[Help!]

Hello!

so I ask my boyfriend daily when we can hang out. I understand that we both have school, work and family stuff to attend to, but, I haven't seen him in a month! he has time for friends but not me - why?????? I don't wanna go on expensive dates, just dates......

any insights guys?

thank you

maida

okay, why do you think he is your "boyfriend'? it doesnt sound like a "boyfriend" to me, boyfriend implies some sort of commitment, doesnt it?

i dont know how long you have known him, how things have been going,, but as a single mom dating with 3 kids,, ya make time for things you really want to do, and it sounds like, its not you

[Cannot Orgasm With Husband]

I am so frustrated. I cannot orgasm with my husband. I started experimenting with toys to see if it was even possible for me to orgasm. While growing up, I was taught that masterbation was wrong. So I don't like to do it. But I'm able to use the shower head or a small vibrator to get the job done. Sometimes it only takes me 5 minutes, other times it's over an hour!! My husband tries to help me out, but I've only been able to orgasm once while he was in the room. He'll usually leave to room after sex while I use a toy to finish off, or I'll go lay in another room and finish. We've tried using toys during sex, but it seems to me that my hot spot area goes numb or seems to hide when I try to use a vibrator. I've tried focusing on the orgasm, I've tried focusing on how it feels, I've tried everything I can think of but I still cannot climax. We've tried oral, hand stimulation, nothing has worked for me. I feel like crying every time we have sex. I don't want to have sex because I don't feel like there's anything in it for me! That's bad. I want to have the desire to have sex. I'm 29 years old and I'm supposed to be reaching my sexual peak! If this is the peak, I think our marriage will be in trouble in the future.

Someone, anyone, please help me. Please!!

Beleive me, your not the only one!

But, your not reaching your peak yet sweetie, that ususally happens late 30s-40s-50s

i was like this with my Ex-It does depend on how the man "works it" is he hitting your G-Spot? if you've never had a G Spot orgasm, I have found the dildos that are curved are wonderful for this- i bought the glass wand one, for the G-Spot-OMG AWESOME!!!! Also, if mhe is long enough, there is also a cervical orgasm, very deep in the vagina, dildos are good for this too

your in the right place

[What The Hell?]

i hate ppl like that!! i was at a bridal shower this weekend, so for a gift i got a "honey moon" kit with restraints, and blind fold, feather and massage oil...all in good fun....

well of course you have the cheesey bridal shower games, and one was bridal shower bingo, where you fill in what you think she got, and mark it off as she opens it. well...haha..mine was the first gift she opened..and everyone was laughing some thought it was a really cute idea ect...well this one uptight bitch goes real cocky "yeah, well, guess how many ppl put that thing on there bingo sheet" and everyone kind of looked at her, like whats your prob. so me being me, i says to her, " are you married?" she goes "yeah for a year" i said "well, please extend my sincerest apologies to your husband" and walked away

LOL good for you!

some women are so darn jealous!!! Oh well, sucks to be her

[Tell Us About One Of Your Fav. Positions]

I love reverse cowgirl - seems to always get my G-Spot. I also LOVE, LOVE the 'X' position for those slow, teasing nights with lots of great clitoral stimulation! Mmmmmmm

Whats the X position?

[Internet Dating Sites]

I've tried various dating sites in the last few years. I didn't have much luck until I went on singlesnet.com. I met one guy from there and have a friendship with another. I'm now on passion.com. It's sexually based website but I have had more emails, flirts and contacts from there. The better you describe yourself and what you're looking for, the more likely you are to get the type of partner you're looking for. I've refined mine many times.

You might want to try passion.com or singelsnet.com. If you do, let me know what your experience is like. Good luck.

I was married for 17 years, we met at a bar! It was 1979 at the end of the Disco Era.

Anyway,, thats a long story, I do think you can meet someone on Match.com or something, if your in your 20s or 30s, but its just harder to find quality people over 40 anywhere!

Most men that are over 40 and single, are single for a reason

[Internet Dating Sites]

Hi Everyone,

Has anyone had any luck with internet dating sites? This is new to me. I signed up for 3 and so far BUPKISS! The sites, I think, are discouraging to the "good men", too. A few really nice/nice looking guys will "wink", "flirt", whatever the site term is and won't respond back to my response. OR, I keep getting freaks and guys outside of my race despite completing succinct profiles.

Are these sites just for loosers and freaks?

Any thoughts out there?

Thx, - sexualpeak

I havent found any dating sites where there is any one of substance, i've been told its better to join groups with activities, it hasnt worked for me so far though