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  1. 2Twisted. First, we try very very hard here to not judge when it comes to sexual preferences. There are lines that are common sense & some legally, that are permanantly carved, no, dug deep into the sand of being in a civilized world. We are human, and most of us parents as well. It's hard not to think that someone at the age of 7 can give consent to place an order at a restaurant, let alone have sex. There's a level of maturity, or lack thereof, that a 7 yr old, no matter how "advanced" for their age, has. We're not judging YOU. Speaking for myself, I am more shocked and angered by the boy that did that to you. Call it being protective, not judgmental.

    I was raped when I was 6. I had no idea it was rape at the time. My mother's friend's son thought it'd be fun to play doctor. What did I know? Nothing. We played doctor. I got a FULL exam. At the time, all I knew is that it hurt for some reason. I didn't realize until I was 13 that I had actually been raped.

    I don't tell many people that, but it's just an example of how little children, and yes, my dear, you were a child, don't know about the world of sex. Yes, they touch themselves, cuz it feels good. But children aren't able to fully comprehend what it truly means to have sex, what goes on, and the things that can happen cuz of it. Children have a hard time grasping cause and effect. They learn that in stages.

    As far as cutting. I haven't ever gotten off or had someone get off by making me bleed, or seeing someone else bleed either. Those things also progress deeper and deeper. Rarely does it ever stay at the same level of what you're talking about. Obviously, it's your choice to do what you want, but you have a child in the house, and sooner or later, they will ask why you have a huge bandage on your stomach/arm/leg, where ever, and wonder why y'all had to go to the ER for stitches. Just something to think about.

    i understand where you are all comen from. and tiger i have 2 children they are 2 and 4 but yes we do have a save word but it never gets to intense and i have been like this since i was 14 and when i got with my hubby when i was 17 we kept doen it we never cut to deep just like you would have a scratch on your arm or leg, etc, but my kids cant find the scratches because you would have to { pardon my french} get completely naked and look really close and i mean up close at my body to find them.

    my children will never find out cause i never gave them a reason to question anything that me or my husband do yes they are little and yes they will ask tons of questions but they wil never ask about that.

    and my husband did not rape me and he was not the one to start up the entire thing between me and him at such a young age.

    i hope you all would try to compre hend that hole blood turn on thing but i understand that it is something that is hard to understand that some one as a child could do somethen like that. to another child unless they was done the same way but i am telling you tyger and evereyone else nothing like that ever happened to me like what you all are talken about.

  2. <_< I am certianly not qualified to give professional advice but, IMHO, and in total agreement with others who have responded to your post I do agree with them in believing that you would benefit from counseling. If you can't afford it, there are programs offered through United Way and others such as colleges on a sliding scale or completely free of charge. If you go, and it's not for you, you have lost nothing. However, if you go and find it is for you, you could gain everything. If you never go, you will never know either way.

    Poon

    ok ok ok i will go but i don't see the point in it at all

  3. <_< I am certianly not qualified to give professional advice but, IMHO, and in total agreement with others who have responded to your post I do agree with them in believing that you would benefit from counseling. If you can't afford it, there are programs offered through United Way and others such as colleges on a sliding scale or completely free of charge. If you go, and it's not for you, you have lost nothing. However, if you go and find it is for you, you could gain everything. If you never go, you will never know either way.

    Poon

    ok ok ok i will go but i don't see the point in it at all

  4. mikayla and howard

    to say the most exactly the leeast we enjoy all the things pleasureable and to some what i like i like i can't help that

    and it ain't like everyday we cut each other and we don't cut each other deep we don't need to and for the 7 year old thing that was what i wanted to happen and i never got abused sexualy or within that nature you don't necesarily have to have sexual abuse to try somethen new and then like it after you have done it and my children does not know anything and they don't see the cut {s}

    so my children are fine but i am just starten to think that this forum actualy judges instead of being open tothings that are reality you know and that is a turn on for others.

    everyone likes diffrent things some morethan others it just depends how far you are willen to go to pleasure your self and your mate

    but i think every one should let the 7 year old thing go becasuse no he didn't rape me no i was not sexualy assualted and no i was never raped

    i am not screaming so please don't take this as screaing i am just trying to get my point across about those subjects

  5. Oh, my! There are several options for that price range!! My best suggestion would be to go to the product search, and pull up vibrators. You can choose price range too. That way you can see for yourself what's here. 2 of my faves are my glass blue swirl dildo (I think about $22), which I did a review for, and my Infinite Pleasures Kit, which is under $40. Lots of cool toys with that one. The Dual Action Remote Bunny Vibe is great too. They just reduced the price of that to about $50, I believe.

