[I'm Addicted To It!]

iwish you were my wife i would love to stick my prick up your arse .after reading your story you have given me the biggest hard on for a long timr

I'm not jlg from texas, I'm Elise. But I can offer my experience, if it helps? My husband is paolo and he comes in here sometimes. He said I should anwer this question from a woman's viewpoint.

He and I have very, very intense anal sex, but it took a long time to get where we are. We are in our forties. We first had anal intercourse about 7 years ago, and it's an important part of our sex life. We have anal sex when the mood strikes us... sometimes we won't fuck in my ass for weeks, and then we'll do it every time we have sex, for days and days. I don't know why, we just do what feels good at the time. It can get addicting.

Trust is the main thing. If you can't trust your man to take care of you, you won't be able to relax enough to enjoy anal. Especially if your man's cock is big. I have never had a man bigger than my husband, and IMHO bigger is always better. He's pretty long, but what I love is that his cock is really, really thick. I'm small, only 5'1", so even vaginal sex with him is a stretch for me, but I love it.

We started out really slowly, years ago. Paolo licks pussy wonderfully. We would usually start sex by doing 69 for a while, then I'd lie back and he'd go down on me and make me come with his fingers and tongue before fucking me. Maybe we were in a bit of a rut, but we had small children, and when you finally have enough time to make love you concentrate on what works.

One night while he was licking me one of his fingers (very wet) slipped down lower than usual and tickled my anus. It felt fantastic, and he obviously picked up on that, and next thing I knew he was slowly pushing his finger up my ass. I came so hard I nearly passed out. This turned out to be the key to me enjoying anal sex of any kind... clitoral and anal stimulation go together really, really well.

paolo wanted to put his cock up my ass, but I refused. He'd make me come with his mouth on my pussy and his finger up my ass nearly every time we had sex, and I loved it, but I was sure his big cock would split my ass wide open, so no thank you! I underestimated paolo's patience. It took months of this, then one night he put two fingers up my ass, and I think I woke the neighbors with my screaming when I came. I asked him how he got two fingers up there, and he told me he'd lubed me with vaseline. All right! It made everything so slick and smooth there was absolutely no pain, only pleasure. I still prefer vaseline to any other anal lube.

It took a few more months of that, then one night just as I was about to come, he took his mouth off my pussy and just worked his fingers deep in my ass. I came just from his fingers up me, and it was a totally new kind of orgasm... totally anal. I loved it. He started giving me pure anal orgasms all the time. Awesome. By this time I was really starting to want to try his cock in my ass, but I was afraid to say so.

Then we bought a new kind of vibrator that was skinnier in the middle than either end, and the base was real wide so you can't lose it up there. We would start with oral, then fingers in my ass, then he'd slowly push the vibrator up my ass. After maybe ten minutes of that I'd be really hot and ready to come, then he'd slide his cock just a little ways into my vagina, and use another vibrator on my clit. OMG! We still do this a lot. I'll have multiple orgasms like this, and eventually his cock will be all the way up me with both vibrators still humming. The sensation is so good I can't tell what is in where sometimes. Wow!

Finally one night we were doing this two-vibrators-plus-cock thing and I told paolo I wanted him to try putting his cock in my ass. He was delighted. He'd been working on me for about 3 years by this point. Maybe other girls are braver than me and can do it sooner, but I needed the whole 3 years to be convinced that I could do it.

He used his tongue and fingers and lots of vaseline to get me just frantic that night. Every time I got close to coming, he'd stop licking my pussy and just hold me still until my nerves settled, then he'd start all over again. Then he told me to turn over and I got into knee-chest position with him behind me. He started to penetrate my ass, but it really hurt a lot with only just the head in, so he reached around and started rubbing my clit with his fingers. It felt really good, and it helped me relax. He reminded me to bear down like I was having a BM, which relaxes the anus, and then he slowly pushed his cock in deeper and deeper. It still hurt a bit, but only a little, and the pleasure in my clit and my ass was definitely worth the small amount of pain. It took maybe five minutes of slow pushing to get his cock halfway in, but at that point something in me just opened up and I told him to give me all of it, and he did. It was pure mind-blowing pleasure to feel the fullness of his cock all the way up my ass. Then he started thrusting, and between that and his fingers on my clit I didn't have a prayer of holding back, and I had a huge orgasm, and paolo came almost immediately after I did.

Since that night we've never looked back. I am still pretty tight, and even after years of getting butt-fucked I still need a lot of vaseline (or Astroglide gel, which is almost as good and not so messy), and it still hurts a bit when he penetrates my ass. I don't mind that. It makes me feel like we're doing something really special that keeps on being special.

There are as many ways of having anal intercourse as you can imagine. Vibrators, toys, different positions, you name it. We like to make it last. Sometimes he'll fuck my ass for half an hour or even longer... I can't tell, I'm too busy having orgasms to watch the clock. Other times we'll do other things, and he'll only be up my ass for a few minutes before he comes. I like to put a buttplug up his ass sometimes just before he penetrates me, but most of our anal play definitely takes place in my multiple-orgasmic ass. My only firm rule for anal sex is that he must come in my ass before he can stop, no matter how long it takes. Sometimes, if we're on our second or third fuck of the evening, it can take him a while. But it's worth the pleasure of feeling his come spurting in my ass.

I hope this answer wasn't too long, but I really believe any couple who puts the effort into learning how to experience this wonderful way of making love needs the encouragement to do so.

Now, if you'll excuse me, I have to go find paolo. All this thinking about anal sex has made me more than a little horny.

Elise