[Whats The Longest Youve Gone With Out]

When my wife was pregnant, I think I went a couple of months. This was tough but I took things into my own hands . I wasn't going to force her to have sex so I would jerk off.

right now me and my guy are going without since i dont want to get pregnant until i get back on birth control i was wondering how other people handled it and was the sex all that when they got some again lol im looking for details

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[What Is A Good Beginner's Vibrator?]

Mikayla,

I'm 45, male and in good shape. Better than when I was 25. I think weight might have something to do with it. Perky, how much weight has he gained? How tall is he and how much does he weigh? If you have extra weight, your heart works harder to pump blood to ALL the places including your cock. Plus your cock doesn't get as hard in your 40's as it does in your 20's, no matter what shape you're in. I agree that stress is probably one of the considerations for the low sex drive. Are you having any financial problems? If he feels he isn't doing his part this could cause a low sex drive.

As for thinking he might be gay, why do you say that Perky? Is it because you caught him with a cock in his mouth? I doubt that. He's not in great shape with a muscular tight ass and you wonder about that. Does he get more manicures and pedicures than you? If I thought any woman that wasn't into me was a lesbian then almost the entire population of women would be gay. NOT THAT THERE IS ANYTHING WRONG WITH THAT!!

Keep us updated Perky. And I'm not trying to cause a fight with you Mikayla, I just think that overweight might have somethign to do with it. If you get mad at me and start a fight, then I would have to assume you're a lesbian too!!

Ok, first of all, his age probably has nothing to do with it, nor his weight gain.  It is more likely that he is stressed and can't relax.  Once a man experiences any type of erectile dysfunction he will continually think about it next time he has sex.  If he is afraid that it will happen again, he will most likely shy away from sex. 

The vibrator idea probably intimidates him, as if you can get off without him. You have to let him know, in the nicest, sweetest way you can't have a marriage without sex. Sex is something that is important to you, and you want it and need it and want him to want and need it too. You have to make him understand that you love him, and want to work things out, but he has to take steps to try and find the problem.  If he is not willing to at least go to the Dr and get his testosterone level checked and his blood flow level checked, then I would question some things. If this man loves you then he would be willing to do everything in his power to help fix this relationship.

You brought up the idea of him possibly being "gay"...why is that..you may want to look into that further, if you are having doubts like that, you need to explore them in greater detail.

Mikalya

Talk to him, get him to talk some actions with his doctor.  If he won't, get the vibrator, at least we know that will make him uncomfortable, then maybe he will do something.  Sex is a part of marriage...he should be willing and able to accomodate you.  I am sure he is embarrassed by this, tell him you understand.  Understanding is instrumental in this kind of situation!

Let me know what happens!

Mikayla

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[Can Every Girl Take A Huge Penis...?]

this is my curiosity,  can a small girl take a huge penis?  i went out with this guy and i remember that when i saw his thingy i said, "oh mother of jesus", and no im not kidding.  that thing was huge, i remember that for me to be on top i had to like squeeze it in.  now, i new that he was trying to make it out with this girl that i know. she is so so tiny, and i said,  jaja good luck   that this is huge.  but then i started thinking, can tiny and small girls take big penises?  that thing was like 10 inches long and like 2 wide!!!  it was amazing, by the way, i miss it !!!

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My wife is just over 5' and I have a 5" hardon. Definitely not huge, and I know I'm on the smaller size. I bought a 10" vibrator and some lube, and one night I used it on her. At first she giggled when she saw it. I went down on her for a long time, and she had 3 orgasms from that. I then slowly put the vibrator in her. I was able to get all 10" in her. When it was all the way in, I pulled it out and her hips bucked off the bed wanting it back in. I shoved it back in and did this for a long time. She was moaning and even screaming. Normally with my little cock she doesn't make a sound and maybe cums once. After we were done, I got so excited watching her take this huge vibrator that I came without even touching myself. She said that it was too huge. I said "What about all the moaning and screaming, let alone the orgasms"? She blushed and got real quiet. I think she was trying to be nice to me and my little cock.

[Anal Sex Curiosity]

i like it in the ass the best,and i do not have a problem in any way ...ifu douche to keep one hole clean u need to douch to keep the ther clean...

douch for your pussy

enema for your ass

and mouth wash for your mouth

keep u your self clean from all harm..

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It's really IMPORTANT not to mix up the above. All it takes is an enema in your mouth and mouthwash in you ass!!!

[Finger]

I've had up to three fingers(index,middle, and ring finger) up my ass at once. She jerked me off while fingering my ass. I came so hard that it ended up in my hair and I was lying down.

[Love Stroking Cock]

SURU. BUT IM GAY

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I guess I would be bi-curious. I would love my wife to put a strapon on and do me. I don't think she would be into that. She won't shove a finger up my ass even thought I took her hand once and moved it to my asshole, she wouldn't do it. She loves to grab my ass but thats it. I lick and ream her asshole but no return. When I think of guys, I get horny but when I go the health club and see all the fat asses and cocks, it doesn't turn me on.

[Keeping Your Man Wanting More]

Thank you for that Howard. I am going to check out the videos APAS. I really enjoy this sight and reading all of the posts. I have learned more in the last 3 days about sex then I ever did in 8 yrs of marraige and 1 full semester of sex ed with Sister Rosemary. Maybe that was my problem all along, Sex Ed with a nun! lol.

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Hi HM2,

I'm in my mid-40's and have been married almost 20 years. I'm in good shape(work out 5-6 times a week). However, I'm still 45 and on some blood pressure medicine. I'm not overweight and can see my cock when standing up. Some guys can't.

My point is that I too am good for only one go. However, I know this and I give my wife oral for as long as she wants(at least a half hour sometimes 1.5 hours) not consecutively. I also give her full massages and love playing with her ass(rubbing and licking). When I do fuck her, she usually cums again and depending on the position, I last long(behind or her on top). I cum quickly when it is regular missionary. So try different positions.

Also, as for him going more than once, do you give him oral after he's cum? DO you give him a handjob? What do you do to get him hard again? If you just lie there and say come on I'm horny, he probably won't be able to get it up. Or you can push his head down and make him go down on you after just fucking you and tell him that when he can get it up he won't have to eat your creampie. If this gets him hard, you might be on to something.