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  1. I think we need to clarify the type of "attention" we are talking about here. For me, when I get the emails taht say:

    "I think you are hot, can I have a picture of that pussy" or "I would pay you for just a night of sex, my wife is so lame."

    I think 2 things. First, I think, "Wow. What is so special about me that someone wants to pay me for sex?" It is an honest reaction. I feel I am no different than anyone else, except I talk about sex more. Second, I think, "how sad that this person has to proposition someone that they do not know in this manner."

    Is it flattering? In an odd sort of way, I have to view it as flattering. Am I flattered? NO. Usually I am laughing as I send the standard, "sorry, I am happily married and the only one to see my pussy is my hubby. Go try to make your wife happier in bed so she can please you more." response.

    I also get the emails where I have just written an article, and the person is commenting on my knowledge and expertise (so to speak) on the article. It starts out flattering, then it turns to a proposition. Then it looses its punch. If you want to say, "Thanks for writing a good article, it inspired me!" Great, say that. Don't end it with, "I wish I could fuck you!"

    Now, I need to clarify. When people write in and say, "I wish my wife/girlfriend were more LIKE you." That does flatter me. Cause again, who am I to be compared to someone else. I am more confused as to why, but I would be lying if I didn't say that was flattering.

    Then, there are those few emails where someone says, in the nicest manner, "if we were in another time and universe....." those are flattering. I show them to my hubby sometimes, he is flattered for me. The blanket propositions I do not show him, I don't need to, I can take care of myself.

    So, do I like the attention? The positive attention is flattering. Do I need it to continue to write here. NO. Do I like the negative attention. NO. I find it distracting with all the other things I need and want to do here.

    Is that a good answer?

    Mikayla

    Yes its a very clear cut answer and thanks.....I enjoy this site beside the fact that it offers very good advice but also for the fact that there is NO stupid topic or question. The topic I may start may not pertain to me but to all in general. It is a sex site but one simple topic can lead to so much more maybe more questions more advice and so on.........I agree with you that if some man is asking YOU for sex and says he is unhappy with wife whatever the reason he should focus on making things better with the one he is with rather then looking for that quick fix.....or easy answer....(NOT saying that I think you are easy) they should read and ask and search the board to repair whateve is the problem or find a cure to the cause and then they wont have to look elsewhere for happiness and sex. I have found that since most people arent open about sex they dont take to others that are.....guys think youre easy girls to for that matter and some even have been jealous. Its sad more people should be open and willing to try learn and enjoy.

    HnH

  2. I came to this forum looking for information, not propositions. If that's what someone wants, they need to go somewhere else.

    When I came looking for information, I received several questionable e-mails. I did respond stating that I wasn't interested, but needing advice. Did I like the attention? No. The advice. Yes. I did show my hubby the PM's I received, and he understood. I had never had an orgasm, so he knew I needed guidance. This site makes him uncomfortable, but he definitely agrees that our sex life is infinitely better.

    Glad to hear that this site and its advice has helped you.......You are so right its here for information and advice its not a dating service.........So keep posting and keep reading we are all happy you are here

    Hrnychick

    I agree this site is for information and advice to help us all learn and to help others. I really am glad that I found it......Glad it has helped you and i just think how many it maybe helping that dont post only come here and read.
  3. Have you ever had a fight with your SO over sex.....as in having it.....where to have it......how to have it??????

    I had a fight one time about having anal I was soooo against it......and the more he asked/pressured the more i got mad and then the more we fought when it came to that topic. Ofcourse the fight may have started off to be about something else but lead back to that or vice versa. Whats your story........share it please

    =========HOT N Hrny+++++++++++

  4. What is the biggest size cock you ever had or the biggest tits you ever had the pleasure to play with?

    I had 7 inches....all that i have been with were around that never bigger

    I was told that I had the biggest tits they ever had the pleasure to enjoy...........38 DD

    --------------HOTNHRNY---------------

  5. Luv it when any man I am with nibbles and pinches and sucks on my tits Mmmmmm like when we kiss and i just can wait for him to touch them man oh man.......then when he does Mmmmmmm over the shirt at first then waiting for him to go inside and take it all from there........ok i better stop I think i got my point across that I luv luv luv and must have my tits played with.

