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  1. I am sorry but I see a red flag here. I think you are very new in this relationship, if I am reading it right, and if that is so it's already headed the wrong way. no pun intended. This guy sounds to me to either be very selfish or untrained in the art of "love making". Please, no I did say sex, thats something you get from a pick up or a prostitute. There is a difference in sex and "lovemaking" and some men don't understand that difference.

    You must talk to him and explain your needs and desire, guide him, show him, teach him what pleases you. Some men JUST SIMPLY DONT KNOW HOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Talk, explain, instuct, teach and love.

    I want to warn you though if he is the selfish type of a guy this WILL ONLY GET WORSE!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He will not get better he will continue to be only concerned about himself and his needs!!!!!!!! Time, love, training, pleading, or begging will NOT change him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  2. Please allow me to say something here as someone who has enjoy his life with many Ladies in the past, but now understands the end is so much closer than the start.

    I have never been one who was afraid explore any avenue of pleasure with a lady, but my taste never involved the same sex. Yes, I have been in 3sums and a few sex parties, but never had the desire for another man. Having said that let me tell you please don't find yourself in my position someday and look back and say if only I had, or if just tried this or that, Forget any labels the people put on others and be true to your own self. Live YOUR life without any REGETS. My Darling to soon you will stand in my shoes. Good luck, good love. Chuck.

  3. I have been envolved with women several years my junior and my senior and NEVER found age to be a problem. I have found and practiced so many many more ways of love making than the straight man/woman fuck.

    I think soooo many men and women get to the point where they just quit giving the effort. So many couples would rather just roll over and go to sleep as to spend the time and effort to enjoy one another. Sometimes one partner will for physical or other reasons lose interest in sex and never consider their partners needs and wants. In todays world so much outside pressure is placed on relationships you MUST work harder than ever to make them last. Couples go to bed tired and with their mind wrapped around everything, but each other reguardless of age they can't give to one another.

    I just think age, size, shape, weight, the economy, the job, or lack of a job, or any of these other commonly blamed problems can not destroy a couple IF they will put each other's needs and desires before their own. It' when we ONLY care about ourself that we begin to get into trouble.

    I guess I better stop rambling you know how old men are, especially those who aren't getting any can be. Just my $.02 Chuck.

  4. From the man's point of view; thank you for soooooo many women absolutely refuse to even try anal. I want to thank you for trying and encourage you to continue. Lub, lub, lub and take it e a s y is normaly the best advise. You are to be commended just stick with it, it'll get easier, Chuck

  5. I'm sorry it's so tough on you Ty. I know how you feel to be without a paycheck. I hope you can work out a way to pay off your lap top. I sure hope you can work things out with your husband. It's so easy for "it to become all about me" when a person is suffering cronic pain. Best of luck, Chuck.

  6. Again Sun, and i say this with love, but I think our darling Chuck wanted advice or thoughts on his physical issue, not insurence. So let's assume he has the best health care money can buy and has no problem getting any treatment he may,or may not need. Chuck, come see me, i'm sure i can get you shooting live ammo again ;)

    Now that's the kinda help I CAN USE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thank you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :D:D

  7. I have been experienceing some problems urinating so the Dr. put me on some meds and I have lost the ability to cum. I still have the climax feeling it's just a dry climax. One of the meds is flowmax and one of the side affects is a decrease in semen. Any thoughts???????????????????????

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