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  2. Teens On Bc

    in Ask A "Sexpert"

    Posted

    I was raised where my mom and I were best of friends. I told her everything. We even had some sex talks, but when I hit about 13/14 I went wild. I say that, I know it's not as bad as some, but for me it was. I started sleeping with a guy that was almost 20 and only by the grace of God that I did not get pregnant. I think had my mom taken me and gotten me the shot (because you don't have to remember to take it every day at same time) it would have saved her a lot of worry (at least about pregnancy) I have a friend who had a child at 16 because her parents didn't talk to them about sex and give them birthcontrol of any sort. I am going to get my daughter the shot as soon as she's in 9th grade, unless given reason to sooner. There's my $.02 for what it's worth. TNT

  3. Threesome Timing

    in Threesomes...

    Posted

    First of all, No, you are not "over thinking this" it is a HUGE deal in a relationship. If you go onto the forum under the threesomes ( I think is where it is) everyone always is talking about ,for the most part, they did it, and it did not work out (yes, I know, there are some stories of it still working) If you were to ask them though, the majority of the ones that it DID work out for have been in that relationship for a much longer time than 6 months. Threesomes are great in fantasy, but not always what you want in reality. Sex is a very intimate act (as if you didn't know that already :P ) If you are unsure of something...DON'T DO IT!!! A relationship is about communication/respect/and trust. Your man needs to respect your feelings no matter what he wants. So, there's my $.02 worth on the matter, keep us updated. TNT

  4. Breast

    in Ask A "Sexpert"

    Posted

    Speaking of the having kids part, FYI, if people are looking into getting implants. My sister got hers done, and then was unable to breast feed. I just figured that your friend may want to take that into consideration. However, be sure and question the dr. about it, because I don't think that that is supposed to be a factor.

  5. Virgin?

    in Everything Else

    Posted

    " Ok, not sure what type of joking is acceptable"

    To my experience, pretty much everything is okay to post. You may catch some crap for it but that happens with everything. :P Of course, keep in mind, I've only been here since whatever it says under my name...lol.

  6. Facts For Fun

    in Everything Else

    Posted

    Here's a little about me

    I can not...under any circumstance...sit completely still (something is always moving)

    I hate being drunk...think it's a control thing

    I hate backstabbers/bitches (this is guys and girls)

    I used to be really nice and sweet, I don't know what happened

    I love to read romance books

    I love dogs, but don't deal well with puppies that are mine

    I LOVE chocolate....almost better than sex (I said ALMOST...LOL)

    I don't deal well with boredom

    I love looking at houses for sell and test drive cars (even though I can't buy for a loooong time)

    I don't handle money well

    I'm extremely loyal to my friends and family

    My mom is my very best friend

    Can't think of much more right now...

    I really like this one

  7. Submissive/dominant

    in Ask A "Sexpert"

    Posted

    You are 100 percent correct Iha! There are differences between subs/DOMs, S/M, BDSM, switches, playful restraining, etc. I just gave the basic information as this couple is new to playing with domination and submission. There are people, such as myself, who have literally lived 24/7 as a sub to someone. That was completely different than restraint play with my hubby. It is a distinction that not many know about. In the interest of simplicity, I found it easier to go the basic route.

    Can you please explain the difference in laymans terms. I'm not sure i ever realized there was much of a difference. thanks, TNT

  9. Submissive/dominant

    in Ask A "Sexpert"

    Posted

    I need some advice...again. I am a sub ( I'm pretty sure since I don't like to be the dom at all) My problem is that when hubby and I were looking into it, we tried it and he said I can't do it right. Now, I really get excited when I read about it in literotica and here, but I dont' know if I just can't do "it right" or where I'm going wrong. When we have sex, it's good, don't get me wrong ;) . I just want him to do the whole dom thing, but he won't. Is there anyway I can present this without him getting upset or me getting upset for that matter. i'm just now getting more confident with myself sexually and fear that any criticism (not sure if that's the right word) will set me back. Any imput would help, thanks, TNT

  10. Help!

    in Dating and Relationships

    Posted

    Okay, here's my $0.02 for what it's worth and what I can tell from your post. First of all, have you talked to him about this? Communication is the key to a relationship, no matter how old you are or how long you have been together. Secondly, is there something underlying going on? Not knowing more info, I can't really say much more without putting my foot in my mouth...which I am really good at doing...lol. Hope this helps a little,

    TNT

  16. Why Oh Why!

    in Rants and Raves

    Posted

    Thank you all for the advice. I think the biggest thing I get out of it is 1.) it's fun. 2.) ego boost...I know, I shouldn't have to find one...lol 3.) I've never really been single so I'm just living vicariously through the web... :D I'm going to have to behave myself, at least till I talk to DH about it. Thanks again for all the advice. TNT

  18. Why Oh Why!

    in Rants and Raves

    Posted

    Ok, since everyone here is so good at giving advice, here it goes. First of all, I am a hopeless flirt. I love flirting, love the feel I get from it! Especially online flirting. To me, it is perfectly safe and harmless, for the most part. My problems is this, I'm married, happily married at that, but the ones I get to flirt with, want to come meet me, I know that I should be happy, and I am, in that aspect, but what do I do. I can't meet these people, my husband would flip!!! I don't want to risk my marriage, but I can't seem to shutup when these guys start talking!!! I even have one that knows I'm married, but still wants to meet me, and he's not far away at all, like day trip kinda drive....Gulp!!! :unsure: From a moral standpoint, I know I shouldn't play these games, cause it's not nice, and I'm not trying to be mean at all. I'm really not a mean person! But please, any advice will help. I dont want to stop flirting and half the time I do it without realising till i'm shoulder deep! Yeah, never claimed to be the most observant!! :P Anyway, thanks for listening. TNT

  24. Get To Know Your Board Members!

    in Everything Else

    Posted

    1. What drives you buck wild in the bedroom?

    When he teases me mercilessly while being blindfolded.

    2. What totally turns you off in the bedroom?

    when kids try to come in, and when dogs start whining at the door

    3. What is your favorite type of sexual experience? (ex straight, doggie, oral, bondage, etc...)

    bondage, doggie

    4. What makes you hard (Men) or wet (Ladies)?

    Talking dirty and flirting...not at same time...lol

    5. What is one tip or idea you'd like to pass on to everyone here?

    It's all about forgiveness and forgetfullness. If you can't forgive, it won't work out, cause no one...not even me...is perfect in or out of bed. ;):P

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