    HotnHrny

  6. Glad you found something to help.....I dont have kids or many toys only one for that matter but if I ever do have to "hide" them yes i said them because i do plan on getting more lol anyway i will remember your advice......I know some said get custome boxes made but hey we all dont have that kind of money right lol......good idea you had and thanks for sharing

    Hotnhrny

  7. Ok I have read and replied to the other topic on Pms and emails here.......and that inturn had me thinking for those of you who said you get or have had a lot or even a few emails/Pms from some here looking for sex......did you or do you enjoy the attn? I mean we all like attn right.....and im not saying that you have to act on it or even consider what is being asked in those emails but really dont you sit back for a second and think wow i must be good interesting whatever......especially if you have just written a reply or a topic or sex toy review and thats what got you that attn. in the first place.

    Has the emails ever caused a problem for you and your SO if he/she knows that you are on here to begin with???

    Just a few things I thought about after reading the other topic about emails.....It is a shame that to be open and honest about sex has to lead to some thinking its a invite so lets not let some ruin it for all the others. I guess if you set up for emiails and pms you have to take the good with the bad anc expect such from some.

    LOL i guess i wont be getting to many HONEST replies on this because if you say you like the attn....even just a bit it will lead to a full mail box im sure.......but please dont let that stop anyone from being true and honest here.

    thanks Hotnhrny

  8. I have done the bed thing him laying on back and it is good for getting into the 69.....but nothing compares to on my knees in front of him......well should i say him since he is my EX lol.....anyway i like to have "the guy" sit in a chair and me getting between his legs.....teasing....licking....etc then going for it Mmmmmm looking up as im sucking and he is looking back at me.....now that is a big turn on......and then when he is really close and into it he throws head back closes eyes and holds my head there as if i wanted to get away but couldnt.

    I do enjoy (and so has he....lol) other ways like sitting beside him in the car and doing it while he was driving til he HAD to pull over......him on his back in bed and me in the 69 or beside him so he can watch me work it and play with my ass but again for ME nothing compares to being on knees in front of him,

    HnH

  9. You can block PMs and Emails such as I have when i signed into the forum.......it was on the very first screen to register, Had to find a user name for the forum and a password then when you enter your email I think it has one or two boxes if you want to get emails from other and/or from TooTimid personel......such as Rob or whomever. If you make sure that both boxes are NOT checked then you will not get anything from anyone not even TooTimid ppl. Im not sure now that you are signed on that you can get back to that screen but I do know that you can go into your controls (on top of screen MY CONTROLS) and block a sender,,,,,,,If there is way to many to block then by all mean get in touch with Rob and put a stop to unwanted PMs

    Hope it works for you......dont let some ruin a good thing.

    Hotnhrny

  10. Thanks for the advice.....its so true why wait Im not a very forward person.....when it comes to stuff like asking a guy out or whatever Im on the shy side but working on that.....I guess its always been that if they didnt approach me then I thought they were not interested. I dont really clue into the sly signals men use......maybe i should buy a book on it or something lol......I feel like a teenager asking sex advice for the first time here.....lol thanks to all for being so kind and not thinking any question is stupid or not worth answering......well off to buy Flirting 101 lol

    *****Hotnhrny***********

  11. Starting them right now as i sit here and type.....yes I know what a Kegel is but just never did it.....didnt really know how strong it could get or the affect on sex it could have I thought my O were pretty intense but cant wait to see what happen is I get stronger......something to look forward to trying if or should i say when I get a new BF. Get reviewing on that Kegel "toy" I will be waiting.......hope its turns out to be something worth buying. Have to say your reviews are very well written and you cover all the bases with facts and info etc......I see you have many toys in your bio YOU GO GIRL someday soon (especially after joining TooTimid) i hope to reach that amount. Even if i have to get another job to do so LOL

    thanks

    Hotnhrny

  12. I have to fully agree with that last post......I too would want anything and everything done to me.......love to be teased, spanked, touched, licked, fingered, and on and on.....just nothing that really scare me like being way to rough to the point im in fear or think i will be hurt. Ofcourse I would have to know the person well I just wouldnt let any guy tie me up.......sorry but lots of crazy ppl in the world.

