[Virgin Here..any Tips?]

With those kind of restrictions, I don't think you are being vey serious. What you can always use are your fingers. Close your eyes and learn to realy feel with theem, not only around your clitorus, but also all other pressure points and erogenous zones on your body. Pressure points? See charts used in martial arts, or find a medical map that shows where nerve ganglia are located. Erogenous zones? They are the same places! Can I ask what is so important about remaining a virgin? If you are under age, that is one thing; but if you are 18 or older, it seems that its nothing more than a padlock on the school door. Either you want to get educated, or you don't!

Wow, Howard, that was really rude. Whether she's a minor or not, being a virgin isn't a bad thing. At least she's not sleeping around with every Tom, Dick, and Harry she sees. I can understand where she's coming from, because I, too, am a virgin. It's not because I "don't want to get educated" or anything, but because of the few relationships I've had. But even if I hadn't had so few relationships, and I had had tons of them, I still wouldn't just have sex to have sex. I want to wait until I find the right person.

And also, how can you say she's not being very serious? She obviously came here looking for advice. If you ask me, you're the one who's not being serious. You really need to stop and think about the other person's situation before you make a reply like that.

[Where Do You Get Yours?]

I'm interested in buying a vibrator, but I have no clue where to buy one. I know you can get them online, but my problem with that is, I don't have a credit/debit card/bank account for checks...

Does anyone have a suggestion of where to buy one?

[Should I Buy A Vibrator?]

I'm a 19 year old female. I know it's kind of pathetic, but I just got (and got rid of) my first boyfriend. After a few months into the relationship, I had started to consider having sex with him. Obviously, him being my first boyfriend meant that he would be my first sex partner.

We're broken up now, but I'm dating around. (We didn't end up having sex.)

After considering having sex with him, though, I started to think about the pain that a girl has the first few times she has sex. I do not tolerate pain very good, so the thought of the pain involved with sex has really made me... well, almost terrified to have it.

Anyway... The reason for all of that blabber is this:

I realized that, because of my fear of the pain, my first time will not be that enjoyable, for me and the man I'm with. So, then I started to think: should I buy a lifelike vibrator to help open me up? I'm not talking wide open... but, maybe just to get over the initial first few instances of pain?

Any suggestions/input would be greatly appreciated.

-Amanda

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