    You can check the items as you go, and see the product reviews too.

    Searching is half the fun!!

    Good luck! Let us know how you make out!!

    ok thanks tyger that helps i was wonderen about the dual actionremote bunny vibe

  6. When I was going out with one of my most recent ex's, not that I have that many, But, I've always known her to be very "wild" in that area of life, when we were friends she would play around by biting my ear every once in a while to flirt with me and let me know she was interested, we had some casual sex as friends, and than she got with this guy, after that she was interested in me, and I have always been interested in her. Anyway, we were dating, and she was staying over at my house for the weekend, that weekend when she left, my cousin came over, and thougtht I had been mugged, I had a 1.5 " high bruise type thing from her biting me on my neck and painful looking hickeys all over me. I have always known girls to scrape and bite and stuff more than guys, but I liked it until the pain just got too much, I can stand pain, but pain when I am having foreplay or intercourse, is kind of not cunductive to fun sex. Unless of course, you like pain, which i dont, anyway, I have noticed that some girl like to inflict pain, some arent really interested in it, and some like to recieve it,there was this girl I was good friends with, in my later part of high school, we would always flirt when we were single, well one day, we were roughing aound waiting for the teacher, I am legally blind, so I was going to this school for the blind and physcially handicapped, anyway, i went to push her against the wall, coz i knew she liked it when i was rough with her, I guess I did it a little too hard than I meant to, she slammed against the wall, it cracked where she was, and this girl was not petite but not large at all, well, her eyes went back into her head, she moaned a whisper, something noone could here, and slumped back sitting against the wall, with a face that looked like it belonged to a porn star, later she told me that she came from that, I dont know if she was lying or not, I belived her since she was my friend tho.

    hi chacious and welcome i am 2twisted

    listen some girls like it really rough and hard some like being tossed around some like being hit some even like being cut. i myself and my honey we ocasionaly cut each other and both of us get off becasue to us pain is pleasure it is some what hard to explain but if she said she came then she did it just depends what the person likes and is interrested in so many people like so manythings that it is unreal you could got to the fetish part which is where you posted and look at the bondage and the other things on the site people now a days are into so manythings and are into so much pain but to them it is not really pain it is pleasure it is hard to believe but it is true just look through the fetish pages and the bondage pages and you will see that to some people pain is peasure.

    people can chamge pain to pleasure in an instant no matter the situation that they are in it will just turn either way and to you it might be pain but to her it could get her off faster than you can snap your fingers.

    hope thos helped 2twisted

  7. <_< I'm not sure what is being refered to as masterbating but niether me nor anyone I was friends with at that age "masterbated" in what I would call the true sense of the word. If playing doctor or "I'll show you mine, if you'll show me yours" is considered masterbating then yes we did.

    What country were you raised in, I'm curious because if you were sold to another mans son...............

    i am from america it is just that my family moved to afganistan when i was 2 then when i was 7 we came back here and i went to school here then i met a young boy then that is when it all happened becasue the way my family believes is that if you are contaminated or not a virgin in anyway mouth or other wise you are un clean and you have to be gave to the person that you lost it to but in our case it was really wierd becasue my parents waited till iwas 16 and then they didn't care and then me and my honey found each other again and we e mailed each other and i came back to the us and have been liven here ever since and he would masterbate like any other guy would not the ill show you mine if you show me yours thing but my parents didn't really sale me it is hard to explain becasue i have a really wierd background

    becasue where i was liven in afganistan i picked up there religion beliefs and there female habbits in a way so to speak i know it is hard to understand on how it happened and it is hard to believe that it actualy happened to some one but when you are raised in a diffrent country for so long there believes and other things grow on you but yet you are still stuck with what you was taught. i hope you understand where i am comen from.

    and when i was in afganistan i was gonna be sold to another mans son but they found that i was not a virgin and that i was tampered with so i din't and that is why all of the things has happened to me before i moved back here you know with all the abusive relationships and everything becasue afganistan men believe in beating there woman and keeping them straigh so to speak but i hope this has helped in trying to answer your questions.

