[For All You Sexy Men]

I guess I am just the typical guy. I love sex, foreplay, light bondage. My fantasies have pretty much all been met by Mikayla. What I like to do or have done in bed is this:

I love to have a slow night, where she and I can kiss and caress and fondle each other before any "sex" happens. I love to move between her legs and feel her wetness that I know is just for me. Fingering and licking at her pussy and hearing the dirty words come from her mouth because I have her so horny and she loves what I am doing so much. Sliding my fingers into her pussy one at a time until I get to 3 and then finding that G-Spot and feeling the gush of liquid on my face! Hearing her beg me to stop so she can suck my cock and ride me.

Then, when she gets to my cock she sucks and licks it like it is the best thing ever. Taking it ALL the way down her throat, teasing me with a nibble or two, using her hands and fingers to play with me all over. This gets me so hot I beg her to fuck me. When she climbs on top, her huge breasts bouncing for me and I can grab those nipples and hold her hips as she grinds on me just enjoying the pleasure of being taken while I rub her clit hard with my fingers is the best ever! If we change positions, I love to get her in doggy style and pound her so hard I can feel my cock bottoming out in her pussy. Then, if she obliges, sliding my cock into her ass and hearing her moan in joy - with perhaps a vibrator in her pussy as well. The orgasms are secondary to the immense joy I get from just being with her!

My fantasy is just to keep having hot sex with my wife! I guess there is not much more for me than that!

MM

To Mikayla's~Man*'

You seem very loyal to your wife's desires which in itself is sexy. Thank you for you input.

[For All You Sexy Men]

This is a question for the guys...

What do you guys want your SO (or some woman) to do to you in bed; or what do you wish you could do to her???

Im curious to what ever your fantasies are and why. I would like to get a better idea of what goes on in the mind of a man during sex.

[Keeping My Sanity In A Long Distant Relationship]

I am sorry to say, Great Sex is NOT going to keep a relationship going in itself. Absense does make the Heart grow fonder, but it also contributes to a high level of FRUSTRATION! For both people. There is no guarantee that a relationship is going to last, if one of the parties simply decides that he/she can't keep going on with this relationship, and chooses to stop.

Are you doing anything wrong? I don't think so, but you haven't told us much to go on. Its great that you have sex everytime you get together, but there needs to be more, both in the sex, and in the relationship. Do you talk to him about what he likes-- ie., how he likes to be pleasured? Does he ask you how you like to be pleasured? Sex is a continuing process of self-discovery for both of you together, and as long as each of you is asking, and trying new things, the sex is probably going okay.

Tell us more about what else the two of you have in common, and what you do together with your clothes on. You mention that you send him salacious messages: does he send them to you, too? Does he still flirt with you when you are together, and do you flirt with him? When you do talk, does he want to hear about your life? And, does he tell you about his day/life? Does he tell you about comments that his friend/family make about his spending every free weekend with you? If someone tells him a compliment about you, does he pass it on? Do you share comments made by your friends about him with him?

Besides groaning together, do you both spend a lot of your waking hours laughing and smiling together?

Those are some of the kinds of questions I would want answered before I would venture to suggest you are headed in the right direction with this man.

In the meanwhile, please remember that none of us is promised tomorrow. Enjoy the time you have with someone who cares about you. If the relationship is going to grow, someone is going to have to take steps to close the physical distance between the two of you, so that the current weekend visits can become more of a standard, daily relationship. Othrwise, he's just a traveling salesman who stops off each week for some nookie. I don't think that is what you want. It certainly is not what you deserve. You don't indicate why the two of you are separated, and if its a temporary thing, this will self- correct in time.

Howard

Howard.....

We do talk about what i like and about what he likes when it comes to sex. and we do talk about how our day went....our weekends....he has told me about his past in detail and i talk more about what i want to do in the future. We dont go straight to sex when we see each other.....we go out and eat and we watch movies together and we have both met and hung out with each others families. and to you question about the erotic conversions we have over e-mail....i do most of the talking.....and he just mostly listen.

we dont really talk about what each other friends think about the other. I met his best friend and his fiance....he never mention what they thought about me......i know that his best friend's fiance does not like me...she prooved that during dinner.....people treat our relationship like a disease because im black and he is white. so i think he tries to keep me away from their negative opinions about me (us).

I dont know what my problem is i guess im just afraid he will one day descide he doesn't want to be with me.....i have attributes that scare men....they say i analyze too much and that im too hard on myself....and i know that i like to let him know what im feeling whenever the emotion is strong so there will be no confussion about what i want and i ask many questions so there will be no confussions about what he wants.

does that help you Howard???

[Keeping My Sanity In A Long Distant Relationship]

Ok......I am in a long distant relationship. We get to see each other on the weekends we have off and most times we don't get to spend much time wih each other and because of the long wait of the week we find ourselves both very horny and we make love every time we see each other. I dont want this relationship to be only about sex....yet on the other hand, during the days of our separation we e-mail each other everyday and I usually throw in some dirty talk to keep him interested in this relationship-----to keep him interested in me.

Am I going about this wrong?

Should I slow down on the sex?

I don't want him to think that im all about it....but i don't want him to find sex from another woman.

I'm used to guys dumping me for another.

What should I do???

[Giving Head]

When you are going down on your SO (male) how long should you go? Or does it matter? And will i be able to tell when he ejaculates?

And, I have never swollowed and i dont think he has ever cum while i've given oral, but if i dont like the taste and i feel that im going to barf what do i do so i dont hurt his feelings: I know that if my tast made him sick i would cry.

[I Make Funny Sounds During Sex]

My BF and I were having exciting sex in the 69 position . I tried to crawl down towards his feet then sit on his manhood.....then out of no where....(well not no where).....this annoying and embarrassing farting sound came from me but not my butt hole . I dont think he new that it was not a fart b/c he then wanted me to get up and try another position.

What can you do to avoid those stupid sounds. And if not avoidable, how do i let him know what sounds they are without sounding like a freak of nature(I dont want to do it while making love)....i'm constantly asking him questions to see if im doing something wrong, making sure he likes what i do and now i feel that i've asked too many questions already

WHAT TO DO WHAT TO DO

[Scent Of A Woman]

i think my bf goes down on me because i go down on him. how do i know if my smell bothers him?