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It's funny you made this comment, actually, because I was just telling my husband about this thread today! *chuckle*
In the distant past, we'd tried the tie-me-up gig, but for some reason or another, I was REALLY uncomfortable with it. It wasn't him at all, but the situation of being helpless -- it was scary -- so we haven't tried it since those few times. Well, I found out recently that the little stinker's been poking around bondage sites and is totally aroused by some of the things he's seen! So we're talking about trying some lesser-intimidating types of things to see if I can handle it (including the 'special code word' to end things immediately, etc.). He's always SO into pleasuring me (he says it's HIS biggest pleasure-gainer) so I'd really like to do something that would please him. And I've got to admit that the idea DOES sound fun... it's just once I get there, I kinda freak out.
Hopefully, one step at a time, it'll work, and then we can move up to these!
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Ditto what curvacious_lust said. I would be tooooo paranoid to ever do that.
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I introduced my husband to it pre-married life, about 11 years ago. I had already been clean-shaved for a few years and he loved it, so we decided to make a night out of shaving him. I was nervous, but I didn't cut him once!
He's not 100% regular on upkeep, but he knows he'll get more attention down there when he's all pretty and smooth! -
I did read your top pick list, yes!
Your words on the bullets were one of the reasons I chose this as my/our first toy. I wanted something simple, something that wouldn't scare my husband away from the idea, and something we could both use on one another. TooTimid recently offered the Powerful Vibrating Sparkling Egg on sale. Money's real tight here, even with TT's great prices. I saw this offer, though -- its price plus S&H totalled was less than the regular cost of the bullet! Well, I couldn't pass that up, so I quickly ordered a pretty pink one! This was definitely the perfect starting toy for newbies like us. My wishlist is growing, but I can't see me ever NOT having one of these!
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Thank you, Mikayla! I read this article the other day. My husband and I had finally just gotten over our poison ivy & flu yuckies and when I read this, I gained an evil little grin of conspiracy!
Backing up for a moment.... We celebrated our mutual birthday on the 11th. I surprised him with a bullet, a first toy for either of us, but something I felt wouldn't scare him off (he's a bit of a square
). He loved it, especially he loved using it on me! Well, I didn't realize how much he enjoyed it until last night.After a lot of foreplay (love love love the foreplay!), he was about to take me, and I said, "Uh-uh, I wanna try something." "Okay," he agrees, to my surprise.
I turned around and "Reverse Cowgirl"ed him and got an "Oh!" of pleasant surprise from him. *giggle* Then HE surprised ME by pulling out the bullet and slipping it between us, cradled against my clit! Ooooooh my gosh, I was in heaven.Unfortunately, I wasn't able to stay in the position too long. I was doing it in a squat (instead of on my knees) and it was a bad, bad night arthritis-wise, but I just HAD to try! Hehe! Needless to say, even though we continued in missionary and with the bullet, it was a very loud, multiple-orgasmic session!
I'll definitely be referring to this list to try something new each time! Thanks again!
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Thanks for the info, Rob!
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My husband loves his nipples gently tugged with my teeth and flicked with my tongue...lightly blown upon once wet...
I just bought my first toy last week, the Powerful Sparkling Vibrating Egg, and I can't wait to surprise him with it! We both got poison ivy (not from anything fun, unfortunately) and bad colds right after I got it, so it's sitting very lonely next to the bed until we get better. .. Well... I DID have to test it first to see how it worked (
haha). I can't wait to use it on him, though!! -
Katprr, great review! Reading it definitely aroused me mentally and physically!
Could you post a link to which butterfly it is, though? I'm guessing I must have overlooked it, but look I did!Thanks in advance!
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*laugh* I'm a pure multi-O girl... I'm usually trying to remember to breathe too much to hold a stopwatch!
A long time...? Not long enough...? Hehehehe. -
Great review, Katprr!!
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You're not a freak!
