I do enjoy playing with my anus--it's different and feels compelling when I'm in the mood. I've been experimenting with butt plugs for more than a year--all the materials (glass, steel, phtalein), but(t) size seems to be a problem. Once I go beyond "beginner's width," it's a hassle and unpleasant, no matter how careful I am and how much lube I've applied to the toy and self. Even a "jelly" dildo (specifically penis-shaped) of moderate size seems not to work. Any suggestions? I do allow my butt plugs to stay in place for several hours at a time because I masturbate to the sensations. Just "keep trying"? Lie back and think of England??