[Masturbation]

TO SEXY 25 That would turn me on...............

Lucky bastard.........

I love to masturbate all the time, I tryed to have pictures taken while I 'm doing it ( with auto camera)and send email to my boyfriend, but he never said anything about it. So I dont know if it turn him on or not. I try to ask him, he never gave me an answer. So do you guys know any other ways to how to get him to repond? HELP?

LUCKY BASTARD

[Threesome]

I often fantasize about getting a Hotel room , a fancy one with a jaquzzi, filled with warm sud filled water, champaign, and candles placed all around the jaquzzi, soft rock music turned to the level that you can still talk over, she is in a lepard bikini, her soft flowing hair slightly wet from the water, the soft gold chain neckless lays upon her golden brown breasts and the suds slowly roll into the crevas of her cleveage, we are laughing and drinking and both becoming as two school kids , kissing gently and I feel my penis become erect as she leans into me. There is a knock at the door, it is the bellman bringing up the meal we ordered, she quickly jumps from the jaquzzi, and answers the door.. The bellman is a young clean shaven blackman, as he prepares to serve the meal, he begins to try to innoncently steal a few glimpses of my wife, I am watching him, and see he is begiing to become erect, I lean and whisper into my wifes ear,,,, You know that fantasy we always had, but never actually wanted to do? ", she looks at me and a sly grin comes to her lips, "Yes, Yes I do, why do you ask"? I look her in the eyes , she knows what I want without speaking it..

" You are sure" she asks again.... I reply " I am if you are"... She looks at me again... looks at the young man, and slides from the jaquzzi to inspect the food as I watch her seduction.. She makes ploite conversation, and picks up a celery stick and dips into the vegatable dip and slowly places it to her lips and begins to slowly slide it beween her pursed lips, as the stick enters her mouth the dip , all creamy and white begins to slowly move off the celery and form a slight ring around her lips..she giggles and takes her tounge and slowly licks it from around her mouth, and gived him the "ok" look... She slides her hand down his chest undoing each button along the way revealing a ebony sixpack... her hand slides down to his cock lready bulging and she firmly grabs it and starts a slow hand jack.... he looks to me for approval and I give him the wink and the nod, he places his hands upon her breasts and begins to slip them from under her top... they fall into his hands , nipples erect and swollen brown, he takes one nipple in his mouth and begind sucking on it and rolling the other nipple in between his fingers, she begins breathing heavily, placing her hands onto his head and directing his movements... I watch as she struugles to loosen the belt to his pants and finally she frees the zipper and as his slacks slide to the floor I see his swollen , thick, throbbing , black cock.. the head swells into a shaded helmet....he then moves my wife slowly down his chest as her tounge tip caresses his tight skinned chest, down to his abs and then onto his cock.... She takes it in her hands and slowly licks it up one side and down the other,,,, the precum slowly lays on her face like a soft dew...she then begins to take him into her mouth, slowly working the tip of his penis with her tounge and lubing it with her saliva to make the deep throat that is about to happen easier for her..I am getting so excited just watchin I found myself masterbating and I did not even realize it, after a few seconds she rises and takes the man by the hand and leads him to our jaquzzi, he is looking at me in disbelief of his lucky day... I assure him again that this is what we want.... I offer him a glass of champaign, and my wife feels for my cock and begins to jack me off... I motion for the man to slide next to her so we have her between us, as he does she slides her hand onto his cock also , doing the same motions... he and I begin to kiss her neck and cup one breast in our hands.... she begins moaning as her eyes roll back into her head.. I slide up onto the edge of the jaquzzi and lay back a bit revealing my long hard dong standing at attention for some recognition, she slides over to me and begins sucking me off, as I reach under and cup her breasts, the young blackman, standing behind my wife starts and gentle entry .... she is moanng and sucking and begins pushing her ass into his cock.. the slow entry has now became a hard banging rythym... she begins to make sounds of pleasure and pain as she still works my cock with hand and mouth.. He starts banging her harder and harder.. I am at first worried that perhaps it may be too much for her,,, as she assures me with a look to let me know,,,, NO I LOVE IT..DONT STOP ... I now hear the man begin to moan and I know he is about to blast..... I pull my wifes hair back and begin jacking myself to match his timing.... I hear him yell.....I see my wifes pain in pleasure as she reaches her peak... and I too.... am ready to explode.... as a finely timed firework display we all go off in complete unison....we all fall back into the calming warm waters... The young man finished his glass and with a polite social goodbye made a graceful exit, leaving my wife and I alone , she slid over and laid her head onto my shoulder and we toasted glasses and finsihed our drinks , she then straddled me and wrapped her arms around my neck and gave a the most passionate kiss and hug..... " now I must reward you my love" as she slide her hand down onto my cock and guided it into her warm velvet like vagina and slowly rocked my world....

