[Need Advice]

I need some advice on how to handle a situation I am in. I am getting married next month to my boyfriend. We have been together for a year and a half and engaged for about a year. Here is a little background. I was married before to someone that I met when I was 20. I am not extremely experienced sexually, at least not until I met my current boyfriend. I have opened up alot with him, but I have only been with a few guys in my life and none of them did things like he does. He on the other hand has had alot of experience including a few threesomes with girlfriends and their friends, and even an ex girlfriend that had sex with a couple of his friends and him. None of this ever bothered me as he has always made me feel like the most important person in the world. Last week he asked me if I would go to bed with a woman. I assumed that he just wanted to pose the question to see if I would like to have a threesome. I immeadiatly said that there is no way. He assured me that he has no need to participate, just that he wants me to have the experience. I have thought about it before and dont really see anything wrong with it. He suggested a girl that I have gotten to know since we met. She is bi-sexaul, and very cute but youuger that me. I have actually held hands with her one time and we kissed another when we were drinking. I am conflicted on this for two reasons. First she is younger and very cute I dont want him to even know about details if I do this. Second she works for my boyfriend. I actually have never felt that she has wanted to do anything, Rather it was me that had flited with her. I just think that if I want to try this I should do it before I am married.

Seems ours started about the same way- odds are hes already touched -tasted and enjoyed this young ladie and is now attempting to put the two of you together- hum- did the same thing- and even now progressed as such- my young beautiful girlfriend told me about how her last boyfriend was havng intercourse wth her and set up his friend to supposedly come in and whatever-maybe a 3some-- however the guy just watched his friend bang my now girlfriend untll he came- then when the guy got up the friend (as she tell me) came over to her and started kissing and tasteing her pussy. She tells me she had control and yes she enjoyed it-and came in his mouth. It does excite me to think about this- and now I've bought some toys and am going to tie her up(my first) Ive got a tape recorder and one of my guy friends(no i wont share) yet- is going to walk throught the entire thing to the point that he says wow look t her wet pussy- you are going to let me sink my cock in her arent you? (tape only) Ive got a expensive dldo i bought just a little larger than I- that i am going to tease her with- I know she wll do a 3some- it would be my first- am i nuts here> thanks

[I Am Scared And Curious! Please Help]

I don't know what to do!

About three weeks ago my husband and I were having sex(we were also wasted) and suddenly he kept asking me if I wanted two cocks in me. It took me awhile to clearly say yes (in the heat of the moment) that I did. So he we went on fantasizing about having another man join us and we were practically arguing (about who was going to be the other man) while we kept doing it and he said he would do it with someone he trusts. He kept asking me who I had in mind and I said I did not know and finally I told him to say a name so that I can cum and he said....his brother! Shockingly, I was thinking of the same person and I really turned me on and came instantly! It was the best sex we had ever had!!!

We did not talk about it until the next day. He told me that it was okay to fantasize about it but he told me we would not take it that far and actually do it, and I said "oh, I know, it is just a onetime fantasy". However, I cannot stop thinking about it. Every time we have sex, I fantasize about him and his brother fucking me at the same time! I do not even like his brother! But I can’t stop picturing both of them.

How can I stop this fantasy? What do I do? Is this even normal??? Help!