  8. well i was just wondering has anyone went to extremes when you use toys like things you wouten normaly do or use like daggers, things in that line

    becasue me and my honey we see cut into each other like a small cut on the stomach or arm and it is like an instant orgasm and he instantly gets off

    i know it sound odd but just thought i would get a little feed back on anyones thoughts

  9. There's a better chance of getting a clit stimulator at that price than a really good vibrator for that price. Just like with anything else, quality usually costs more. Don't forget shipping and handling costs too. I've had a couple of "under $20 vibes" before (not from here though), and found them lacking. That's just me though.

    well it is just that i have payed up to 50 to 80 bucks and as u said it lacked so much it was unreal and my friend did the same thing

    well let me ask you this what would be the best thing to get with the best penatration under 50 but not includen s/h

  10. FIrst, I'm sorry to hear about the bad things that you've been thru, and I'm happy you're happy now.

    However, I will disagree with you on your opinion that most men (not all, but most) like to seclude their women for control and abuse. There ARE men out there that do that, it's true. But I don't think, and speaking from personaly experience, that most men are like that. I've been in and out of relationships (most long-term) for about 20 years (married now though). I've only had ONE majorly controlling man, which I dropped really quickly.

    I find it sad that you're so young with such a negative outlook on men. Yes, you do hear a lot about the bad relationships. True true. But people generally talk more about the negative than the positive.

    I'm hear to tell you that there ARE men out there, probably very much like your honey you're with now, that are caring, loving, giving, and want to have equal partners in a relationship. Take a look around, just to see, that there are some nice guys out there, you just need to give them a chance.

    Gender roles are changing. Men aren't looking for a woman they can control and take care of (for the most part). Women usually aren't looking for a man to take care of their every need either. For those people that want it the "old fashioned way", IMO, have a better chance of getting a bit more abusive so things can go THEIR way.

    well tyger

    i understand where you are comen from my honey is trying to get me to understand the same thing it is just i have had this problem ever since i started goen out with guys which was 8 years old i know 8 is kinda wierd age to go out dateing people.

    but anyways i have went through so many bad relationships that it is hard to see the good in any man i am not tryen to put any guys down it is just i have benn fu**** so many times it is hard to see the good guys even at first it was hard to see the good in my honey plus i am very not willing to trust i trust my honey but that is it no noe else i have had so many things happen to me {which i won't give you the sob story} but it is really hard for me to trust and look at other guys as a good guy even though they might be a good guy you know i hope you understand where i am comen from.

    2twisted

  11. No, I have always used sex as a fun, erotic, tension relieving, pleasurable experience. I am wondering if you are so unhappy in your life that you have to get the high from sex to make things feel better. As is obvious, having sex releases hormones and chemicals that can feel very euphoric - and this feeling is what draws you in.

    In all honesty (and I do not want to be rude here) when a person is in a bad relationship that they can't get out of, and then they continue to have sex with that person to "get away" indicates that you separate emotion from sex to the extreme. Most women who are in abusive or bad relationships will not want to have a lot of sex with that person.

    I think the bigger question here is, why did YOU use sex like a drug and are you still?

    Mikayla :huh:

    when i was 15 i was in a really bad abusive relationship we both physicaly fought each other and we both argued a lot but ever since i got married it has been heaven to me it useto be a numing thing with the sex just to zone out and get away from all the pain and aggrvation of fighting but like i said i actualy enjoy it with my honey he tough me that not all men are bad and that you can actualy love someone without arguen or physicaly fighten.. but when i got married my honey knew everything about my past and he helped me see that sex is for people that is in love and can enjoy the touch and caress of one another but after i got out of that relationship i waited till i was 17 and i got with my honey and ever since then it has been heaven it truly has i actualy had an orgasm with my honey and i never had one before

    but the reason i was posten it was to kinda get people to open up a little if they have ever been done like that just to hear there succes stories and there changes you know hopefuly you can understand where i am comen from asken this question.

    because most men not all but most are actualy like that and they seclude there woman ad abuse them and everything under the sun and most don't understand the word NO but i found that there is some one that will be able to love you no matter what kinda past you have them type of men don't care but i was just hoping that some one could share a succes story becasue that would help them out a lot because it helped me

  12. THe fact is, 2twisted, that 7 year old girls just DO NOT find it interesting or exciting to suck on another guy's cock! While kissing and light fondling is very common with younger kids, i.e. playing doctor, to actually want to perform oral or have sex that young indicates sexual abuse. You may be repressing the memory, but I suspect you were sexually abused by someone, and that is what gave you the idea to perform oral sex on him.

