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  1. Spit Or Swallow

    in Oral Sex Discussion

    Posted

    because she found oral sex to be something foul. So what! She has the right to that feeling. She earned it.

    It's a two way street just as anything else in this world, Howard. He asked, she said no. And he says divorce. WTF is that? Hasn't it been written here over and over, you shouldn't want to just please yourself, that your partner feelings also matter.

    It also seems to me it was almost a forced sexual situation on a woman who didn't find doing that her style. Forcing a women to choose, sucking or divorce. Like saying; Fuck or die? Which is it? Some say a wife can't be raped by her husband.. Maybe not but in some cases, I would have to say other wise here.

    Beside, I never said oral sex was nasty. The marriage bed is undefiled between husband and wife. If they choose to have kinky sex, then it's not a sin nor is it to have plain ordinary sex. God gave us that right.

    May that guys dick fall off! :P

    You're right. She has the right to feel that way. He does also. Sex is about pleasing your partner, him included. And he did not force her to choose, he laid it out that was what he needed. She chose not to, and he found a partner willing to give him what he wanted.

    Oral sex is not imho "kinky" it's a natural part of sex play.

    And saying that you hope his dick fell off is pretty harsh.

  2. Wife Wont Let Me Do Anything

    in Marriage and Committed Relationships

    Posted

    I have to agree with Howard, something is making her find natural acts "disgusting". If she won't open up and tell you why and be willing to work on it, then maybe she will with a neutral counselor.

    You tell us this:

    But she does not want to try anything but intercouse. Sex for us only takes about 10 minuites there is really no foreplay at all. I dont understand why she doesnt want to try anything else

    She only wants straight intercourse, no foreplay, no handjobs, does not want oral, will not try anything else.

    That speaks to me that she and you need to explore what's going on. Otherwise expect her to just have intercourse with you.

    There is so much more that she's denying herself the pleasure of and you.

    If it were me I'd make an appointment for a counselor.

  4. Spit Or Swallow

    in Oral Sex Discussion

    Posted

    I find it sad and limiting when lovers stop short of encompassing everything that involves pleasure between each other.

    We were talking about blow jobs the other night, and my husband said to me "Do you know how many guys can't even get their partners to give them a blow job once in a while, let alone on a regular basis? Because they love doing it?"

    He said he's so damn lucky. I'm so happy that I have the luck of a man that not only loves me giving him one, but sings my praises days later. That makes me feel like a million bucks. :wub:

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  5. Spit Or Swallow

    in Oral Sex Discussion

    Posted

    I like this woman and how she thinks..

    I don't do either. Neither does hubby and I don't expect him to. I do oral from time to time but never really enjoyed it performed on me, maybe because his tongue isn't rough enough to fell it... lol

    I can't imagine swallowing anything of the sort. I don't like pre-cum at all. It's cold and slimy..... I would gag at the thought even or gag watching it done on film...

    I just prefer not do do it. Hubby has never ask me do do such. I'm the one who first suggested oral in our relationship and from time to time I will do oral.

    More power to all who shallow and power to those of us who don't. :D

    I have never experienced pre cum to be cold or slimy. But then again when he's in my mouth he isn't cold or slimy either ;)

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  13. Cannot Orgasm!

    in Ask A "Sexpert"

    Posted

    I think you need to get past whatever it is in your head that's blocking you. If you can learn what it takes for you to get off then that's half the battle. He can't know unless you tell him or show him and you have so it's not that.

    How about you masturbate and let him assist in other ways. You control your own fingers or toy and let him just play with other areas. Maybe that will work for you.

  14. What Does This Mean

    in Ask A "Sexpert"

    Posted

    Well, as far as her masturbating for the first time, it may be so. Maybe she has or does it more and just is too embarrassed to talk about it with you. I've done it ever since the first time I found out how great it felt. My husband knows I do, he helps me out most times. ;)

    Whatever it was on the DVD apparently did it for her, and she liked it.

    It doesn't mean she's bisexual because what she saw on it did it for her. If I had to guess it was because she finds oral hot and would probably welcome more of it from you. Maybe she's just to embarrassed to ask you for it, which she shouldn't be.

    Most of not all women love getting oral sex. I know I do :lol: I think she just really wants it and fantasizes about herself getting it and saw it brought to life on the screen is all.

    Go down on her more, incorporate that as part of your foreplay on a regular basis and see if that helps. I bet she thanks you for it and will gladly return the favor.

  16. Here Is A Real Question!

    in Beginners, post your questions here

    Posted

    Well, I want the most pleasure for my man that he can possibly have. It doesn't matter to me what he wants me to do to help make it better and I like being in control sometimes.

    I tease him all the time and tell him I'm going to tie him down, but that situation would only entail play that I know he really loves. I wouldn't come at him with a 6" dildo if it's not something we've done before or if he never expressed an interest in it.

    We both love anal when he's giving it to me, :P and he likes some stimulation on his balls and underneath them, but no I wouldn't tie him down and sodomize him.

    Does your man like anal? Has he ever done it before? If he hasn't imho I wouldn't do that. I would hate it being done to me.

    ETA: Does he ever let you control the sex or does he always do it?

  17. Spit Or Swallow

    in Oral Sex Discussion

    Posted

    Im afraid to swallow. Its just SUPRISING! It gushes into your mouth. I dont really mind the taste, but its also werid to think of swallowing cum. Doenst seem natural. I dont ask him to swallow my vaginal jucies! (which i know he doesnt)

    So when he cums, i let it fall onto him. :(

    Of course he ends up swallowing some of yours it's unavoidable. I think he knows that and if it bothered him he wouldn't be down there in the first place.

    And it is natural to swallow his. Why would you think it's not? Why don't you try to swallow a little until you get used to it.

    I couldn't imagine not swallowing it, to me it's just the natural thing to do.

  18. Question/ Help

    in Beginners, post your questions here

    Posted

    Hi all.

    My hubby is trying to join the site. We get through all the regestration stuff just fine but the site won't let him log in. Any idea what we are doing wrong?? Do we need to wait for TT to aprove him?

    Any help would be apriceated very much.

    Thanks

    Kim

    I would try logging out completely and having him try to log in under his chosen name and password.

    hth

    ETA Are you using the same email address for both accounts to try to log in for registration? Or the same password?

  19. Bullets?

    in General Sex Toy Discussion

    Posted

    I use bullets as a fun addition to both solo and couple play.

    I like them because I'm a direct sensation kinda gal, and a bullet works great for that, among it's versatility.

    I found that for me, I need strong vibrations so I look for bullets that have 2AA batteries.

    They aren't intimidating for a first time user, they're inexpensive and they work. ;)

    I use mine mostly as a clit stimulator and we use it together the same way when we have sex. It fits easily between us and we both love the vibrations. It's also perfect for doggy style sex when hubby's hands are on my hips, I can easily use it.

    If you want to insert it, you can. They are somewhat compact.

    They're inexpensive enough that you can get a few and always have a spare or to use on another part of your own or each other's bodies.

    They are a really fun toy.

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