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  1. So my wife says to me tonight, "Want some green tea?"

    "No thanks." I say.

    "Are you sure?"

    "I'm sure."

    "It's good for you."

    "STOP NAGGING ME ABOUT MY HEALTH!" I bark, kidding, because this thread is going on. But she doesn't know I'm kidding.

    "I don't nag you about your health. You nag ME about MY health."

    "I don't nag. Just gently prod. . . . Besides, if I didn't nag you, who would? . . . "

    Anyway, I finally explained I was kidding with my bark, and we had a little laugh over it. She says my nagging isn't overbearing and hasn't pushed her to wanting a divorce yet. :)

    Funny! Thanks for sharing that!

  2. I think if you are attracted to a person emotionally, you most likely find them sexually arousing. But if you want to just jump some ones bones, you don't necessarily find them anything more than physically stimulating. So I would like to be to be in the "your swell" category . :)

    And LL, you are as swell as they come! :)

  3. Nagging is counter productive.

    Helping your partner make better choices might be a wiser move.

    Instead of a bowl of ice cream in the evening, maybe some sorbet or

    Frozen yougert and fresh berries. Popcorn instead of chips or nachos.

    Invite them on a walk in a field of wild daisies, or to the park to feed the ducks.

    Find the things your SO enjoys and change them up a bit.

    Be creative, and those better choices may come slowly, but they will happen.

    If you are there participating with them, not nagging, it is a joy, not a job.

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