    7 year old girls play house and barbie, they do not solicit their male friends into sexual acts - it is just a fact of life. You may not think you need counseling, but you do. You need to find out what caused you to do this - and then to become HIGHLY promiscuous (105 partners before you were 20!) and get pregnant at 17 - which is still young in today's society.

    All of this screams sexual abuse - whether you want to admit it or not. I am glad you are happy with your hubby, but you have to understand if you indeed did force him to have these sexual encounters with him, it could have damaged him as well. Young boys barely begin masturbating by 6 or 7 - not to mention having sex.

    Let me ask you this, what would you say if you found out your 7 year old daughter was performing fellatio on some neighborhood boy? If you wouldn't be horrified, then you have greater problems than your past tragedies!

    Mikayla

    i actualy never played with babrbies or doll houses my toys was how do you say a lot diffrent hten what girls would normaly play with which was swords guns knives things like that because i am a tomboy type have been eversince i was born i was raised in a very highly christian home there was no sexual abuse there was only dirty magazines and little kids wanting to experament with things and to me and him both there was no damage done at all and he started masterbating at a younger age than 6 or 7 try 4 to 5 i know it is a little hard to believe but the way he was raised and i was raised would probebly wierd everyone on this board out completely

    and i would be horrified if i found my 7 year old girl was doen somethen like that but only thing is that my kids would not be raised like i had to be raised.

    in my family you more or less got sold to another mans son to be wed at 16 and there would be no way out of it unless something searious happened but plus me and him was really wanting to experament and try things out you have got to admit there is a big change since 1992 in most lives of people no a days but i am not trying to make up excuses for the actions that happened i am just trying to prove a slite point.

    but to my knowledge and to my honeys we are perfectly happy and fine infact we sometimes look back on it and laugh and kinda glad that it happened i know it sounds wierd but it is true.

  13. THe fact is, 2twisted, that 7 year old girls just DO NOT find it interesting or exciting to suck on another guy's cock! While kissing and light fondling is very common with younger kids, i.e. playing doctor, to actually want to perform oral or have sex that young indicates sexual abuse. You may be repressing the memory, but I suspect you were sexually abused by someone, and that is what gave you the idea to perform oral sex on him.

    7 year old girls play house and barbie, they do not solicit their male friends into sexual acts - it is just a fact of life. You may not think you need counseling, but you do. You need to find out what caused you to do this - and then to become HIGHLY promiscuous (105 partners before you were 20!) and get pregnant at 17 - which is still young in today's society.

    All of this screams sexual abuse - whether you want to admit it or not. I am glad you are happy with your hubby, but you have to understand if you indeed did force him to have these sexual encounters with him, it could have damaged him as well. Young boys barely begin masturbating by 6 or 7 - not to mention having sex.

    Let me ask you this, what would you say if you found out your 7 year old daughter was performing fellatio on some neighborhood boy? If you wouldn't be horrified, then you have greater problems than your past tragedies!

    Mikayla

    i actualy never played with babrbies or doll houses my toys was how do you say a lot diffrent hten what girls would normaly play with which was swords guns knives things like that because i am a tomboy type have been eversince i was born i was raised in a very highly christian home there was no sexual abuse there was only dirty magazines and little kids wanting to experament with things and to me and him both there was no damage done at all and he started masterbating at a younger age than 6 or 7 try 4 to 5 i know it is a little hard to believe but the way he was raised and i was raised would probebly wierd everyone on this board out completely

    and i would be horrified if i found my 7 year old girl was doen somethen like that but only thing is that my kids would not be raised like i had to be raised.

    in my family you more or less got sold to another mans son to be wed at 16 and there would be no way out of it unless something searious happened but plus me and him was really wanting to experament and try things out you have got to admit there is a big change since 1992 in most lives of people no a days but i am not trying to make up excuses for the actions that happened i am just trying to prove a slite point.

    but to my knowledge and to my honeys we are perfectly happy and fine infact we sometimes look back on it and laugh and kinda glad that it happened i know it sounds wierd but it is true.

