[How do you masturbate without porn?]

Even if imagining sexual fantasies doesn’t it also mean there’s some kinda porn involved? Or is there any other method? (For male)

[Slow sex ? or rough sex ?]

love rough oral sex. I’ve noticed that whenever I communicate that I’m about to blow, my best sexy girls partners have always kept their pace steady until after I’ve cum. Recently, I began noticing a pattern in porn where the actors will suddenly go super fast or change the beat completely when the person gets close (which likely influences our culture). When a person is moments away from climaxing, KEEP DOING WHAT YOU’RE DOING! Don’t suddenly stop and try something different, it always ruins the build up, a total buzzkill. Find the rhythm that feels good for both parties, commit to it and you’ll see, your partners will thank you later.

[Is anal sex actually pleasurable for some people on the recieving end?]

I'll admit I've never been on either side, but it just sounds very uncomfortable to me, almost painful.

If it is, how is it? Is there actually a tissue or gland or something that makes anal sex so, or something else?