[Hm...]

Thank you for your feedback and help. =D

And yes, I have orgasmed before. Masturbation was a common occurance for me. However, orgasming has become increasingly harder. I thought that I might just need a bit of change, so I bought the sex toys. As I said in my last post, those didn't seem to help much either.

I bought a double bullet, for clit and vaginal stimulation. A g-spot vibe and a mini-vibe. The double bullet was closest to getting me to orgasm out of the three.

[Hm...]

I purchased my first toy a few weeks ago, and it didn't really do the job, so I decided to buy two more, thinking that one of them would be as orgasm inspiring as everyone on the website seems to be claiming sex toys are. However, no matter what, I can't seem to orgasm by using sex toys.

Any ideas?

[Non-piercing Jewelry]

Thanks for all your replies. It has really given me a lot to think about. I appreciate all your input.

I have a high tolerance for pain--had all three children totally natural, have had ear infections and hardly noticed them until I started getting dizzy (doctor said he didn't know why I wasn't crying in pain), live with constant arthritis pain from a broken ankle, etc. I'm OK with a routine too, of keeping it clean.

I have read though that the recovery time can be up to a month for a clitoral piercing, but it didn't say if sex was not recommended during that time, or what. That in itself is a consideration, too. May sound like a stupid question, but it is something that I've been wondering about.

And the scars are a consideration I had not thought of. Thanks, again, for pointing that out.

I must admit, I don't know for sure if sex would be an option while a clitoral piercing was in the process of healing. Though, I would imagine that the movements would irritate the piercing. However, I doubt that would be the case for the entire month. Sex would probably be fine after about two weeks, so long as you cleaned the piercing thoroughly afterward and made your best attempt not to jar it too much.

[Masturbation(i Know, Horribly Un-original)]

How often does everyone masturbate? I honestly haven't done it in years, but as a teen I was almost always doing it twice or three times a day. My most ever was five times in one day, I had phone sex with about three different girls, plus I was just horny.

So how many times a day do you do it? Any favorite places to do it? Riskiest place you have ever masturbated? Strangest?

COME ON PPL!!! 25 views and not one post? Nobody will fess up to how they fly solo?

I used to do it at least once a night, but my "me" time has dwindled down to a mere once a week most of the time.

My favorite place to masteerbate would probably be the bathtub. There is just something completely relaxing about that setting, and just makes it so much better. =D

Riskiest place I've ever done it was the back of a classroom when I was in high school. I sat in the back corner by myself, so it was easy to go undetected. That was a one-time thing though.

[What Do You Use To Masturbate With?]

Erotic short stories -- what can I say, I love to read! Hehe Otherwise, my imagination.

I am the same way. I love a good erotic short-story, but most of the time it's just me and my imagination. =P

[Non-piercing Jewelry]

I have seen nipples be pierced, and they are very painful.

My sister worked at a tattoo parlor for about two-three years a while back, so naturally, I visited the store often. I witnessed countless intimate piercings, and to catagorize them as 'painful' and 'painless' is almost impossible.

The piercing experience is different for every individual. Some say it completely painless... these individuals usually have a high pain tolerence, while others say it was almost unbearable, and obviously have a low tolerence for pain. So, if you are truly considering getting any intimate piercings, you might want to ask yourself a few questions beforehand:

What kind of tolerence do you have to pain? Even if you have a low tolerence, you can still get it done. Just be prepared for the pain.

Will you be adament about cleaning and/or care? Cleaning and caring for piercings daily seems like an easy concept, but some people (aka me) tend to slack on it. This is not a good thing. I have a piercing right now that is causing some major difficulties. And really, who wants an infected nipple? So, consider whether you are a person who adjusts easily to routine and if you are willing to take on the hassle of cleaning and/caring for your piercing.

If you decide to remove it later on, will you mind the scar? Ah, the wise words of my mother. I first got my navel pierced when I was 17 and took it out after an infection (I learned a few piercings later that I was allergic to the metal that particular parlor used, which is another thing to consider) and was left with a scar much bigger than I initially imagined. For the first three years it was extremely noticable and looked horrible. After that, it slowly started to fade but you can still see it. When I first got piercings, I didn't think I'd care about scars but that was then and I know better now. Unless you are completely certain that it won't bother you, I'd hold off.