[Squirting]

I'm a squirter (sometimes) depends on how much stimulation in the right places.I have done it through masturbation.For myself the orgasm feels different from (how do I put this) I guess the standard orgasm.Both can be very intense but at the same time I would have to say squrting is just such a release and to me it is very relaxing.The first time I experienced it I did not have a clue.I thought I had something wrong with me so I started researching it and found very little information on it at the time.I read many articles where it was refered to as a bladder orgasm and many articles where doctors claimed their was no such thing and it was not possible.I knew that was wrong because I was proof that it was possible.I don't know much to tell you other than what has already been posted other than it is a wonderful experience and I think with technique and effort on both partners agendas it can happen for everyone.I did have a partner to freak out about it once.It's not for everybody I guess.I recently got married and my husband loves it.It's a real turn on for him to know he has turned me on in such a hot way.

[Squirting]

I've seen videos where women are able to make themselves squirt. I'm curious if anyone has been able to make themselves do so while masturbating or if your honey has made you squirt? If you have been able to squirt, does it give you a better feeling orgasm? And last question (LOL) the first time that your partner may have seen you do it did they freak out at all? Thanks for any advice!

[Muscles]

This may seem like a strange question, so please bear with me. I realize that there are a lot of muscles involed when having sex, abdominal and all. I was wondering about the vaginal muscles in particular. I know that I tend to tighten and relax the abdominal muscles while having sex, but I also feel as though I am using vaginal muscles as well. I always have known about doing this, but I never experimented until just lately. I actually tried "flexing" those muscles while I was masturbating and found that I was able to hold and move my vibrator while it was in me. I actually had the muscles tightened up during an orgasam and shot the vibrator out - unintentionally.

I guess my question if anyone can answer it is:

How bad is it that these "muscles" as I am referring to them flex during sex? I am kind of afraid of this happening on its own again, I mean sex is relaxing, but tightening up like that worries me if it could harm me or my partner. More to the point, if I tightened up on a toy enough to shoot it out - how bad is it if I actually have that happen again while having a partner in me - could it hurt him or me or both?

As stated from others....you have experienced and able to do something many know nothing about.I know alot of people think toys are for the perverted but this is how I learned my body and techniques during love making.I had a lover to tell me once that when he is inside me it felt like a vice had locked down on his cock and he loved every moment of it.I had no clue what he was talking about until I used a vibrator and went through the motions and I locked down on the vibrator and it became difficult to remove it. .Muscle control is a must and is wonderful to know you have that ability especially after child birth.

[Weight]

Glad to see a post on this issue.Really glad to see mens opinions on the subject of womens weight.I have a weight problem that has come about with age.I use to be really small.I have a small frame. and use to be very petite as in a size 6-7.I am now a size 14-16.I don't feel any less attractive because of the weight.I feel sexy and sophisticated and accept who I am.I do often wonder about a mans point of veiw on the weight and sexy issue.I'm single and If a man does not accept me because of my weight that is his loss.He missed out on a very sexy adventure and a wonderful relationship