been a customer at TooTimid for a while. I have this question:

I masturbate regularly (usually clitoral) but I have a small issue of getting anything inside of me if it's not tapered to a point. I discovered this when I first bought a toy with 1.5in diameter that didn't taper off. Once it's in, it's fine, even if it gets larger further up. It's just the initial entry that hurts. My concern is the issue will continue when I encounter actual penises in the future, which (I believe) generally don't taper to a point. 

Background info: 

My gyno reassured me that there's nothing wrong, though it still hurts. It's not just because I'm a virgin; as mentioned, I've used bigger toys that were tapered. Finally, I always make to be extremely relaxed, lubed, and aroused. 

Advice?