[I Want My Best Friend]

Thanks for your opinions, I guess that's what I was thinking in the back of my mind, just needed someone else to confer. I didn't really have anyone to ask about this, so I think this forum is a great way to express feelings and concerns without embarrassing friends or making your spouse question your thoughts.

I'm going to keep everything the way it is. My friendship with my girlfriend is too special to me to ruin and my relationship with hubby is glorious, and I don't want to ruin that either.

Thanks again!! Odee

[I Want My Best Friend]

I have 2 problems (maybe not problems, but dilemmas that relate) and would like some advise.

My best friend and I had a conversation a few years ago. She knows I enjoy girl on girl, and she had decided to let me know she was willing to try it. I told her I couldn't do that, as I was afraid it would make our friendship uncomfortable and strained. (That was 6 years ago)

Well, lately, as my husbands and my sexual relationship has been hotter and better than ever before , I now find myself thinking about a girl on girl relationship again. (I haven't done it in 6 years). And it's my best friends face I see in my fantasies . I also know this is something my husband would love to be involved with. I would never involve this friend with that, but am torn between finding someone to let him have this experience and not doing this at all, as this is the same situation that was the demise of my first marriage. My exhb fell in love with the girl we introduced to our relationship. (She was a VERY good friend of mine, they are now married and she is the step-mother of my 2 children). All I wanted to do was to please my exhb - and that's where it got me. Now, I would love to please my current hb, but am very afraid.

Boiled down, (1) do I ask my friend if she's still interested and (2) how do I please my hb without feeling scared or threatened?

Does anyone have an opinion or advise to these 2 issues.

Thanks in advance

[Ben-wa Balls]

My wife would like to try them but want because she thinks that she want be able to get them out. Has anyone ever had that porblem. Please give me some help and ideas. I think she will like them if she trys it

I have a set I bought while on vacation a few years ago, and I LOVE THEM!! The only time I have trouble getting them out is after my hb has fucked me hard with them in me!! (which is absolutely WONDERFUL) Funny thing is they have a chime inside them (they are really meant for relaxation, when you roll them around in your hands, they make a devine sound) and you can hear it while they're in me if I walk around with them!!!

If she has a problem with them being too far in, tell her to stand up, relax her muscles and exhale deeply this will usually let them drop and come to the opening of the vagina for removal, and if her vaginal muscles aren't exercised regularly, when she stands up they might just fall on the floor!!

[Unusual Ways To Masturbate]

When I was a kid, I didn't know I was masterbating, I was infatuated with the thought of giving birth, so rubbing my doll on my clit till I came, I thought that was what having a baby was....(after 2 kids) boy was I wrong....

[Double Penetration]

OK ... I'll share.

Having 2 men in my bed had long been a fantasy - until I brought it up to a male friend, who agreed to it.

Then I asked my husband if he would be interested in something like this. (We were separated and I really wasn't interested in asking anyone else I wasn't familiar with sexually)

I have to say - it was really a good experience. All 3 times lol.

After the 3 of us got together to discuss the issue, it was just a matter of setting it up. You may think that's odd, but it really helped to lay the cards on the table prior to the 'event' so that we all knew what to expect from each other, what limits were expected, etc.

Of course, having DP with your partner's penis and a toy is quite different from 2 penises inside of you!

We even tried DVP. That was interesting.

After reading through some of the anal sex postings, I have to agree that anal along with clitoral stimulation makes for some intense orgasms. My partner loves having his prostate massaged. He says it really does intensify his orgasms. I hear a lot of men say they would never entertain the idea of having a woman go anywhere near their ass - but if you just relax and let it happen gradually, I'm certain you will enjoy it! (I sound like a male trying to get a female to do it lol)

On a side note - sadly, my husband wasn't so honest with his feelings about the entire situation and I had to endure his blaming me for 'putting him in a situation' he didn't appreciate. He still had feelings for me and was very hurt by it all. Which I didn't understand. Why not just say no? Why go back for more?

I don't feel I put him in a situation at all - he was asked and accepted. His feelings are his responsibility and I did ask him several times before if he was okay with it all. I share this because for others who may find themselves in similar territory, make certain that all parties involved understand each others feelings and urge them to be honest with themselves and you! It will save major headaches and feelings of guilt later on.

Too bad - all this time I could have been enjoying this activity if he had actually been into it lol.

Has anyone else been in this predicament?

When I was married to my first husband, he had a fantasy of having 2 girls. Well, we found a couple willing partners and it was great but those friendships fell by the wayside, then the 3rd person we involved was the demise of my marriage. He would not listen to my concerns about the feelings that were floating around in the bedroom and she soon fell in love with him and he with her. (They say things happen for a reason) Well my new and current husband is all I could ev er wish for. he satisfies me in every way possible. Especilly in the bedroom. We have tried anal sex a couple of times, with his penis is took quite a few tries, but with his fingers I get off like there's no tomorrow!!!! When we did it with his penis he fingered me at the same time in my pussy and it was fantastic. Double penetration is the BOMB!!