[Do You Mind When They Look?]

What you are suggesting your ex did is borish behavior, and you have every right to be angry with him for doing it. Some men are just not house trained. There is an old rule of " dating" that says "you go home with the one that brung you!" The same applies to making comments about other women in front of the woman you are with.

Now, my wife and I handled it a lot differently. She told me she knew I was not dead, and that I looked at other women. That is just the way men are wired. Women look at good looking guys, too. What she proposed was that she would make sure that if I had not seen a woman she thought was worth a look, for any reason( Naked, big boobs, big butt, beautiful smile, great figure, etc.) she would make sure to point such women out to me so I could get a look. I also agreed to make sure I pointed out great looking guys to her to look at, if she missed someone. We handled the comments by asking each other, " Do you think she give head as good as I do?" and other comments of that kind. It always brought us back to what was important about US, so there was no longing to find out what we were missing. It also kept us both on our toes as lovers, so that our partner did not miss out on anything. The method she came up got rid of self doubt, and jealousy, which are two sides of a very thin dime. My wife was always conscious of the fact that she did not have very large breasts. She actually envied women who were better built than she is. I told her over and over again that I liked her the way she was, and even if I looked at a woman who was well endowed, I was just not interested in pursuing any kind of relationship with that other woman. My looking had to do with my genes, not with my desires. Teh same went with young women in skimpy bikinis, thongs, G-strings. etc. My wife and I went to a strip show with another couple, because neither woman had ever been, and they were curious about what the women dancers do that is so exciting to men. We had a great time, but both women were annoyed that the dancers would not allow them to put dollar bills in their g-strings, but would allow us men to do so! When we left, my wife told me she was so turned on, could we please go home and fuck! I later pressed her to tell me what it was that excited her so much. She was not sure, and I asked her to think about it and let me know if she figured it out. I never got an answer from her. But, the next time strip clubs came up as a topic of discussion with other people, she recounted our adventure, and urged the other women to not be negative about it, but to go with their husbands or boyfriends to the shows. I don't think my wife had any interest in other women, so that was not it. I think, from piecing together comments she made about the show, that she basically liked the idea that women could excite men by dancing and taking their clothes off. She found the entire atmosphere of the club thrilling, and felt very comfortable being there with us men.

So, look away. If a guy you are with sees another woman and makes a comment, ask him what she has that you don't have, and if he thinks she could do to him what he loves you doing to him, better? If you are reading the postings here, and going back through topics to read other comments, you will learn so much about pleasuring a man, he can't possibly want to stray from you. Read the Sex. Ed articles too. see the tabs at the top of this page.

So Howard would you go to a male strip club to give your wife the same pleasure as you? See a man in the way she saw the woman, something that turns her on while you get the benefits? Just Curious?

[Newbie Here Needing Some Good Sex Toy Advice Please!]

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[Female Masturbation]

I can't get my wife to Masturbat. She saids that it is too nasty. I think secertly that she really wants to try it but doesn't know what to do. Some times I'll see her playing with her boobs, but that is about as far as she goes. Never has she gone down stairs on her self. But during sex I'll take her hand and place it down there for her. Man does that ever get her so wet and turned on!!

Any thoughts on how I can get her to open up to the idea of masturbation?

Well you can ensure her that masturbation is completely normal. I'm curious as to what she thinks is so nasty. If she is afraid to touch herself down there naked she could start off but rubbing herself through her panties. Also have you tried masturbating in front of her? I think that is extremely sexy when my husband does this. It makes me want to just hop right on. You might want to bring this up in a new post you will probably get some great responses!

[Stimulating A Man Anus]

That is exactly why I was wondering, the finger thing. For us seems hard to work a finger in, unless I am sucking him then I can insert a finger and do my thing. He likes the oral a lot but I think to cum he prefers vaginal so I was wondering how to give him the best of both worlds in a comfortable position. Thanks Mikayla! I look forward to seeing if you come up with anything :-)

[Stimulating A Man Anus]

What is the best position for stimulating a man when having sex. It's easy to do it while gving oral sex, I need to know some positions for vaginal sex.

[Looking For A Good Porno]

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