I've been with my husband for 11 years and I've had that happen to me a handful of times. There were stressors in my life and with climax came tears -- a total release session! It was such a powerful time with him... not just orgasmically but emotionally, I was ...overwhelmed... sound familiar? The first two times I did it, he was beside himself, wondering what he'd done wrong or if he hurt me. It took me a while to get him to realize he'd done nothing WRONG -- he'd done everything RIGHT!
Like Howard mentioned, it sounds as though you're in a good place for you right now, your new boyfriend being part of that good place. Don't stress over it; it will work itself out.
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Well, if it was only "for a while," I would have to say I'd try just anal. I've only had anal sex once, but ooOoooooh it was niiiiiice. He was VERY well endowed and that "filled" feeling was oh so wonderful. Sadly, I don't get TOO much out of vaginal sex -- most of my orgasms come solely from clit stimulation... so as long as I could have that, I'd be all set!
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This isn't something I've ever tried, but it's ALWAYS been a major mental turn-on for me. Just thinking about it.. mrrow.
Hrm... I wonder if we have a few dollars to spare for some shopping... Hehehe! -
(oops, double-posted, sorry!)
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*giggle* I wondered if you'd remember that was you.
After I posted that list, I had to laugh and ask myself, "Where'd that carefree girl go?" I definitely need to find her again!
Being here's the first step to that! I've really enjoyed this site... the people and the topics... and the reviews are great for a newbie-to-toys. My wish list is getting long! -
After lurking here for a few weeks, I guess this is as good a topic to post my first post as any!
Let's see...men's college dorm shower (not even my dorm hall, but that of a friend)
college dorm bed (while roommate was in her own bed)
golf course at night
beach at night
husband’s uncle’s waterbed while we were house-sitting
husband’s bottle redemption/store he used to own, during open-hours
-- on the rampway leading upstairs
-- upstairs
-- right there in the store (no customers until we were hiking up our pants - close call!)
in a jeep at a playground next to a main road
in a softball dugout on Christmas Eve (BRR!)
in a hottub with my then-boyfriend’s parents home
in a swimming pool (his parents returning home just as we finished)
in the ocean (ride the waves, baby!)
in a tent while camping
bathtub
on the floor of a hotel room where a bunch of us crashed after a concert
livingroom floor
friend’s houses in different rooms
floor of friend's house, staying overnight with a bunch of people there, next to their bed
in a camper/RV bed (with my best friend and her boyfriend in another bed)
I think that's it!
Hustler's Rock It Clit Stimulator
in Sex Toy Reviews
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My husband came home from work yesterday with a box in his hand. "Mail came!" I exclaimed, then added after seeing TooTimid's return address, "Wanna have some fun?"
Off to the bedroom we went!
I was able to splurge last week and bought a whole bunch of toys -- the pretty pink Hustler's being one of them! We had fun looking at all our new purchases, but chose the Hustler's to focus on first. And oh.. my.. goodness.
I started by exploring hubby with it. I started with the back of his neck, worked down his back (he did just come home from work, after all!), then reached down and ran it up his inner thigh and then played around his shaft, head and balls, asking where it felt the yummiest (inquiring minds NEED to know!). Then he took over and turned my legs to jelly. He went down on me forever, tongue, fingers and Hustler, and I swear, my back hardly stayed on the bed! We found I loved the side of the toy just as well as the little metal nubs... it's a different kind of vibration, but oh-so-nice! Once we started having sex, we laid it between us so I was still getting some fantastic clit stimulation -- he could feel the vibrations, too. He said it 'made him numb and gave him staying power.' And I'm gonna complain...?
The only thing we didn't care for with this toy was (to save batteries), when we'd turn it off once in a while, because of how the settings are set-up (OPEN, OFF, ON), we'd bypass the OFF and click straight to OPEN, so we'd have to stop what we were doing and close it back up again -- we did this SEVERAL times.
Although we only have one other toy thus-far used to compare to, I think I really love the higher vibrations. This toy packs the punch! Definitely a great addition to the newly formed toybox under our bed!