  14. I too am curious...7 is EXTREMELY young to have any type of serious sexual contact. Was this guy older? Where did you get the idea to do this? Did you give HIM the oral or him you? You had SEX at 7??? That is child rape - I can not believe that any girl would find that acceptable or pleasurable at 7!!!! Why did you marry this man? Did you ever seek counseling? Did it happen more than once?

    Honey, I think you obviously have some issues that are way beyond what we can help with here. You may be married to this man, but you will never forget loosing your innocence at 7. Seek some help.

    Mikayla

    no he was only 7 to 8 the same as me are parents hiden away porn magazines i gave him oral it was our first time and like i told howard and pootang i kinda pushed him into it he was really hesatant i married him becasue i love him and i am glad it happened i know it was a young age but in my family you get gave away to another person to get married to it is kindA like an arranged marriage type of thing and we both didn't want to let each other go so i talked him into it and it happened and plus i have 2 wonderful children by this man and i wouten trade those moments for anything in the world i knowit sounds wierd but thatis how it happened no one forced anyone to do anything we just fell into it but in a way i am glad we did becasue we now look back at it and laugh at it and that is it.

  15. I am curious. How old is your husband, and what affect did this behavior on his part have on you at such a young age? Have you received counseling for being sexually assaulted? At that age, even kids have to have something wrong with them to have intercourse and oral sex with a 7 year old. Has he gotten counseling? If not, why not? I hope you realize that until he gets help, he is likely to continue to be a treat to other children, including his own. That is just the facts about these guys. Some can stop if they get counseling and therapy, but without it, they only get worse.

    Howard

    to howard 4570 and pootang

    no one forced me to do it and i kinda pushed my honey into it because i was intreaged about it so i wanted to try it and i pushed him into it but we look at it now as something that is funny i am 20 and he is 22 years old we both disagree with counselors because why go to someone and tell them all that happened knowing you did it of your own free will and like i said before i did it to him he didn't do it to me and both of us was curious so but he was hesatent at first but in a way it has brought us closer together i know it sounds wiered but it is true we both look back at it and laugh and then go on we don't think nothen of it and HE IS A GOOD FATHER TO HIS CHILDREN they are 2 and 4 and he would never do anything to harm them cause i know him like i know the back of my hand we was just young kids that seen magazines that are parents hiden away and we was intreaged by it and wanted to try it out that is all no we both don't need counseling at all

  16. im not sure if i worded this right before, i wanted to know if anyone has ever used the remote control egg

    im really thinking about purchasing one but i dont want to make a mistake if its not worth it.

    so my good people here at tootimid please help. :huh:

    i have 4 of them and i love them but it just depends on your body type and the way you are set up is witch one you would actualy want to buy if i was you i would go fishen around on this site and other ones just to fine one that suits your fancy and then try and see if you can get any feed back on it and you can go from there cause there are really good ones plus really bad ones for certain body types

    so good luck and happy hunting

  17. I agree so much when it comes to anal sex!! I do have to say that I have to use a lube and anal eaze. I have so tried without and I find it way to painful to get it in without. But OMG I have had some amazing orgasams through anal sex!! I sugest everyone trying it at least once. Don't knock it until you try it!!!

    i agree with both of you anal it feels really good plus yet kinda exciting for some men and woman my honey loves given me anal it gets him off quicker so that we could four play a lot more yay yay.

  18. i really don't know where this would go so i posted it here..

    has anyone ever used sex as a drug just to space out or get away from things.

    well the reason is i was in one of those realtionships that you couten get out of or get away from and i would use sex as a getaway drug that would kinda space me out away from everything

    {this was before me and my honey got together}

  19. i gave my first oral when i was 7

    lost virginity when i was 7

    i have had more partners than i could count and i stopped at 105 but that is split between men and woman

    but the wierd thing is the one i lost my virginity to and gave oral to is the one

    i am married to today and couten be more happier

    i am 20 and i have been married since i was 18

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