[Questions On Anal Sex]

My boyfriend has tried many times convince me on trying anal sex, but am so scared!

I asked  him that if i dont please him enough, he said yes but I would please him more if I just let him do it ther.

But how do i know that it is not dangerous? That i could go to the hospital? lol

But for real, am so scared. He has tried fingers and touching but i stop him.  He once try to put it in thru mt ass and it hurt so much that i almost cried

Does anyone have good advice for me? I want someones opinion on it.  Iwant to be able to please my boyfriend

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You should use plenty of lube and play with your clit to get yourself going before he tries to get in. I wanted it bad until I got it and now I'm over it. To me the Vagina is just much better because it's hotter, smoother, stronger, cleaner, and self lubricating...but that's just me! I think once he gets it he won;t get off on it unless you are into it, so it's a win-win. Either it turns you on and you do it all the time from now on, or you hate it and he's over the whole forbidden curiosity thing.

[What Works For Me...]

I like to start by placing a small bullet on my clit and turning it on low while I read other techniques. This is easy to do if other people are around, since it's  just about silent.  Once I'm getting good and wet, I go up to my bedroom to have my own fantasy. I like to use lots of toys, and getting all of them out, lubed and ready makes me so excited that I have rush to get my clothes off and jump into bed. I first rub my swollen clit and labia using a soft vibrating toy (like a wide jelly clitoral stimulator with a massaging side) in a gentle circular motion. When I'm really hot and twitching with pleasure I plunge the toy deep into my wet pussy in quick, hard thrusts and then go right back up to my throbbing clit. I like to alternate- three clit massages and then three hard thrusts. When my entire crotch is wet with juices, I get out my jelly anal beads and insert them up my hot butt. I really enjoy tugging on the beads a little while I'm pleasuring my clit.  I have to try so hard to control my self- postponing the climax is unbelievable.  When I finally can't take anymore, I rub my clit so hard and fast with the stimulator as my whole body vibrates uncontrollably and I pull the beads all the way out while I arch my back with the most powerful and amazing orgasm.

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HOLY CRAP! How's a guy supposed to compete with THAT SOLO ORGY??? LOL You sounds very sexy and aware of what you like. You also sound like you could use a little more. Am I close?