    HOT-N-HRNY

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  13. Oh boy does it ever matter what a man eats etc if you are thinking of swallowing.......My EX knew if it was certain things then oral was still a go but I would NOT swallow.....so if he wanted me to bad enough he just had to make a few changes.

    Glad you had a fun weekend and advice here helped you.....I love this site as well great advice so far.......dare i say i find myself addicted to it lol

    As for post just above this one.....if a guy sucks dick and eats pussy sorry guy but you are not str8 you are BI.....and there is nothing wrong with that.

    HOTNHRNY

  14. Thanks Howard,

    When its face to face and in like you said he introduces himself then that a given but im asking about when one isnt so forward. Like when I was with my EXBF he would say all the time that this one and that one were hitting on me or flirting and I have to say maybe cause i thought i was in love i was clueless to the actions of other men.....since we have broken up im like looking for signs from guys maybe more then i should maybe im looking to hard.....I guess like they say you always find what you are looking for when you arent really looking.......Thanks again H.

    Hotnhrny

  15. Hi Hot N Hrny,

    The girl you are talking about is Mikayla and yes she is a great reviewer. I am one of the reviewers too, and I am glad to help with whatever you need. I just have a couple of questions and I am sure we can find you something that will take above and beyond a typical O.

    1. Are you interested in a Dual action vibe or just a G- Spot vibe?

    2. Have you tried just relaxing a little bit more and try deep breathing when you feel an orgasm coming on?

    3. What kind of material jelly, silicone or cyberskin?

    keep me updated and hopefully I can help you out.

    Katrina

    Thanks for the reply and in answer to your questions g spot or dual im ok with one or the other or both. I do relax and breathe i have no problem with first O its thereafter i need some help with.....sometimes no matter how hard i try im only good for one and no more after that could it be a something i should ask Dr about cause I have been like this for years. I was always fine with once a day cause I only had few hrs with BF and it was ok but im thinking if i meet someone new i dont want to be like this anymore i want to wow him and give him a work out. Material can be whatever cyberskin sounds like a good first choice. Thanks and sorry i didnt know you also did reviews didnt mean to leave you out.

    OK, first let me WELCOME you - and then I will start with the questions!

    Do not be surprised that you can't cum during intercourse hon, 80 - 85% of all women NEED clitoral stimulation to orgasm. So, if you are looking for something to use during intercourse to help with that - I always suggest a simple BULLET or something like the HUSTER MINI VIBE! They are small and get to the point - your clit. Great for during sex.

    Next, the multi-O's thing. Women sometimes think (not that you do understand) that multi-O's just start coming along if you keep having sex. This isn't true - you have to condition yourself. First, do your kegels! Kegels will definitely help to condition you for multis. Next, instead of stopping and starting again with the clitoral stim - you have to keep stimulating yourself - work PAST the "pain" and sensitivity after you have cum. It takes time to train your body to become multi-orgasmic.

    OK, now if you want a toy that will get you off with the clitoral stim AND the G-Spot AND the insertion - Howard is right - the Glittering Rotating G! I ALWAYS get off in 30 seconds or less - ALWAYS. I will sing the praises of that toy from left to right and back again. It is wonderful! It definitely has the clitoral stim thing down pat.

    Now, if you are looking for something more on the lines of JUST a G-Spot, you can try THE WAVE - which I personally found to be a GREAT G-SPOT toy. It won't do much for your clitoral stim, but the G-SPOT - oh yes.

    Now, if you have any questions, feel free to ask me, or anyone else who reviews here. We all have the scoop on these toys and try to be as honest as possible when we review them!

    Here are the links for ya!

    Bullets:

    http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...h=bullet&Page=1

    Glittering G:

    http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...ROD&ProdID=4674

    The Wave:

    http://shop.tootimid.com/index.asp?PageAct...ROD&ProdID=4820

    GOOD LUCK!

