On 12/21/2017 at 6:09 PM, Confused from the south said:
My husband and I have been together for 35 years and he has convinced himself that he wants to watch me have sex with another man. He says the thought turns him on. He recently admitted that he doesn't think he would ever let me do it however I wonder.
I am bothered because I know it will only cause problems in the end. He watches porn and says he is watching the big dick fuck and it makes him horny. He stays at his office late to do this and it bothers me.
How do I handle this ?
Do I learn to let it go and play along, and get over the porn issue.
Men are visual creatures. Many men and women alike enjoy watching porn. It’s not a bad thing. Invite him to watch porn with you. I too have been with my husband 32 years. We enjoy many different sexual experiences together. We actually have an open marriage, of course with ground rules, but you have to do what is right for you and your marriage. I would love for my husband to sit and watch another man fuck me and vise versa it think it would be a total turn on for both. Embrace trying new things.
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Men are visual creatures. Many men and women alike enjoy watching porn. It’s not a bad thing. Invite him to watch porn with you. I too have been with my husband 32 years. We enjoy many different sexual experiences together. We actually have an open marriage, of course with ground rules, but you have to do what is right for you and your marriage. I would love for my husband to sit and watch another man fuck me and vise versa it think it would be a total turn on for both. Embrace trying new things.