[Wife Lost All Sex Drive]

ok now me as a 21 yearold mom of 2 I am saying it is ok to lust it is ok to fantasize, tell her about it talk to her about what you want, and most of all be patient!!!!!! she is probably just as frustrated as you are, I know after my second child it took me a long time to get back in the groove of things and some days i still find myself submitting and not being able to orgasm with my partner it is very frustrating for both of us. i have told him what i want and shown him, but that took lots of trust and patience. it will take her time but just dont give up and just work things out with her try focusing on her instead of worrying about cumming too soon, dont worry about it just keep going, keep working on her keep pleasing her and do everything you can to show her you love and want her more than anything in the world. trust me a woman needs to feel secure and free to trust a man to help her in a sexual area, it took me years and im only 21! i am still having trouble and i am a young woman that loves sex! so be careful what you say make her feel good but she may want to hear about those young girls you think about, you never know what she may be thinking as well!

Thank you for your reply.....

"waiting for Orgasm is rather lenghty and some what a tiring chore"

First off, sex should NEVER be a chore, it should be fun, for BOTH of you.

You mention your wife has reported a los of sensation due to a surgery.

Have you tried a female enhancement cream?

I know 2 of them that come highly reccomended, the viva cream and the sexual accelarator gel.

Both contain ingrediants that help bring blood to the clit allowing for more sensation and better orgasms.

You mention you use toys and oral and manual stimulation,

This is a good thing, as it means your lines of communication are open and your trust levels ar high.

Here comes the 64 dollar question, are you using mental stimulation as well as physical?

The most erogonus zone in the human body is the brain.

No, I am not suggesting you go out and buy electrical probes and zap her brain.

I am suggesting doing small things, if she is even the slightest bit tense, then she can not reach orgasm.

She may also have a mental block up saying " oh well, its over, let him do as he wants, I can't feel anything anyways"

Perhaps she has a slight case of depression from it, she may not say anything, but, a woman who goes from enjoying a healthy happy sex life, to not being able to enjoy it is going to have some sort of side effect.

Nothing zaps the old libido like a bout of depression and low self esteem.

As far as your fantasies of making love to these younger women, why not seduce your wife like she was one of these younger women?

If you know these fantasies are not going to come true, what is teh confusion?

Looking is one thing, having fantasies is ok, we all do.

Lets face it, if we did not fantasize, we would not be considered normal, or human.

Flirting is pushing the envelope in my book, lusting after them is also pushing the envelope.

You made very solem vows to your wife the day you were married,

You promised to love and cherish her, and to forsake all others and to cleave unto only her.

Ok, thats kinda scary, I can still remember the vows, I been married too many times if I know them by heart LOL

Anyways, back on track here.

As I was saying, flirting is really pushing it, You are leading these women and YOURSELF on, and that is just not cool.

Flirting subconciously is one thing, a lot of women do it and just don't know it, but you say you know you are doing it.

That is entirely differant.

You say you love your wife more than life itself, how do you think she would feel if she came across you flirting with some other woman?

Honestly, if your wife has lost her sex drive, it is time for a nice long chat with each other, out of the bedroom, and in a neutral area.

You vent to her, she vents to you, no one screams, hollers, rants, raves or passes judgement on the other.

Dont just hear the words, LISTEN, and dont expect things to change overnight.

I wish yalls the best of luck

thank you for your reply

[Wife Lost All Sex Drive]

My wife has lost all sex drive and desire, She says it is lack of sensation in the vagina caused by surgery, We have tried all kinds of toys, vibrators, and stimulis, with some slight effect, but the waiting for Orgasm is rather lenghty and some what a tiring chore... By the time she is ready to climax I am already at the orgasm point excited by the foreplay and prematurely orgasm myself... This makes for a declining appetite for sex on my part as I am 45 and not a young buck anymore... Here is my problem.. I love my wife more than life itself, but I have been finding myself looking at younger women, lusting with a secret fantasy to make love to them.. I have noticed myself "innocently" flirting, yet knowing these fantasies will never come true as my devotion and committment will NEVER allow me to be untrue... It's constantly putting my mind in a state of battle... choosing between fantasy and reality... to crave what you can never have... ya know??

Help............

[Premature Ejaculation]

I I rarely am able to avoid orgasm very early into our lovemaking... It hurts me emotionally and also wounds my confidence in being able to please my wife.. She says that past surgeries over the years has made her clitoris very numb and really has a rare sexual dive.. I can't help but thinking if I was a better, longer lasting partner her urge would increase.... I was wondering what product you would reccommend in possibly "numbing" or reducing my sensitivity upon penetration? I have read of exercises in masterbation, but my wife says it's not me... it's her.... she will not aid in this type of exercise... HELP