    Mikayla

    Wow girl you hit the nail on the head. I did think that the more sex the easier it would be to have multi Os and yes after i do have oral or masterbation i dont work pass the pain etc....but that will change im going to start today, As for Kegs i never did them so after yrs of not how long do you think it would take to get to the point i should be......I know your not a Dr. lol but i take it you do them so im just hoping you wont say its to late or it will take what seems like forever......I never thought about the kegs just heard they are what you should do before you become preg so you dont leak like when you sneeze. That bullet toy sounds like just what i need.....and thanks for the other suggestions all sound like they will do the trick.....I CANT WAIT Im so into this site im glad i found it. THANKS

    Hotnhrny

  16. Thanks for answering. I guess once I log on more often and read and post more I will get the gist of this site better. After it was pointed out about reasons why pics maybe used here I can fully understand......I really didnt think about peoples jobs etc......thought more of it like once everyone got to know eachother were pics shared.

    Anyway I believe it was Mikayla (sorry if im wrong on that) that said her pic is her avatar. That is a cool pic and i was going to ask if it was a real photo or not but didnt want to seem to forward for my first day. Dont get me wrong im not bi or anything but that pic is how can i say.....daring but without showing to much. Bet all the guys go ga ga over that pic (maybe gals too) anyway just wanted to say cool pic and I bet you didnt change as much as you think in 8 yrs. Thanks for your reply.

    Hotnhrny

  17. I have read the toy reviews on this site.....that gal who writes most of them is very good at detailing all about the toy.....so i guess this question goes out to her since she wrote so many reviews.....but if anyone else reads this and can offer advice please do so.

    I have always had a what i consider good sex life.....one thing is that I cant cum during intercourse i know thats not as uncommon as i thought it was......also i dont seem to be able to have multi Os takes me awhile to get worked up enough to cum again right after first time.

    Im looking for a toy to use vaginally that will help with g spot O.....and just plain old give me a good O while its working on me.....clit stim seems to be only way I can get off and I want more much more.

    If you need anymore info as into what would help pick out best toy for me just ask

    Thanks

    HOT N HRNY

  18. Gals do you mind when you man looks at other women? Im not talking like a glance or maybe a comment like shes pretty......Im talking like you are sitting next to him and if its on t.v. or in person your man comments like he is hanging out with his best buds. Something like Wow she is built so hot.....or look at the tits on her I see her headlights are on. I wouldnt mind banging that......If I could hit that she would be in heaven......Comments like this gals.....I am a very secure women but I mean comeon my EX use to make comments like that and I found it very very disrespectful.....it wasnt like I had asked honey what do you think of that one. He would just blurt out this crap at the wrong times. I know hes not dead he has every right to look as well as I but would you put up with such crap from hubby or Bf? Now you know one of the reasons he is now my EX......LOL

    Hey if any guys read this share your side of this.....why do some of you tend to do this if you say youre happy with who you are with? What if your gal did this to you?

    THANKS

    HOT-N-HRNY

  19. Hello again wow I am on a roll here posting for my first day LOL. I was just searching all the good and interesting parts this site has to offer and in reading some of the bios I see there are a few advanced memebers here as well as regular. Have you ever shared pictures? Not talking dirty ones mind you just simple one to match face with name.....or do you all find it better to have each person you talk to here made up one way in your mind? Just curious didnt know if pics are posted here or ever were.

    Thanks

    HOTNHRNY

  20. Hello to all,

    I am new to this forum so please be kind forgive me if what I may ask seems odd or rather stupid. Let me start off by telling you all that im a 34yr old female. I just broke off a almost yr long relationship with a man who in bed was great but I found as we went on there wasnt much more of him to offer me.

    That brings me here. As I wrote in the title of this topic I am now back in the game so to say, Since I have been out of the dating game for almost a yr I feel rusty. Example the other day friends and I were out and about and one said you do know that cute guy was hitting on you right? I was clueless. So one of my questions to start off here is how does one know when they are being hit on? I know if a guy is being very forward about what he wants but what are the signs of the not so forward guys? Again forgive if this seems silly especially for a woman my age but since I am not the type to make the first move I dont want to find out that while im sitting thinking im not interesting enough I find out too late that I couldve had a shot.

    thanks HotnHrny

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