[Help From A Friend]

Guys,

Do your ladies (um, partners) help you masturbate? When I help hubby I suck on his balls and massage his prostate with my finger until he brings himself off.

Solla

[How Often]

We girls are lucky in that we don't have the problems men do when they masturbate too much. I personally find masturbation to be a wonderful release of anxiety. It also keeps me perpetually horny since as soon as I feel that way, I take care of my need. (Yes, I am happily married, have a great sex life with hubby, and he loves both watching me pleasure myself and denying me the right to pleasure myself which drives me crazy!)

Anyway, I was wondering, how often do you girls masturbate? My answer is multiple times a day.

(I wanted to make this a poll, but I can't figure out how).

Choices:

I don't masturbate.

I rarely masturbate (monthly).

I masturbate weekly.

I masturbate daily.

I masturbate multiple times a day.

Also, since this didn't turn out to be a poll, do or have you (I do):

Masturbate at work?

Masturbate with hubby?

Masturbate with toys?

Solla

[Can Every Girl Take A Huge Penis...?]

I'm just under 5' and weigh 90 pounds (I actually lost a few pounds over the holidays!) and I can take my hubby's entire fist, beyond his wrist. Sure it took time, practice, and determination, but the orgasms I get from it are well worth it.

So, can a small girl take a huge penis? Until they start making them bigger than hubby's hand, I'd say absolutely!

Solla

[Frigid Wife]

After 30 yrs. of marriage wife is no longer interested in sex. She will do it now and then. Never innitiates it. When we do have sex i use sex toys on her and eat her pussy till she comes. Then she will let me fuck her but really only wants stimulation. Her excuse is that my cock is too large to be comfortable. It is unusuallu large but i am careful and use lots of lubricant. I don't know what her real problem is. We used to be swingers and she knows she can go find a guy with smaller cock, What do i do. So far haven't gone to other women????

I don't envy your situation. Society has made it acceptable that a woman who wants it can get it. I mean like what's a guy to do if while he's sleeping he gets a woodie and his partner sits on it? Imagine the cops? "Yes officer, my wife raped me while I was sleeping." Um, that'll go over really well. Now consider if a woman claimed the same of her man. The guy would be a beast... even if she did it the night before.

All joking aside, maybe your wife is having a medical problem. You might want to consider talking to her about being checked out by her doctor, especially her gynecologist.

Good luck. With an endowment it sounds like you have, knowing how many women would love to experience it, I commend you for your commitment to her. Keep it up... um, well, you know what I mean.

Solla

[Mornings]

If I were not married, I would kill your hubby for that honor!! J/K, but that is one heck of a way to wake up. do you swallow for him? Or let him give you a facial or frost your boobies?

As far as that, not really, most weekends we let the kids do their thing, while we do each other. Morning sex is really fun and always makes my day go better.

I actually prefer to swallow. That's probably the main reason why hubby and I have no children yet, because it's my preferred place to receive him when he's ready to orgasm. I guess swallowing is a fetish of mine that I'm going to have to address soon, because I don't want to have our first child after I'm 35.

Solla

[Pain = Pleasure]

I love it when hubby challenges my limits. By limits I'm referring to not only pain, but also pleasure and showing off in public. For example, although I am petite, 4'11" and 92 pounds, I have conditioned myself so that when laying on my back, hubby can grab me by my nipples so that my back lifts off the ground. What I once used to think bordered on torture, now brings me to orgasm. And speaking of orgasm, we are also into bondage. Yesterday hubby secured me to my Sybian in such a manner that I couldn't get off of it. But boy did I get off on it. You see, hubby knows about electronics, so he made it automatically be variable in speed. Anyway, he blindfolded me, turned it on and went to watch the Giants and Cowboys game. I don't know how many orgasms I had. Hubby said I looked fine when he periodically looked in on me.

So how long was I on it? How does three hours sound. Next time, he says, I will not be blindfolded and have a clock in front of me so the time will pass more slowly.

Isn't tonight Monday Night Football? Tee hee.

Solla

[Mornings]

Mostly every morning I get up, put on a fresh pot of coffee, and then wake hubby up with a blow job. We've been married five years and I've probably missed only a couple dozen days.

Do you and your SO do anything special?