[Threesomes In Married Peoples Lives]

My husband and I have been married for a little over three years. We've been together for five years. We discussed threesomes while dating. At that time I was totally against it because I had been left for another woman before by my first bf. My husband knows my first bf, it's kinda hard not to it's his little brother. I at times find myself fat, stupid and unattractive, even to my husband who is by his own description a "chubby chaser". He just asked me two months ago if I would reconcider my stand on threesomes. This was after I found out by snooping about him having an account on a popular adult dating site. He said that he did it for us, not for himself. He has never cheated on me and never wants to ever. He says the threesome would be good for me. I'm having doubts. The idea is not unappealing, as a matter of fact it turns me on. He wants to be able to have sex with us both. He is secure in his love for me and doesn't think this would damage that love. I'm afraide that he will leave me because I think that any woman would be better than me and that he would want to be with the best he can get. He says that he loves me and nothing will change that and that I can set the rules. He even suggested that I try it with another woman alone for the first time or that he can be there only to watch. I don't know what to do. He has not visited his account since I found it. He is leaving this totally up to me. Does anyone have any advice?

threesomes in married life.......no way!